Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2007

Women in our society are considered sexy and sensuous. The best that men can hope for is to be funny. If a man tries to be sexy he is considered gay.

2007-11-21 07:30:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

im muslim from morocco my wife is chritian american originaly hispanic dominican .

2007-11-21 07:28:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do men like it so much? Yes, I know women watch it too but I am not asking why women like it, I'm asking why men like it so much. I was straight to the point answers, no sugar coating it? If it's 'cuz you like sex...then have sex with your girlfriend or wife. I just don't get it... Oh and PLEASE tell me what is so great about girl on girl action, please tell me that!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just asking so don't be crude to me..thxs.

2007-11-21 07:26:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks to everyone for all of the support an advice the last 2 weeks. It has been the worst time of my life but im glad that I found this board. Happy Holidays

2007-11-21 07:17:40 · 15 answers · asked by Beth66 2

What kind do you have and do you use them for both of you?

2007-11-21 07:13:32 · 22 answers · asked by jim 2

when i dont have any of the documents that were process in cambodia. i really thought he was a good person. thats why i even did this in the first place. now i dont have anything for a divorce. how would this work out for me

2007-11-21 07:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by Julie 1

i know my status is married in cambodia. but i dont want to be longer married to or even known to married to him. how do i get this situation solve

2007-11-21 07:04:32 · 18 answers · asked by Julie 1

My husband and I have only been married for 3 months and things are already spiraling downhill. His daughter came to live with us not even a month after we got married. Her mother who lives 12 hours away dropped her off one day and said she wanted us to keep her for a while. Well we haven't seen her in a year and a half and her bad behavior has become such a stress in our new marriage. all we do now is fight about stupid things when really we're stressed about her. he was laid off his job a week before our wedding which stressed us financially and left me to be the only provider. We already have a younger son who's picking up on her bad behavior. My husband critizes me for not having a better bond with her, but I critisize him for not allowing me to more time to 'accept her as my daughter'. i'm just fed up and stressed out at this point and i'm seriously ready to give up. i just can't believe we're letting a child ruin our marriage.

2007-11-21 06:57:17 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was always raised to believe that the man should be the bread-winner in the household, and that it's okay for the woman to work, but not make as much money as the man.

I no longer agree with that. To me that still seems sexist. What I believe now is that it shouldn't matter who the bread-winner is, as long as the man has a job and is contributing to the welfare of the family. No matter what job he has, he should have one, unless he's on disability or has something wrong that makes him unable to work. What do you think?

2007-11-21 06:54:34 · 38 answers · asked by dg2003 5

Some people are very afraid of marriage and some [like me] are very afraid of divorcing. Thanks guys for your honest answers.

2007-11-21 06:46:12 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

I'm not friends with my husband's ex, but I have nothing against her, either.

He had a life with her- together, they made a beautiful little girl- and it ended (not even sure why- but there must have been a reason).

I read a lot of questions on here from step-parents concerned about the amount of contact between their partner and the ex. It's obvious that most of the time it's all fueled by jealousy..

Do people not feel it's important for a child to see their parents cooperate and have a decent relationship-even if it's not romantic? I encourage my husband to keep contact with his ex. There have been times he's taken his daughter and ex out to dinner without me- Did I mind? No. My daughters that I have with my husband get time with both their parents daily. Why should this little girl not get time with both of hers and no "extras?"

I feel it's important- I wouldn't have entered a relationship with an already father if I didn't expect him to be a GOOD father..

So what gives?

2007-11-21 06:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Enjoy Thanksgiving and shine with Family!! Thouhgts always welcomed :)


"Rivers Run One Way"


Do you ever wonder why rivers run one way,
have you sat in silence, a special place you stay.
Many thoughts abound, yet spoken words not heard,
Alone or lonely, a choice we make, how it seems absurd.

Thinking of the past, seeing success and failure too,
sitting close to GOD, is what I vigilantly must do.

Winds of change appear, yet rarely do we see,
the forest through the trees, as winds lift you and me.
This chatter that I hear,, makes my stomach turn,
living everyday for him,, a new love that I must earn.
Look,, there's GOD,, In the wind, the birds, the wind, the trees,
Painting pictures by the river, always there to please.
You are like my river, in my heart you stay.....
Do you ever wonder,,, "Why Rivers Run One Way?

GOD knows,,,, Tom Caswell

tommy_caswell2000@yahoo.com

2007-11-21 06:39:43 · 3 answers · asked by tommy C 1

My ex boyfriend told me that he moves with his ex babymom because his kids need him because their age is that true that he just moves because of that? or he went back with her?Or is possible that their making love eventhough they broke up long time ago?

2007-11-21 06:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2

Under the fact that "we tell each other everything"

he tells everything even that .. is it normal between couples ?
i dont know .. i never got married before :p

i mean i wouldnt buy a present to someone and then tell them how much it costs i find that rude .. but when two are married ...

Is that normal ?!
If not how can i change that ?

2007-11-21 06:34:36 · 17 answers · asked by Maria 6

I mean if I praise it, the beast gets even more awkward. Should I punish 'im severly occasionally, or mildly frequently?

2007-11-21 06:31:58 · 12 answers · asked by Perseus 3

three years ago i meet my gf by chating in yahoo's room
after a while she told me that she has had a boy friend and asked me to let her go.
to tell you the truth i had never had a gf and was so happy to find one and after a while i aseked her to marry me ,but she saild that she wants to marry her first bf not me and after a while she did.
they got married,but after a year they divorced,
a few days ago she called me and explained the story of her bf's evil's behavier
on the other hand i still love her and in dilemma whether to get marry her or not.
what would you do if you were me?

2007-11-21 06:26:58 · 18 answers · asked by arash 2

2007-11-21 06:23:48 · 32 answers · asked by lisa J 2

2007-11-21 06:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by viraj 1

Why does youth prefer love marriage than arrange marriage

2007-11-21 06:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by Divya 1

I had a horrible fight w/ my hubby this morning and I am still fuming. What happened was, he went out to the bar last night and didn't come home until 3:30am. So we have this rule that has been in effect for years that when he comes home very late on a day that I work that he sleeps on the couch. Because I have to wake up at 7am to go to work and I am a very light sleeper. So last night, he didn't come in and wake me up, but he did come in and take my blanket off of me (I had 2 blankets on 1 fluffy 1 heavy, he actually lifted the fluffy one up (which was on top) and took the heavy one.) So I woke up about 1/2 hour later shivering in the cold (it got below freezing last night). So I go downstairs there is my hubby sleeping on the couch with my heavy blanket!!! The linen closet is full of blankets just a few feet from our bedroom! So I bitched at him this morning and he said i was overreacting, that i was hogging blankets and why did i need 2. What do you think, would you be angry?

2007-11-21 06:13:05 · 25 answers · asked by kallista 3

Is it true that though you love ur spouse, can you still lust another person? If so have you acted on it? would you?

2007-11-21 06:08:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know whats it like after they you wed and days after that.

Doesnt it get boring after a while?

2007-11-21 06:06:45 · 27 answers · asked by jake101free 2

I am close to filing for divorce. I have tried the counseling, my husband refused to go with me. He is just an unreliable, undependable, self-centered, narcassistic man. We fight constantly and I know it must be tearing my kids up (7 and 8 yo), but I am scared what divorce will do to them. I know its not sane to live in a house where there is no love at all. Are they really better off with us divorcing? My husband comes from a divorced family and I honestly think that is the root of half his problems.

2007-11-21 06:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by Paula M 1

I am 30, have no kids, and am not married (I have a bf). I have always had this nervousness about having a child. I'm not nervous so much about the labor and everything that happens during labor but am worried (and have always been) about what guys think when they're watching this happen?

My aunts husband freaked out after the birth. He is a surgical asst. so you'd think he'd be okay with all of it but they RARELY had sex after she had their son because he was "grossed out" by the delivery. I can't help but wonder how many guys get really grossed out and maybe see their wives differently after seieng her give birth. I know that some fall more in love but some feel less attracted...

what has your experience as married people (with kids) been?

2007-11-21 06:00:12 · 25 answers · asked by laura1977 5

I am sure that it is possible to give an honest unswer without being crude, rude, or disrispectful to the young person parents

2007-11-21 05:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Loretta M 3

2007-11-21 05:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by viraj 1

2007-11-21 05:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by bodyandsoul37 1

Too many illigitamate kids out there. Doesn't anyone respect the Bible or the 10 commandments? I guess the end will be coming sooner than we think at this rate. Wicked

2007-11-21 05:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm due around Christmas and this year we made a pact that we will not go over $100 on a gift. There is a necklace I really want that's $300 and i've told him if he can find it on ebay for under $100 I would like that for Christmas. Should he get that as a gift for me having the baby? Or am I expecting too much?

2007-11-21 05:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've somewhat suspected my boyfriend (we have 2 kids together) of cheating- but everytime i've said anything to anyone they have said, "oh you are just being paranoid" (ever man ive ever dated has cheated on me).. Last night we were at home and I was talking to my sister and a call came through on the call-waiting and I answered it and it was a female. (because it was call-waiting it didnt show up on the caller id the name or number) anyways- she asked to speak with him- he was in the living room playing with our girls. He took the phone- and after a second walked into the front hallway and was pacing around talking. I was listening to the conversation but didn't hear much- and he was talking like, "yes, ok" and "sure" he was more just giving answers... anyways.. then I hear him say something about one of the guys he works with and then he gave her directions to our house and saying what time he thought he'd be out of work. If I heard right- something about 8pm. He didn't

2007-11-21 05:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5