Why do men like it so much? Yes, I know women watch it too but I am not asking why women like it, I'm asking why men like it so much. I was straight to the point answers, no sugar coating it? If it's 'cuz you like sex...then have sex with your girlfriend or wife. I just don't get it... Oh and PLEASE tell me what is so great about girl on girl action, please tell me that!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just asking so don't be crude to me..thxs.
2007-11-21 07:26:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I meant to put I WANT straight to the point answers...sorry ;)
2007-11-21 07:27:23 · update #1
the pic is small but would love to make a porn with you!!
2007-11-21 07:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I want to make something clear be for I go on. My definition of a man is basically every good quality a male can have. In the case of porn addiction, I will use the term guy in place of man.
By nature, we males are instinctively the sexual aggressor. As adolescent boys we are not only dealing with raging hormones, but a lack of experience and curiosity. This is usually the time when boys get exposed (pardon the term) to pornography. They want to see how men are supposed to perform.
But this is also the point where normal boys move on, but most do not. Porn becomes a fantasy world for some and even for some others it becomes a measuring stick for the sexual lifestyle they wish to lead. And since most women aren't going to perform the acts depicted in porn movies or magazines, that can lead to unhealthy relationships. But that's another discussion.
That's what I see. I have often related to my sister that at my age (47) I'm glad that my sexual desire isn't as prodigious as it was when I was 13. There is more to life than trying to bed down with every living breathing female that I get to say hello to. And surprisingly, my relations with women are very good for the most part and it seems (just seems) like I am being the pursued. Odd twist that is.
I won't go as far as saying that any of my explanation excuses any male from the social responsibility one has in respecting the rights and desires of others. Pornography is a term that covers a lot of ground and what may be deemed porn to one person could be seen as art to others. A murky definition for sure but, nonetheless, pornography can become a drug for some folks.
2007-11-21 07:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Porn is great because it is the most carnal of actions that two people can engage in and the fact that someone will videotape it and allow us to watch is a turn on in itself. Porno is also a good sexual/relationship tool that if used properly could really help save marriages and relationships. At least when two people watch porn they can emulate actions and open a line of communication about what they do and don't like. Also, for the most part, men are visual creatures and derive more pleasure from viewing things than we do hearing or talking about something. Porn is not for everyone (men and women alike), but I cannot stand for people to bash porn and they have never even given it a chance.
OH, and as far as the girl on girl thing....well women are the most beautiful things on the earth. Your bodies are truly heavenly and we love to see them in the form of which they were made (naked). To see two girls loving on each other is like a woman finding a buy one get one free sale. If you are going to pay the price isn't it better to get double the pleasure????
2007-11-21 07:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men like the woman body. If not able at the time to be with the wife then you can watch a little. It does not need to be porn just nice pics of nice girls. Girls together for men just mean that there is more than one to look at at a time. Even a nice picture of a car looks better with a model by it.
2007-11-21 08:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men are visual creatures and need visual stimulation.
I myself an not super big into porn, but I understand why some men get literally obsessed with it at the same time.
2007-11-21 07:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual and like to see different woman. They fantasize about these woman being so horny that they just cannot help themselves. What they do not know is that those woman are probably on drugs and are terrible actors. Nobody makes that much noise especially shot after shot lol. They like to watch woman on woman because they get two for the price of one and it is two women.
2007-11-21 07:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its ok..the thing is that its all fantasy.
A lot of people (mostly women) enjoy romantic movies...let's face it "Sleepless in Seattle" was a fantasy. Everyone had their clothes on, but it was a fantasy...do we really thing that all of that stuff would really happen (people flying back and forth across the country to stalk someone)?
So porn is a fantasy to..and it will probably never really happen either
We all have fantasies, if no one is hurt, no problem
2007-11-21 07:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like porn and will watch it but does nothig for me when watching it alone i like to watch it with my wife how ever it doesnt hapen to often as we both work opposite times of the days as for the girl on girl action ..... it is very arousing for a man and for many women as well ... even better when you can get involved and make it ffm
2007-11-21 07:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they probably want something to masturbate to. Or maybe they are ugly and don't have a girlfriend so they need to watch porn, I guess that they just like to see girls get rowdy and wild, they probably need techniques because they're all alone and loosers....Once I went to this boys house because he was hosting a party for my friend (he is her boyfriends friend) and her boyfriend. I got their kind of early but thankfully there was another one of my friends there so that made it a lot less awkward. He was like, you can go downstaris and watch TV if you'd like. So we all went down and sat on a couch and he turned on the TV and there was porn on! My friend and I were like AAAA!!!! We were laughing so hard. He just went whoa! and blushed and quickly changed the channel. It was soooo funny though, yet disgusting I mean he was only 14! That's DUMB!!!!!!! Well, hope I helped!
2007-11-21 07:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Rise, Lord Vader 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do women like to go shopping for shoes?
It's the same with men and porn. We just like it.
2007-11-21 07:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay.. straight up... its because naturally we like women.. not just one but lots!.. we may be married or commited but we still look and we still have fantasies.. just becaue we are married to you doesnt mean we are blind to everything else around us. Think about it... males in the animal kingdom are like this. You never see one male monkey commited to his female companion for over 20 yrs.. no he goes and has multiple partners and makes multiple babies. If you look around the world some men have more that one wife. Its variety. we dont love you any less but we really really really like fresh and new conquests to conquer.
2007-11-21 07:37:53 · answer #11 · answered by james j 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋