Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2007

2007-11-21 13:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by back2future 5

I called him and told him i needed to talk to him..
I told him not to get mad that it was about a guy that was asking me for my number...i didnt even finish telling him and he got mad..so i got mad and i didnt even finish telling him..for the first time i was trying to be honest and tell him that a guy ask me for my number and that he was flirting with me.Why couldnt he just reacted normal i didnt gave him my number, but i didnt finish telling him because he got mad...so then i told him to leave me alone,he pushed me really hard i felt bad and i didnt talk to him i was ignoring him because it hurt that he pushed me..Then later on he grab me by my shirt and pulled me towards him really ugly i thought he was going to hit me but he just threw me .. Then we started arguing and i told him to leave that i didnt want to see him and he told me i didnt know him yet that he will kill me if he had too..i dont know if he really mean it but i dont like what he said..

2007-11-21 13:30:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

today my girlfriend broke up with me after 1 and half years for another guy during this 1 and a half years my friends got angry at the amount of time i spent with my ex so i dont have friends my family think its pathetic and no ones intrested in talking to me

so im alone

what should i do

2007-11-21 13:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by WereYouExpectUsToGoWhenBombsFall 1

i took my kids away from an abusive situation, and called social sevices. they told me to file immediately, but i don't know if i need to do it here or in florida. if i can file for legal aid here or if i need to go there.

2007-11-21 13:20:40 · 4 answers · asked by leif_r_ihrck 1

i am getting divorced, and i don't know what to do? please tell me!

2007-11-21 13:19:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 13:12:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife, my three sons, and I AM living

my wife, my three sons, and I ARE living

2007-11-21 13:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

to have mfm with hubbie + everything from partner to what occurs is 100% your choice

2007-11-21 13:08:06 · 15 answers · asked by reefpirate 1

Do you still have any regrets said in the past or recently?

Are you considering amends to heal this unhealthy condition?

2007-11-21 13:07:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

God knows I do and I am not nearly getting as much as I once was. What have you dont in the past to get more of what you need?

2007-11-21 13:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 12:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3

3 months before my bf dated me, he told he had sex with an escort he met off the net. he said he didnt know she was an escort til after the sex. then i looked on his computer and he had her resume on it (saying she worked at various massage parlours, and working as an independant escort). Do escorts even need a resume???
Anyway, I also found a photo of her in his desk, one of her head but you could see her wearing a bra.
Is he lying to me, saying he didnt know she was an escort? This is disgusting to find out, because you would assume you're partner isn't out sleeping with escorts (even if its only once) and he also admitted to sleeping with an older couple (mid 40s, he was 25 at the time. He liked having sex with an older woman- while the husband watched. Is this his older woman fetish, because he's a HUGE momma's boy. He also told me this girl was his friend, but she was 17 at the time...what would u do, how should i think? what do u think of this guy? i wish i knew this b4

2007-11-21 12:41:48 · 12 answers · asked by chocolate_cat 3

in bed with another woman. They were both naked, and it looked like they may have been fooling around. She said she was just watching TV, and that they weren't doing anything. I got so upset that I ran out of the room, but in doing so, I hit my head on the door. Can I sue her for this? It really hurts, and I had to get stitches.

2007-11-21 12:34:52 · 25 answers · asked by guyitsover14 2

2007-11-21 12:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5

Does it happen to everyone that after a year or so it is no longer like it used to be? I don't feel the passion, the desire, the butterflies anymore. It has happened in all my relationships & I have terminated themt thinking that there is no love anymore.I am starting to think that is normal or tWhat can I do to keeo it going? Somehow we fall into this routine and everything is so predictable and not good anymore. I want him to want to see me, be with me, eat me if necesarry like it used 2 be. It used to be that he would get hard from seeing me. We would do crazy things as to masturbate on the phone while we were away from each other and now I don't even see myself able to do that. Sex is boring and awful. He comes and it's over. He goes to sleep and I feel used. I have talked about it and he says that"I feel too good". Bullshit, I feel the same way I did at the begining when it wasn't the way it is now. Does he not love me or like me anymore? I am 25 and he is 30. We live together

2007-11-21 12:11:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Caught my husband on the computer 3X's w/porn and still no sex in the bed room. He blames my hours of work and I blame my self. Any sugg would be helpful.

2007-11-21 12:04:35 · 34 answers · asked by pumpkin 2

If i wrote it in a wrong way, your comments are welcome.

2007-11-21 12:01:51 · 9 answers · asked by Maaka 4

He comes home from work and sits on the couch, plays xbox 360, and drinks beer!? I understand him wanting to un-wind and relax after a hard days work however he gets on there and then our son and myself become 2nd?! He sits there and talks to his "friends" with his head set and anything I say to him goes in one ear and out the other! I have told him MANY times that i'm tired of our son and myself comming second to his stuped games!!! It could be 1-2am and both of us have to go to work and he'll still be sitting there playing, i'd ask him to turn it off and i get " oh i can't its a team game!" YES he can't even just shut it off....i'll have the baby's coat on standing by the door waiting to leave because we have to wait till he finishes his game!!!! I have threted to leave, thretend to hide the xbox and controlers...actuley did once! But i'm feeling unloved and unwanted, it breaks my heart that he'd rather play xbox then with his son and spend time with his wife!? Any suggetions?

2007-11-21 11:47:06 · 47 answers · asked by Tina B 2

I just read a question here from somewhere else. Something about an Open Marriage, in that the couples can have sex out of their marriage with whom ever they please to have it with. DOES THIS MEAN that these guys have an extremely super high sex drive and are always horny for sex all the time, that they cannot get satisfied with the husband or wife, so they both look for sexaul satsifaction from someone else????????? I am just merely curious about this!!! Thanks guys for your honest answers.

2007-11-21 11:38:47 · 19 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

i have been thinking about suicide recientally, actually tried but just got really sick, i feel there is no way out.

I have been married for 10+ years to a wonderful and beautiful woman and have 3 children. here is where the fun begins... I am on the road to a medical diagnosis for a heriditary condition similar to ADD (only gets worse with time) but I have the added curse of not having 'theory of mind'. that means that I am in my own emotional world, I cannot feel empathetic, or know what other people are thinking or feeling. I completely DO NOT get facial cues either.

This has led to MANY years of my wife being angry and frustrated with me for 'not getting it'. My children have NO respect for me (2 of them have the same condition), and dont listen or anything. I have terrible planning skills, ie no retirement or savings. recientally my wife has detached from me and has said several times that she wishes i was dead, she would be better off.

I try to change but i cant.

2007-11-21 11:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

earlier i posted a few posts about how i suspect my dh is cheating on me. Well like I suspected- when he came home tonight from work he asked if he could go out for a couple of beers with one of the guys from work. When I asked what time he said, "oh around 8ish" and he told me the bar they are going to... well last night when mystery woman called and he walked into the other room i overheard him saying, "8" and then he gave her our address and directions to our house. He knew I was going to be gone at my moms with our daughters this evening helping her get turkey ready for tomorrow. So supposidly "she" will be there to pick him up from our house in 40 minutes. I'm planning on following him to see if he's really being honest with me- but how do I go about it? We live down a private drive on a cul-de-sac in the suburbs- so sitting on the street would be obvious- and there arent any streets to park on. I'm afraid he isnt really going to the bar where he says so I dont want to

2007-11-21 11:22:41 · 20 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5

For example he forces her to nap and she's almost 6.
She cried for 1 hr wanting mommy.
He hangs up on me on the phone when I tell him things like
do not force Alexa to go potty before bed etc.
I think they need a parenting coach.
What can I do? I want to help my lil girl she has finally stopped bed-wetting. I have a psychologist.

2007-11-21 11:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by relaxrx 2

My hubby was having fun outside .After months of fight & aruguments i have decided to give him another chance but I get very angry whenever i see him the thought of what he did makes me boil .i try my best to irritate him even when he does his best to make me happy .but it does not help .how am i to get over this

2007-11-21 11:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by Sabrina T 1

I see this a lot in this forum when a woman has had an affair with a married man.
Look at this link
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071121/ap_on_re_mi_ea/saudi_rape
This is what happens in societies where women are controlled and villified to the nth degree.
Stoning, lashes, public executions is the far end of the spectrum of this kind of name calling. Do you see that?
This is how women are vilified (made the bad guy) in society.

2007-11-21 11:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 3

Would you be turned off or even leave a woman if you discovered she had long, protruding labia?

2007-11-21 11:08:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 16 and for as long as i can remember, my parents have been off n on off n on and then back off again! growing up, i felt my home life was unstable and extremely unpredictable. Finally, my parents have been able to keep there seperation. Its been 2 years now, off. However, i have found them kissing, also foundout my mum had slept with my dad even tho he had been seein other women, plus it was only a couple of months ago, and they text constantly etc; etc; it seems to me that if it wasnt for me n my brother, they would be bak together. we all know its truthfully, the wrong thing to do. Hes hurt my mum too much, she knows that too. Shes signed the divorce papers yet hasnt submitted them. Lately, mum and i have been fighting alot. not over her n dad, just in general. I feel that i am just completely numb to her now and i know its bad, but i dont feel any sympathy or anything nemore. I am beginning to speak nasty to her, i know that, but it feels like i cant help it. iv lost all respect

2007-11-21 11:06:04 · 3 answers · asked by *Rissoles* 1

my friend and her husband have 2 kids. He works 2 jobs and she stays home with the kids. She told me that by the time there done paying bills they have 20 dollars to there name. They also have a car that needs to be fixed. She said shes not gonna have any money to give her kids christmas presents. I feel really bad for her. She asked me for advice on this issue and she said she would feel like a bad parent. She asked me for advice on what she should do or how should she feel..so i wanted opinions to see if my advice was on the right track cuz i dont wanna upset her. I offered her 1,000 dollars to get them gifts and she didnt want it. Do you think me offering her that money made her feel even worse?

2007-11-21 11:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by chickalips11 1

but have a lot of questions about it. How much does it cost? Can you find Therapists that will accept a payment plan? Does anyone know of a good one in or around Dallas Georgia? Any suggestions?

2007-11-21 10:54:42 · 3 answers · asked by janbp 1

I am just wondering if I am missing something here with my hubby- as he seems to beleive that paying the house bills, buying groceries and letting me use his car is showing me he loves me. BUT I dont equate love with material things but with emotional things, like romatic gestures, sending me cards, buying me flowers, writing me email poems and affection like hugs and kisses, backrubs and sharing our thoughts each day. I am way off base thinking I should have these things to feel loved?

2007-11-21 10:39:58 · 13 answers · asked by flyingdove 4

I am in US but not independent bcoz of my visa status.. so cant work.my marriage was an arrange one,I was happy for an year..but now when i have two kids.. i feel this relationship is not working so fine, my husband is so demanding... he wants what he says. in terms of sexual needs or others.. all in all he is dominating.
My realtionship with his mother and sister is also not good, they dont seem to treat me nicely, i feel everybody, even my husband does not share all things with me ..the things that his mother or sister knows.. i am never aware of...
i think of divorcing but , i fear i ahve no money to fight the case and will loose kids, so cant think of it .
I tried to talk to him, that why doesnt he share everything with me , he says its nothing like that, nothing wrong, but i know i am not happy, i didnt got what i dreamt of !
He is a nice father but not a nice husband .I talked to my parents and they say i have to adjust whatever it is. I am alone in US ,please help me .

2007-11-21 10:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous