A while back I was talking about about this exercise man on the FIT channel. His name is Gilad. My sister and I make sarcastic jokes about him. We mimmick the accent....well my husband overheard and said"There's a girl at work , she's fine and I'd like to f*ck her!!!" I couldn't believe my ears. I was totally disgusted by his comment, but I ignored him because I was not going to let him get to me.
Well...tonight we went out to dinner.....We were waiting for our food. There was a guy in front of us with crazy black and red hair. I said"Look honey you should get your hair like that." I was being sarcastic. He looked at me and said ,"Well I wish you would get tight pants like that chick over there. " I feel he is not a very nice person. I really do not want to even speak to him. I am upset...should I be? I am not making any sexual jokes they are just sarcastic remarks and he comes back with sexual references.
2007-11-21 15:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by chilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like your husband is a bit of a jerk, or doesnt understand the concept of sarcasm. You should probably tell him how you're feeling and try and tone down your own sarcasm, because he sure as hell doesnt get it.
2007-11-21 15:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by daremedy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then stop the stupid sarcastic remarks and then he may not react to your behavior in the way that he does.
If your going to reference other guys in any way at all, he must be sensitive to it. Possibly, what you doing is hurtful to him and he's trying to save face.
Play nice, kids.
By the way, he may think that you would look really hot in a pair of tight black pants. How about getting a pair and trying it out. It may pay off for the good.
Best Wishes
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2007-11-21 23:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is givng you what you give him. He may be being a little mean about to show you just how much your comments hurt. Now as a woman you will probably get defensive and say " My comments have nothing to do with him and are not directed at him like his comments to me."
Ok, but the answer I am giving is the truth. You are hurting his feelings. The fact that you can't see you are hurting his feelings kind of makes you a little pathetic cause you aren't caring about your husbands feelings.
Run this past him, he'll agree.
2007-11-21 23:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by jntlmnjm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is just trying to be honest with you! My hubby is my best friend and I hear all!I dont think you should be mad. He apparently thinks your a sexy chick cuz he wants u in the tight pants!! Try it give the relationship some spice again!!
I loved when my hubby dyed his hair blonde, it was sex with another man!! lol
2007-11-21 23:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be mad at him because he clearly has some deep seeded problems.He is resorting to bullying as a way to send you a message. He is clearly insecure when you talk about other men, and you two should probably talk with a counselor or pastor about these problems. If nothing else don't continue comparing him to other men.
2007-11-21 23:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to talk to him and ask him what happened and where did things go wrong. If your being to sarcastic it has a way of coming back and biting a person.
2007-11-21 23:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really mad too, he is being a total jerk...ask him what the hell his problem is and why he is being like this because that seems unacceptable!
2007-11-21 23:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by *_* Katerrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be mad at him. You knew he was like this before the wedding, so what makes you think he was going to act any more mature after the wedding?
Good luck.
2007-11-21 23:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he isn't happy. My husband and I always make silly comments. We know that it is human nature to look, but not to touch.
2007-11-21 23:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by specialsuber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋