Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2007

happy thanksgiving GOD BLESS ALL

2007-11-21 16:52:24 · 23 answers · asked by ? 6

when your parents are getting divorced, does the child get to choose who she/he wants to live with?

****my parents arent getting divorced, im just curious***

2007-11-21 16:50:27 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

I have a friend that ended a 10 year relationship and is having a hard time of it. She keeps herself busy with work, house, kids but finds herself backsliding sometimes, although she knows it is all for the best. Are there any on line support groups that anyone can reccommend to get her thru the bad times. I try to listen and be supportive but I am not able to be there all the time.

2007-11-21 16:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by Patty 2

I'm watching a documentary on VH1 about bi-sexual couples who are into swinger's clubs. What are you views on swingers? Would you ever try it?

Personally, I don't think I could ever do that just because of my beliefs and personal views on relationships.

2007-11-21 16:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by Madison 6

I am a full time college student and provide for my family with loans. My husband doesnt work and stays home with baby. I am on my last year of Bachelors and he has stayed home since baby has been born. He says he will get custody because he has spent more time with her and my family background isn't too great.

2007-11-21 16:29:27 · 12 answers · asked by Larisa M 2

How long have you been married and do you and your spouse have alot in common?
My bf and I love each other and have talked about marriage before, but now when I bring it up he says he doesnt know if he wants to ever get married. He says its b/c we wouldnt be happy b/c we dont have alot in common and would end up miserable

2007-11-21 16:28:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't pursue him. Well, not really. I flirted with him but I never acted on anything. He came to me. He kissed me first. He told me things about his marriage and his wife that made him miserable. He called me. He arranged times for us to meet each other. He initiated the sex. He told me that he loved me. He charmed the pants off of me (literally)! He said all of the things that I needed and wanted to hear. He used me for sex and then he bailed on me when things got tough.

So, why am I entirely to blame for everything? I wasn't there by myself. Why doesn't he get blamed for his part?

2007-11-21 16:24:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have a friend who drives a awsom 94 ford escort, dark blue cool rims etc.my "friend" offers to let me borrow the vehicle for awhile if i do nauty stuff with them. kind of like a trade and i REALLY need a car cause mine got impounded a few months ago an I been on the streets walkin to get everyone except for the buss sometimes. so I agree to whats going on an I figure "owell whats an hour gonna do - im getting better done in the long run" so were in the car doin "adult stuff" behind the local kmart [which is closed down] an all of a sudden a cop guy comes up all quick after he sees us. we i had to go jail (thats why I wasnt on here for 2 days) and now I have to go to court and I think now im bein on the sexual offenders list. THIS IS HORRABLE!!!!!! The person I was with started to RUN AWAY what a wuss and duh got caut. so im wonderin will i get off the hook when I see a judge? I know im gonna get a public defender but im thinkin I should come clean and to get him in trouble more.

2007-11-21 16:20:39 · 44 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

I used to marriage with who is former Marine until about four years a go. We were lived on station in Japan and have sent back to U.S for legal matter to divorce in December 2003 by commander. I start from zero, which is nothing with me except my lap top and two suite cases of belongings. No Family (my families are in Japan). No Friends. No Job. No Car. No Place to Live. This guy took everything away from me include the children. This guy kept my belongings since December 2003. I got some of my clothes back but it’s not that much. This guy said he does not want to keep my belongings because it taking the spaces in his house. But whatever this guy says and does, it does not match. I would like to have my belongings back. Please answer to the questions shown in below. Thank you!

Q1. Did you had mind of he/she will return to you if you keep his/her belongings?
Q2. Why did you keep his/her belongings?
Q3. How long did you keep it?
Q4. Did you returned it to him/her?
Q5. What did you do with it if you did not return it to him/her?

2007-11-21 15:58:44 · 5 answers · asked by aries44 2

I am 37 years old and my boyfriend is 29 years old. He told me that we wanted to marry me 6 months ago, and I kinda agree. He worked so hard to catch me and after he got my heart, he kinda different. I love him, but totally in love with him yet. He sometimes lie and ignore me nowadays, even though he told me he still love me. I am kinda confused. I was thinking just to leave him alone and move on. really felt like he is playing games. PLEASE ADVICE.

2007-11-21 15:47:33 · 16 answers · asked by farh71 1

Yeah those of you who know me know that I'm a guy and I listen to Delilah.

Well, I was listening to her the other night, and "It's Raining Men" came on. I was in the car by myself, and I cranked it up and sang along and did the head bop to the song -- I guess because I think it's the Jam.

DOES THIS MEAN I'M GAY?

2007-11-21 15:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband have been separated for 4 and a half months and he is not supporting his kids. He is a sorry piece of sh*t. Childsupport recovery closed down the case talking about he's receiving ssi. He is not handicapped. He works and partys like the government does. He was put on it as a child because he is add but alot of others was put on it for the same reason but got cut off when they was 18 years old. His mom works for the government and she is going in the system doing something illegal. he is going to get what's coming to him though. When i get some money i am going to get a divorce.

2007-11-21 15:35:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Children
Communication
Money and Possesions
Sex



Thanks for answering!

2007-11-21 15:17:15 · 38 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3

I am in a bad marriage basically. He is in denial. He is a controlling, manipulative abusive person. He actually is making me go to his friends for the holiday tomorrow and told me"you better dress nice and dress our son nice and you will do what I say and be nice to people and be happy". All I want to do is sleep all day and cry. How can I pretend in front of all these people I hardly know (his friends) I am a happy wife and I want to secretly leave? **crying*** Any ideas on how to keep conposure? Should I fake it or just openly be unhappy???

2007-11-21 15:12:09 · 23 answers · asked by Samantha 3

My dad wants to run my grandma's truck back over to her house so it will be there because he bought pipes to put underground for maintenance work at her house!!! He wants me to go with him but i'm in my Pajamas its 11:07 on the East Coast right now!! I don't want to go anywhere. If I tell him he'll be mad and say why not nothing better to do than play on that laptop!! And he's been sober for a month after dealing with his son's 12th year death anniversary and my maternal grandpa's death. Please help!! Thanks!!

2007-11-21 15:09:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A while back I was talking about about this exercise man on the FIT channel. His name is Gilad. My sister and I make sarcastic jokes about him. We mimmick the accent....well my husband overheard and said"There's a girl at work , she's fine and I'd like to f*ck her!!!" I couldn't believe my ears. I was totally disgusted by his comment, but I ignored him because I was not going to let him get to me.
Well...tonight we went out to dinner.....We were waiting for our food. There was a guy in front of us with crazy black and red hair. I said"Look honey you should get your hair like that." I was being sarcastic. He looked at me and said Well I wish you would get tight pants like that chick over there. " I feel he is not a very nice person. I really do not want to even speak to him. I am upset...should I be? I am not making any sexual jokes they are just sarcastic remarks and he comes back with sexual references.
NoTE: This is my husband's yahoo acct

2007-11-21 15:06:20 · 17 answers · asked by chilly 2

A while back I was talking about about this exercise man on the FIT channel. His name is Gilad. My sister and I make sarcastic jokes about him. We mimmick the accent....well my husband overheard and said"There's a girl at work , she's fine and I'd like to f*ck her!!!" I couldn't believe my ears. I was totally disgusted by his comment, but I ignored him because I was not going to let him get to me.
Well...tonight we went out to dinner.....We were waiting for our food. There was a guy in front of us with crazy black and red hair. I said"Look honey you should get your hair like that." I was being sarcastic. He looked at me and said ,"Well I wish you would get tight pants like that chick over there. " I feel he is not a very nice person. I really do not want to even speak to him. I am upset...should I be? I am not making any sexual jokes they are just sarcastic remarks and he comes back with sexual references.

2007-11-21 15:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by chilly 2

I'm not sure I'm still in love with him. We married when I was 17 and I had my first kid 3 days after my 19th b-day. Now I've gined a few pounds and he treats me like ****. He thinks that i'm a housemaid, he won't even let me go to school to get an education... It really pisses me off!!!!

2007-11-21 15:03:24 · 11 answers · asked by c_mize85 1

This guy I like was supposed to come to my house to hang out with me and mutual friends from work for a drink. He was all for it when we left work but he didn't show up. I told my friend that was my sign that he wasn't interested or he would have come.
The next work day he apologized for not coming & said he got home from work late (which I know is truthful) and said he made the mistake of going home and then crashed and had to work in the morning. He said he owed me twice now and said how about going out the next night instead (with the gang I assume- though he didn't specifically say that). I wasn't able to go the next night and nobody went out. Since then though he has mentioned a couple of times how he's sorry he missed it and has even teased me about a couple of things from the evening that he heard about.
Am I right to assume that his not coming is the "bigger" sign that he isn't interested or is his teasing me about it a good sign and I shouldn't give up? Whats my next move?

2007-11-21 15:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by jenny s 2

N for how long was the friendship goin on? but ofcourse if there was no kissing or smtng.

--Pleease, Just be open n share your story, your experience,..cuz id love to know. :) Its so interesting for me.
-Dont you think, that when you first start as friends,.not even having the thought of you too being together forver,..and then when it happens, it gets even stronger.n special?

2007-11-21 14:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible? Been together 9 years and have a little one...not so easy to just leave. It happened 5 years ago but I found out about it 2 years ago...still having extreme trust issues. Any advice besides move on and get over it?

2007-11-21 14:58:11 · 18 answers · asked by pinkdaisy 3

I have been married for over 5 years and my husband and I have had many problems in the relationship but I always toughed it out. I recently started feeling like I dont love him any longer. I met this wonderful man online from another country. He is the most romantic real person I have ever met. I have only known him for 2 weeks but we talk for hours on chat , text messaging and on the phone. we are both in love already. It happened so fast I do not know what to do. My husband thinks nothing is wrong in the marriage. I feel like I am a bad person... What do you think I should do..... My husband has no idea this is going on. I want to be with this man.. Please give me your advice.....

2007-11-21 14:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by lost girl 1

2007-11-21 14:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has lied to state police to have me arreststed, lied to dyfs about her crack use - she was found out when she failed piss test, lied to every one that i beat her when it was self defense( i called the cops to get her off me). i feel as if i have to prove my innocence. she even has some dirtball living in my house. my current attorney is not aggressive. can anyone please help me with a lead on a "dirty snake" type attorney that will knock this liar down to human level. at my witts end. she even is now brainwashing kids. me and my kids are begging for any help with a good attorney.

2007-11-21 14:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by ken f 1

I am seen to my wife as just a provider sometimes(she works also, but i am the breadwinner)
The only person that ever told me she was happy for me was an ex-co worker who had a crush on me over a year ago before I left my former employer to go to my current company where I have had all this success.
She called me last year when i got the offer and she told me how happy she was for me and that i deserved it and that she was rooting for my sucess. This disturbed me that my own wife was not happy for me but another woman who i found attractive as well was happy for me. She also is in the same profession I am(Automotive Fiance Business for OEM japanese Manufactruers.). And professionally I may have more in common than my wife.
Anyways, why can't my own wife be more happy for me?(We have been married for 8 years and she rode the tought imes though before the recent success)
And I found out this female(single) former co-worker was trying to contact me recently.What do I make of this?

2007-11-21 14:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by polar bear 1

As soon as me and my ex-bf quit seeing each other he started seeing another woman. It was not long that he moved her in and now I hear they are engaged. They have only been together for 4 mos. now. He told me before that he was tired of living by hisself. Do you think he loves her or do you think he just wants to have somebody to live with him? He also told somebody that he was tired of washing dishes and washing clothes.

2007-11-21 14:47:46 · 10 answers · asked by reeselover2004 1

I have been married for almost three years. Back in March we separated for about a month but ended up getting back together thinking we could make it work. Now, 8 months later, we're back at square one. Nothing has changed and neither of us seem to want to change what needs to be changed. We have decided to separate again, and are pretty sure it will end in a divorce.

My main question is: should we try to make things work again, knowing that it didn't work last time, or should we just call it quits so we can move on and begin healing?

2007-11-21 14:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just wondering what is normal. How long have you been married? We've been married a year and two months and our sex life has really dropped off here lately. I want it more than he does, is that normal? I'd say we're lucky if we have intercourse once a month.

2007-11-21 14:27:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 14:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 14:24:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous