We are a very young couple: she is 22 and I am 26 and I am becoming very frustrated, and I have had blue balls serveral times. She also wont take a shower with me and being affectionate is of no concern to her. What should I do?
2007-11-21 18:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Mi vida 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i was like that when i was pregnant =P
2007-11-22 01:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥angelfire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If body image then... simply have u guys watch a movie... then get some cake with whipcream and strawberries and then swing around her neck and give it to her.. then sit and have her feet on your lap and possibly a slight foot rubbing? But make sure you show affection no matter what, keep talking to her letting her know that you are there for her, you have not lost any affeection no did you give up hope... in any way... but if is haviing low selfesteem probs... then dump her UUUgly a$$... jk peace son.
2007-11-21 18:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you have been too demanding and regularly making love to her in the past ,that made her fed up of sex and she needs a break,if that is the case then reassure her that you are not going to ask for sex on regular basis and respect her will and urge and you are not gonna be too insistent when she is not willing to have sexual intercourse,just try to calm her with soothing romantic forplay and do not rush to have intercourse for some days .i hope this could help.
2007-11-21 18:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by nazia m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a sit down with and express how you feel. You need to ask her if she even wants to be with you. You have to let her know that you are comfortable with her body and you love her for who she is. My finace has an issue with her body, too. But, she also knows that I love her body just like it is. Give her some reassurance.
2007-11-21 18:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by scicodawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forcing sex on her is not a good thing. Its called sexual assault.
Anyways... Maybe she is self conscious of something going on with her. Has she gained weight?
Why do you have blue balls anyways?
2007-11-21 18:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel., Tell her you are feeling lonesome, and need her to show you some affection, there are so many different ways to be intimate without the actual penetration, take her hand and show her what you want, and most important, make her feel loved too.
2007-11-21 18:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her know your there for her right now and please yourself in the shower or by other means of course with her there but dont make her feel worst be nice this to shall pass good lick buddyi mean good luck lol
2007-11-21 18:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a gym the two of you. If not go see a counselor. talk to her and tell her how you feel about her.
2007-11-21 18:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, I bet she has a form of depression. Get her to see a psycologist, offer to go with.
2007-11-21 18:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Becky J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her an ultimatum: Put out or get out.
Dude, you do know that she is sleeping around, right. I mean, everyone else that you all know knows that she is. No one is brave enough to tell you.
2007-11-21 19:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For most people, this is what being married is all about.
2007-11-21 18:27:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋