Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2007

t month and her app. is next week. i dont have the strength any more and im not sure that i love her anymore,but i have been faithful to her the whole time... we only talk by e-mail, and she doesnt always answer me.. i guess the question is why did she wait so long to make an app. with the doc.??

2007-11-21 10:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by biglou 3

2007-11-21 10:30:45 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does that mean?

2007-11-21 10:25:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 10:22:26 · 3 answers · asked by l 1

I found out that I was pregnant in september, his mum came to live with us a week before the wedding, but a couple of weeks after we were married he decides he NEEDS to go out with his mates, yet in the whole year we were engaged he NEVER went out once, even though I said for him to go out once in a while, he refused and said he weren't interested he would rather be with me.
But lately it feels like he ONLY wants to go out with his mates and we never go out anymore what can I do

2007-11-21 10:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by hyperactivetigger 2

what ever could it be....??

do you want to gamble and find out, or go home with a bag of jelly babies??

2007-11-21 10:14:30 · 15 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4

today i comed home n i open door n there hubby is right were i lefted him on couch n he watch tv n drinkin miller lite n he have 2 pall malls in his mouh n i look @ tv n he watch girl gone wilds!!!!! then i look back over at him i notice he have his pants undoned!!!!!!!!!! but i not ables to see nothing cause he belly cover that area down there but iyelled @ him n tolded him to stops watchin that trash n i turn tv off n he not 2 happy!!!!!!!!!!!! then he demand macdonals n i try n says no cause he bad but he get reely mad n he start throwin stuff so i just gose get it,,,,,,,,,,shood i worry bout what he dose during day????????

2007-11-21 10:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out by accident. i want to disown her now cos im against it. my bf says its her life. how would u feel if it was your mum? both men have kids.

2007-11-21 09:28:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men and Women Was I being unreasonable?
My ex boyfriend and I had a fight over disaplining my 7 yr. old. Finally I asked him how should I approch you when I don't agree with what you're doing. He said if I knew anything about him then I should understand him and give a chance to do it. I said it wasn't fair and he got mad, told me I thought that men were all bad and girls were all good, like I don't like men. This really hurt and pissed me off so I told him to get out.
8 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-11-21 09:21:29 · 27 answers · asked by single mami 2

Before we got married, we did it every nite--now all of a sudden, it stopped. I take pride in my hygiene and I know that's not it. I don't get it. I once asked him and he told me it was too much work! I'm always there to satisfy him--it's not fair!

2007-11-21 09:17:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently start talking back to my ex who lives long distance. I was in school where he stays and we were together for 7 months until I discovered he was cheating for the last 2 months of our relationship. Upon finding that out he broke up with me. I was heart broken and he had a I don't care attitude towards the situation. We had words and upon those words I lied about being pregnant by him and told him I better not have a STD. Anyway to get over my heart break I ran into one of my ex's and we had sex and the condom broke and I really got pregnant. Anyway now it is almost 2 years later and he has been married and "suppostly" divorced from the girl he cheated on me with She recently had a miscarriage at 4 months pregnant. For the past few months we have been talking as friends on the phone and he ask me to marry him and have his baby. He says how he miss me and he wants to settle down. Should I stop talking to him? I don't want to fall in love with him and he do the same thing

2007-11-21 08:46:31 · 32 answers · asked by zah 3

2007-11-21 08:44:53 · 24 answers · asked by Mary 2

2007-11-21 08:43:45 · 18 answers · asked by C 2

Dunno know, sometimes I feel with all the high divorce rates, it makes me concern about marriage and dating all those jerks out there. I know there's nothing wrong with me. Though, the dating pool gets a bit of challenge once you get older?

I'm only 28 years old and yeah, I haven't felt that spark with anyone. I've dated casually but none turned out serious.

2007-11-21 08:43:24 · 15 answers · asked by mitchchan 5

Aaaarrrrgggghhhh!!!!!! My ex can push my buttons so much that I want to start punching his face in and never stop!!! Messy separation and other people involved on both sides, kids staying with me but huge financial issues to sort out etc etc.... But I used to worship the ground he walked on and now 5 minutes in his company and even him flicking a pen and the way he talks winds me up to the point where I could be done for serious GBH!!!

Calm me down please...............

2007-11-21 08:39:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband very much. But he is gone alot and I have needs as well. I am very lonely I talk to him on the phone alot but it's not the same as having someone there to kiss, hold and feel. I have lots of toys but once again I want the real thing. I have thought about walking up to a stranger on the street and kissing them and walking away. I miss having passionate kisses the most, even when he is home he doesn't kiss me in a passionate way. We have an alright sex life when he is home. We have been married for 5yrs and I'm bored. I have tried to tell him these things many times and nothing ever changes. Help!

2007-11-21 08:34:36 · 36 answers · asked by annie 1

I'm 24 and she is 29. She is my first girlfriend, and I've known her for about 4 years. About 6 months ago, she started to talk about marriage and then it just kinda advanced from there...Last night, she asked me very seriously when I was going to marry her.
I'm not ready right now, I mean I even need another year and half untill I finish college, because I'm living with my parents and have no money. But she doesn't really seem to care about that. She just wants to marry me, just so that we are married. She said that I can keep living with my parents and everything would be normal as if we were not married until I finish school and ready to really start a new life with her.
My parents don't know about this, but I've always known that my parents don't approve of me marrying her, even though they say she is nice. Her parents love me, and I think are also pushing her to marry me. I don't want to lose her, but how do I tell her I'm not ready?

2007-11-21 08:31:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have given my all to my husband, he knows this but he lacks the imagination (í'm guessing) to surprise me. I'm talking about we've been together for 10 yrs and just once I'd love the element of surprise. He used to do that pre-marriage and kids. I don't receive Valentines gifts/Anniversary gifts etc and his excuse is money but I make sure his needs are met in other ways. I'm a very simple woman, communicate my needs effectively and yet, I've never been taken out for dinner or a getaway or anything even a simple surprise-- a So how do I continue a lackluster marriage.

2007-11-21 08:16:26 · 34 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

2007-11-21 08:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jim Morrison's L.A. Woman... 3

Im here in Norway he is in Philippines,We were married last April 2004.
We have 1 son 2yrs old his parents take care of our son.
Can this be the reasonable grounds?
1.Irresposible
2.Young 22 yrs old,immature
3.he cannot feed us
4.he is drunkard,keeps drinking
5.Our wedding is not our plan but his parents
6.He didnt take care of our son and our house
7.he lives by himself
8.No plans for the family
9.I just realized I dont love him
What else is the reason for us to be together?I dont have a boyfriend.
I supposed to separate him last december but he want to kill himself if I did it.So I gave him a second chance.i told him to take care our son and stay home and I will send money for them but he gave our son to his parents.
Help me pls.thanks

2007-11-21 08:06:39 · 20 answers · asked by sweetie29 6

if your a single male and you have sexual relations with a married woman, what conciquences happen to you other than a conflict with her husband?

2007-11-21 08:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by allan swartch 1

If a woman with two kids (age 2 and 6) ask for a divorce, does her husband have the right to say no for support? Or can he take away the kids from her? What is his right? And what is her right? Will it make it worse if she's the one that asking for divorce instead of mutual? And will it be worse that she already have a new man in her life? Any divorce attorney can answer this for me please???

2007-11-21 07:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by lilly_0578 3

I have been married about 4.5 yrs the marriage on a whole has been very emotionally rocky for me because i am treated like property and ignored.I am going to be turning 26 yrs old soon and my husband is 39 yrs old we have a daughter(adopted)who is 3.5 yrs old after i could not concieve even though i had no medical issues.Looking back i think i was more infatuated with the gifts he was giving me but it felt like love at that time.I never saw his cold nature and also did not see any of the controling nature or the physical abuse but it did come.The trade off to his controling nature was that he allowed me to buy whatever i wanted.But after our last fight where i ended up needing stiches was the last straw.How do i act at thanksgiving knowing that the day after while he's in California on business i'm leaving him ?

2007-11-21 07:54:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend of almost 4 years ended our relationship not so long ago. She says we wont get back together, but then says I need to trust God. That if were meant to be he'll bring us back together. She says she's not pursuring other relationships, but that I dont need to force " us " on her, and whatever happens-happens. Then when I'm not so available to her, she doesnt like it so much, she wants to call from time to time, or invite me out to lunch or something, and when she does she still flirts with me. She's pretty stubborn, and says no we won't, but then she'll say God who created the world and me can change my mind. That if she is the desire of my heart, I need to trust Him, before he'll ever give her back. I know it may sound weird in todays modern world, but these are the facts. I still love her, and the way she acts I'd say she still loves me, but just says no when it comes to us dating again. I think she wants to see some change in me, and when I do she'll be ready for us.

2007-11-21 07:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by Advice 4

my wifes b-day is in three weeks and i wanted to get a motel room on the beach and have a really nice quiet dinner but i dont have the money now cause of x-mas and my sons b-day is a week after mu wifes!!! what should i do

2007-11-21 07:50:03 · 9 answers · asked by kkralp 2

2007-11-21 07:49:32 · 19 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

My wife loves the simpile things in life. She doesn't wear much jewelry. She likes flowers, but I get them for her often. I need advice on something women want, but is often overlooked by husbands.

2007-11-21 07:46:52 · 14 answers · asked by shawn n 2

My boyfriend and I are having some money issues. WE both have good jobs ( I am a teacher in a good paying district, he does some technical work) and both make around the same salary. We put away 50 dollars each a week, so about $400 a month, into an account. He has an apartment right now, but we are looking to get something together.
My problem is this, I feel like no matter what, we can't save enough money! I have friends who have bought houses and are doing great, but I feel like we can't afford anything!
We are pretty young, so we go out once a weekend, and sometimes twice. When we're out we don't go crazy, but I do enjoy the down time. I feel like the only way we can save money is to stay inside, do nothing ever, and save all of it!
I guess my question is how do you afford stuff! I am panicking because I feel like I am 24 years old and will never be able to afford a house or kids or anything. Please help!

2007-11-21 07:46:29 · 15 answers · asked by Firefly 1

during sex, my husband says things about me being with other men. of couse this hasn't happened, but it seems like he likes it and turns him on. could he be wanting to be with other women and just is trying to get me to do it first? or is this one of his ways of getting excited.......any thoughts? when he talks about it, he puts in details. almost to wierd for me.

2007-11-21 07:40:47 · 25 answers · asked by flavours_of_entanglement 5

I think he is cheating on me. I overheard him on the phone last night giving a woman directions to our house and something about 8pm tonight. I'm at my moms with our girls helping her get ready for thanksgiving... So should I just let it slide and until I'm 100% sure confront him about it? Or should i "follow" him tonight (he hasnt mentioned going out yet- but im sure after work he'll say something and say hes going with the guys from work) Do i flat out lie and say, "oh my mom said she'd watch the kids- i thought we could go out" and then see what he says? When he asks if i care if he goes out do i bring up last night like, "so why were you telling that girl our address?" I'm not really sure he is even cheating- just suspecting it ... or that something is going on that he's not being honest about. Any suggestions?

2007-11-21 07:36:37 · 37 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5