Too many illigitamate kids out there. Doesn't anyone respect the Bible or the 10 commandments? I guess the end will be coming sooner than we think at this rate. Wicked
2007-11-21 05:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex is for married couples only. Sex before marriage is called fornication. God has good reasons for marriage before sex.
2007-11-21 05:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a bible person then you know it is wrong to judge that is the task of God Almighty. I do believe it is hard for many person's to wait such a long time before they have intimate relations. I do think it is important to have a connection and chemistry and be involved in a seriuos relationship before you ever consider jumping in the sac with that person.
Really are you surprised we have all these natural disasters happening and they are happening where infedelity and promiscous sex are at there highest?.
Like the Fires in California, floods in Mexico, and earthquakes in China come on really the 2nd coming is right around the corner. Why are you surprised just look at the number of people who are coming to God and his word and being saved.
May God Bless You but really the temptation at times is too great that is why people do this and sometimes they do it to see if they are sexually compatible
2007-11-21 05:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it would be all great and dandy if we all did that however it is not that way and probably will never go back that way. At this day in age even if we were to wait until marriage it still doesn't guarantee that the family will be together forever. Divorce is so easy now. If you are not happy with a certain part of the marriage and no one is abusive they end it. The kids are from broken homes. What difference does it make now a days if we wait or not.
2007-11-21 05:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In 1963 we took God and the Bible out of the public classroom. Today we don't have Christmas decorations in many public facilities, we have 'holiday" decorations or they are called something else, just don't refer to Christian roots.
Since this happened (1963), every measure of morality has plummetted except for divorce which of course skyrocketed!
We quit teaching our kids moral values and began to expose them to moral absolutes, if it feels good, do it.
Is there a way to correct this? Yes, put the Bible back in school and prayer. It would take a generation or two but a turnaround would be possible.
2007-11-21 06:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Times" are changing .. fast & furiously. The Bible speaks of this.
What is scarey .. is thinking back in the times of Sadom & Gamorra .. and what went on during those times. It was a sexual filled world.
People do still believe in marriage before sex .. even if they don't do it. However - lots of people don't. And .. some of the trends seems to be to have children out of wed-lock .. no marriage,etc.
We all have our own sins .. every single one of us .. me included .. but through God's Grace - we can get forgiven .. and stop it.
2007-11-21 06:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm South Asian so it's a huge culture thing for me. But seriously, I'm also very advanced in my beliefs in terms of sex. Being a Buddhist, an one one out in South Asia, I read it up and found out that sex before marriage is not wrong but there must be true love from both sides, otherwise one will get hurt-a karma thing. Since I haven't found my true love I'll stick with no sex before marriage, but if I really love and know my guy loves me back, who knows? May be I'll do it, or may be I'll do other stuff, cheat, so it's not really sexual intercourse and I'm not breaking rules completely, just slightly.
2007-11-21 06:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Showmefire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are entitled to your beliefs but here is mine.
sex before marriage..when done responsibly can be healthy.
i will never wonder about other men because i have had other men. my husband will not wonder what sex with another woman is like because he has had a chance to experience different kinds of women.
i once read a story about a certain village outside of the US where the children are encouraged to enjoy their sexuality and experiment. this village has practically a 0% divorce rate. why? because everyone got the chance to fulfill their natural human desires before settling down to start a family life.
if god did not want us to enjoy sex..then why did he make us sexual beings? why did he make it so that we are attracted to more than one person? and why did he make sex feel so darn good?
2007-11-21 09:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so are you going to buy a car you cant test drive what happens if you marry a guy that doesnt have a penis hows that gonna work and what if you two arent at all compatible in the sack i would say that premarital sex is ok and birth control should be the law and half the illigitimate children that you are speaking about is now working and paying their taxes so what up with that how are we gonna make the world end so you are saying that it is our fault huh? and where in the ten comments is it wrong? the premarital sex stuff
2007-11-21 05:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I used to believe that and I still think it's a good idea for many precisely those who are too dumb to prevent kids from being conceived in the first place.
You would certainly consider me to be wicked. But I think you and I agree on this to a good extent.
2007-11-21 05:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage before sex and marriage before children are two entirely different topics. I absolutely believe in marriage before children.
I just don't think marriage is necessary before sex. Some people these days choose not to marry at all. Does that mean that their love and commitment to each other does matter at all? Love and commitment before sex? Yes. Marriage? Not necessarily.
By the way: The 10 commandments say nothing about pre-marital sex. It says do not commit adultery. The definition of adultery is extra-marital sex (sex with somone other than your spouse while you are married). It says nothing of pre-marital sex. The bible says that sex is for one man and one woman. It says that they are to "come together as one". It does not that this has to be done in a state-recognized socially traditional marriage ceremony.
2007-11-21 05:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Been here before 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋