I'm watching a documentary on VH1 about bi-sexual couples who are into swinger's clubs. What are you views on swingers? Would you ever try it?
Personally, I don't think I could ever do that just because of my beliefs and personal views on relationships.
2007-11-21 16:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by Madison 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with the majority of you.
I'm engaged and could never be a "swinger" because I believe marriage is a sacred thing and should only be between 2 people. If you are married then you should not be having sexual relations with other people. Not to mention all the baggage that has to come along with that!
However, if a couple can make their relationship work while being swingers then that's their choice- it's just not for me.
2007-11-21 16:52:10 · update #1
I think it's not very healthy.
Anyone can swing with hundreds of other people. That doesn't take a lot of skill.
That sort of lifestyle does not promote being good at a one on one relationship.
I think it's all about having fun. But in the end, someone's going to get hurt.
2007-11-21 17:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred!thats the bottom line!If u want to share with someone y be married!thats like cheating!People r commiting adultry!that is the ultimate SIN!!What about STD's?It does show that u don't love ur partner full heartedly!It all boils down to being unfaithful,dishonset it could cause alot of problems!Me myself do not understand why or how people get off on stuff like that!What about ur self respect?Do people just don't care about there self?They need peace in there life!Or maybe they just dont know what TRUE LOVE is!
2007-11-21 16:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Don't take life 4 granted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have known a few people over the years that did this, and even a few that did the threesomes thing. None of them are still in a relationship with their original partners. It is my belief that fantasy is healthy as long as it is not acted out.
I would be ashamed of myself if I ever did something like swinging.
2007-11-21 16:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bambi C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well I am going to have to disagree with some of the responses on here, partly because my husband and I like to have fun every now and then. We never go to the swingers clubs, but we do have another couple that are friends of ours that we " play " with. And on other occasions we have another friend of ours that joins in, which is my husbands best friend. However, my husband is not bi-sexual and does not involve himself with the guys, but me and the other woman do mess around. Now, this is obviously not for everyone. You need a solid, honest and extremely loving and trusting relationship to be able to deal with seeing your spouse with another person. We have an incredible sex life with just the two of us, but once in a while we just like to spice it up a bit. I trust my husband with all my heart, and I know he feels the same. We always practice safe sex when we do this, and there is never a moment in our marriage that I have ever felt insecure.
2007-11-21 16:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Swingers are a special breed of their own, who wants to go out and sleep with some other person and come home to cuddle up together knowing what has taken place??
Not me that's for sure it is depraved behaviour at it's best ♥
2007-11-21 16:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Swinging is a BAD IDEA....been there...done it..and it was a major contributing factor that led to the divorce with my first husband...I think people use "swinging" as an excuse to f*ck other people....You can't be 100% assured that it will not have an affect on your relationship and there are no guarantees....It isn't worth the risk....
2007-11-21 16:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never do it because I believe that marriage is sacred. If I wanted to see other people, I wouldn't get married in the first place.
2007-11-21 16:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by mlvue 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My view on that, is I think it's wrong, people engaging in a lifestyle of sex with multiple partners, swapping with other couples. Honestly I feel that in the swinging lifestyle, husbands and wives are telling their spouses, that they are not enough for them.
Personally, I feel that it's nothing more than concentual cheating.
Because if your having sex outside of your marriage it's cheating, even if your spouse knows and concents to it.
2007-11-21 16:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would never do it. I have a girl friend that does and a few co workers. They swear by the life style and claim to love it. My friend and one of the co workers are married. I hear all about their parties and get togethers.
2007-11-21 16:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for it my wife is on the fence, with the suggestion she brought a good point makes life a lot more complicated. If your gay or staight it don't matter to us as long as you treat us with respect. I have family members and friends that are gay I love them all dearly.
My wife and I are catholic and are beliefs don't get in the way
2007-11-21 16:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by nibbles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋