today my girlfriend broke up with me after 1 and half years for another guy during this 1 and a half years my friends got angry at the amount of time i spent with my ex so i dont have friends my family think its pathetic and no ones intrested in talking to me
so im alone
what should i do
2007-11-21 13:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by WereYouExpectUsToGoWhenBombsFall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be yourself and you will get new friends. If they were true friends they would still be with you. You don't need many friends just a few close ones. Over time that number will grow if you are a true friend.
2007-11-21 13:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others who say get involved somehow in something. Find yourself. Friends are usually forever and if you lost them because of her next time be more careful. You should never change for anyone. She would'nt have made you choose if she really loved you. Good luck.
2007-11-21 21:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can already tell you that you made several mistakes with this relationship:
-You hung out with your girlfriend too much
I'm sure that many women will disagree with me, but familiarity breeds contempt and you have to make these chicks miss you sometimes. See contrary to popular opinion, women do not really want a man who's in her face 24/7 cupcaking. Women like a man who has a life of his own and who has things to do. Women don't like men who make her "his world." She simply wants to be a complementary piece in his world and for you to be a complementary piece in her world. See, when you're around a woman too often, she gets tired of you and starts seeking excitement from another man.
-You neglected your friends over a woman
You probably saw it as them being jealous, but when you keep dissing them 24/7 just to be with your girl then anyone would feel slighted. Look, its okay to have a girlfriend and hang out with friends once a week or once every two weeks, or in my case once or twice a year (my friends live in different states). Make it clear to your next girlfriend that you like her, but you're not going to stop hanging out with friends just to accomodate her.
From now on, do the following:
1) Go to http://www.stopsimpinmovement.com/blog once a week
2) Approach several females everyday until you're going out on 2 - 3 dates with different women every week.
3) Repeat #2 until you get 1 - 3 women who reciprocates your desires whether they be for casual sex, long term relationship, etc.
4) Don't hang around your next girlfriend more than once every two weeks once your relationship is official. When you first meet, you'll probably go on 3 - 4 dates within the first two weeks if you really like her. That's cool, but once you've made the relationship official, cut back to once every two weeks and a phone call here and there inbetween dates. If you two get real serious, don't spend more than two days out the week with her, because you're a productive man who has other things to do. And don't call her everyday either, that's weak sh*t. Once or twice a week is sufficient.
2007-11-21 22:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time to do some soul searching. Next time, dont throw your friends away so easily..keep in touch..rent some movies, eat some pizza, drink some beer ( if old enuf) and try to feel better, it will pass
2007-11-21 21:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends.
And next time you have a girlfriend, don't smother her.
Good luck.
2007-11-21 21:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby, go to local places that involve your interests, get out and mingle and meet people. move on.
2007-11-21 21:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Evelyne L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋