I am 37 years old and my boyfriend is 29 years old. He told me that we wanted to marry me 6 months ago, and I kinda agree. He worked so hard to catch me and after he got my heart, he kinda different. I love him, but totally in love with him yet. He sometimes lie and ignore me nowadays, even though he told me he still love me. I am kinda confused. I was thinking just to leave him alone and move on. really felt like he is playing games. PLEASE ADVICE.
2007-11-21 15:47:33 · 16 answers · asked by farh71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him if he doesn't marry you by the new year you will leave him for good. If you do this you will have to leave by January 1 2008.
2007-11-21 16:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he loves the thrill of the chase and he burns out fast when the prize has been caught. He is not long term if this is the case and you will just have more heartache down the road if you stick around. I say run now and find someone that is more into a real relationship not someone that you can't rely on.
2007-11-21 23:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's playing games now he will play games when your married. Marriage doesn't change who a person is. It's easier to walk away now then it would be if your married. Have a heart to heart with him and express your concerns and if he doesn't change then you need to make walk. Life's to short for games we have one life to live. Don't waste another day of your life not being treated the way you deserve to be treated you will regret if you in the long run.
2007-11-21 23:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. There is a reason you feel this way ..he is obviously neglecting you. You can do better for yourself & find someone who will love you 100% of the time. I think if he is ignoring you he may have another woman he is cheating with, or else he is hoping you will break it off so he won't have to be te "bad guy." If I were you I wouldn't proceed with a relationship that makes you feel unhapy or leaves you questioning his feelings for you. Best Wishes sweetie!!
2007-11-21 23:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by QTpie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need some you time that your not breaking up with him just need to slow down and that your not ready to get married if you ever are again and that if he can't handle that then move on
2007-11-22 00:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Myra N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wonderful that you did not follow up on the proposal. You are unhappy now , so get out while you can. Romances run their course and sometimes and it is nobodys fault. When its over its over..Finish it.
2007-11-21 23:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME men are like that. after getting what they worked hard for, they'd just toss it and/or put it up and forget how important it was for them to have it then. Just like a trophy, they did their best shot to get it, but after having it, they just put it somewhere and forget about it.
2007-11-22 09:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥angelfire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not how a man acts that wants to get married. If he is complacent already I would not marry him. I would get out and don't look back.
2007-11-22 00:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad, but girl listend to ur heart, u cant go wrong with that!
Respect your self and feel proud of what you r and about you want.
2007-11-21 23:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by la chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might love you his own way, but his not in loved with you. you love him more than you love yourself. let him find his way somewhere else , his just wasting your time, his a kid not a man. a real man doesn't act this kinda way about his woman.the age is nothing but a number. he haven't immature completely. you are his Lady not his mother.
2007-11-22 00:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by lizrobledo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋