This guy I like was supposed to come to my house to hang out with me and mutual friends from work for a drink. He was all for it when we left work but he didn't show up. I told my friend that was my sign that he wasn't interested or he would have come.
The next work day he apologized for not coming & said he got home from work late (which I know is truthful) and said he made the mistake of going home and then crashed and had to work in the morning. He said he owed me twice now and said how about going out the next night instead (with the gang I assume- though he didn't specifically say that). I wasn't able to go the next night and nobody went out. Since then though he has mentioned a couple of times how he's sorry he missed it and has even teased me about a couple of things from the evening that he heard about.
Am I right to assume that his not coming is the "bigger" sign that he isn't interested or is his teasing me about it a good sign and I shouldn't give up? Whats my next move?
2007-11-21 15:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Quit thinking too much and over analyzing the situation. You probably act like that around him and that is why he is scared to come over to your house. I would be scared of you too. No man like a woman who can't just let things happen and go with the flow.
Relax.
2007-11-21 15:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be busy, and honestly regretful that he missed the boat. He's probably thinking that he's snubbed you too many times now and you wouldn't give him another chance. How about suggesting you guys go out one more time - with the "gang", and try to make it on a Saturday or some other time that work is not an excuse for either of you to miss it. If you have a good time, and it seems like you hit it off, then wait for him to ask you out on a date, just the two of you. If he doesn't, then he's not interested, and you need to move on.
2007-11-21 23:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. It's not like left at the alter on your wedding day besides you said he was truthful at least you know that much. it could be worse it's better than not knowing..
2007-11-22 00:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by nibbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the guys, honey, I figure they know more about what your guy in question might be thinking. Don't take the girls' advice to make him wait and not invite him. That's mean and immature. And if you like him, why try to hurt him?
2007-11-21 23:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tammar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him well if you to "call you when he is on his way over" as in don't make plans. And then since his arrival was unexpected make his a*ss sit and wait while you get ready.
2007-11-21 23:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good sign.
2007-11-22 04:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by gittit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it with a grain of salt ........and next time dont invite him to come and see how he reacts then ..good luck
2007-11-21 23:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋