3 months before my bf dated me, he told he had sex with an escort he met off the net. he said he didnt know she was an escort til after the sex. then i looked on his computer and he had her resume on it (saying she worked at various massage parlours, and working as an independant escort). Do escorts even need a resume???
Anyway, I also found a photo of her in his desk, one of her head but you could see her wearing a bra.
Is he lying to me, saying he didnt know she was an escort? This is disgusting to find out, because you would assume you're partner isn't out sleeping with escorts (even if its only once) and he also admitted to sleeping with an older couple (mid 40s, he was 25 at the time. He liked having sex with an older woman- while the husband watched. Is this his older woman fetish, because he's a HUGE momma's boy. He also told me this girl was his friend, but she was 17 at the time...what would u do, how should i think? what do u think of this guy? i wish i knew this b4
2007-11-21 12:41:48 · 12 answers · asked by chocolate_cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are u stupid. i didnt look thru his stuff, it was laying on top of his desk when i went to use the computer to go on the net and the resume was left open!
2007-11-21 13:53:33 · update #1
Hmmmm my alarm bells would be ringing loud n clear believe me, this guy is a liar and when he keeps these trinkets no matter what, he is not being respectful to you at all.
Having said that tho why are you going thru his things?
If you have doubt about him now then why continue without confronting him face to face...then let him explain..hmmm
If he is serious and cares for you he will get rid of all this junk or kick him to kerb ..Momma Boy's are all the same what is it??
2007-11-21 12:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop the none sense. If he is a good person judge him on that. He opened to you and told you the truth. Maybe not the whole truth. Stop searching through his stuff. 3 months before he dated you be for real. What if you were judged by all the people you slept with? Well since your above judgment i guess you have nothing to worry. He should leave you cause your insecure
2007-11-21 21:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by payne116 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say, "I wish I knew this before."
Well, honey, you know it now!
This is the time to move on. Is this the kind of man you want to be with? Do you want to have to question everything he says to you? Do you want to have to search through his desk to find out what he's doing and what he's thinking? And, he's a momma's boy. Do you value maturity in a companion?
Obviously, you are questioning his ability to make you happy and fulfilled. Listen to your head! MOVE ON!
2007-11-21 20:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by Carol K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever number of times he told you he did it multiple it by about 100.And no they don't need a resume,just a horny b*****d to sniff out somthing new.You should kick him to the curb.He's a dog.He's the one to blame,not the escort.Good luck with that,just don't get yourself arrested or anything.
2007-11-21 20:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to doctors and get checked. before you do that i would consider leaving him as there is no trust and based on his form doesnt leave much to the imagination.
2007-11-21 20:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by CreativeMusicArtist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I think your boyfriend is lying to you.
You either have to look past his indiscretions ,or break up with him and move on.
2007-11-22 15:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being 1/2 honest. He's letting you know that he had sex with a hooker and he's seeing if you are ok with it.
it's up to you.
2007-11-21 20:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by old-softy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has no moral what so ever...leave him
He is a liar anyway and that information is so degrading...
2007-11-21 20:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was BEFORE you got together!!!
Get over it!!
2007-11-21 21:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by gloria b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump his a%^& ..............move on ... hes way too wierd
2007-11-21 20:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋