i am getting divorced, and i don't know what to do? please tell me!
2007-11-21 13:19:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you haven't tried every means to resolve your differences, try that an pray about it.
2007-11-21 13:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by coolbeans1998 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My divorce was wonderful. The ex wife and I are the best of friends. Be humane! Be a good person and prepare to give up some things. Let it go!
2007-11-21 21:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by C M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through a separation in my marriage with a strong possibility it will lead to divorce. Right now I am just taking day by day, I got myself involved a in a chruch with a good support group. I am making myself strong through faith and God. It helps me. Here is link see it if helps. Also let me what you did in preparing for a divorce, in case I have to do the same. Just read the words in the link, it helps me.
http://www.divorcehope.com/
2007-11-21 21:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need is a good attorney.
Then you need to fix whatever personal problems that you have that contributed to the divorce.
I recommend you start by attending some support meetings for separated and divorced people.
Good luck.
2007-11-21 21:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
divorce is really hard on guys especially. plan that it'll take you a year or more before you are feeling in control of your life. get counseling, gain insight, learn what's yours and what's not yours, and learn to communicate better and these are things you'll only be able to get better at in counseling with a good therapist. don't date for a long time. If you've got to have sex only see older women who are not interested in relationships.
rebuild your life. discover who you really want to be. good luck. oh, and double your time in the gym, or start a new physically challenging sport/hobby, rock climbing, white water rafting etc.
2007-11-21 21:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Liteson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire an attorney, talk to a counselor/priest/pastor, spend time with friends, get plenty of sleep, eat well and stay healthy. Good luck. I am sorry this has happened but it seems to 50% of the time.
2007-11-21 21:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by desperatehw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok well i dont know too much abu thi i' only 13 but mysister is ging through a divorce right now just go to court , file for the papers they will give you a date in witch you and your ex will have to go and sign the papersto finalize the divorce and i think thats about it, well,god luck
2007-11-21 21:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mail your wife half your stuff and go get a stiff drink.
PLEASE GET AN ATTORNEY. TRUST ME THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A FRIENDLY DIVORCE. I shouted that so you would know I am really serious.
2007-11-21 21:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Whynot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say pray. I don't know if you believe in God, but He helps a lot. I'm sorry you're going through this. Try to keep a positive attitude, and see if there are any good things that come out of it.
2007-11-21 21:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling and try to work things out between your spouse. If not contact an attorney and he'll walk you through the whole process.
2007-11-21 21:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by La Princesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, and get involved in an activity or charity to help you transition to life without a spouse.
2007-11-21 21:22:09 · answer #11 · answered by Alice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋