i have been married i thout she was the one but i was wrong we divorced. now i just dont know what to do i have been with my new (i hope she is the one) grilfrend for two years.i want to marry her but i dont know if i can take a nother let down.please help.thank you
2007-11-21 17:36:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The greatest failure in life is not to even try at all. You can run scared because you don't want to be let down - the truth is that you'll never know. It could happen at any time. Fortunately, we all take solace in believing it won't happen to us.
You need THERAPY in order to get over your former divorce - and to get past your committment issues.
It's always healthy to be a little hesitant, but your feelings appear to be stronger than mere hesitation.
2007-11-21 18:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one is the one you choose to be with when you are truely ready to commit for life, and are willing to work through the tough times of that relationship no matter what. In effect, the one is a state of mind within yourself, not a particular person. No relationship, or no girl is the perfect one for you, the one is the one who is the best person for you to share your life with. And they with you.
2007-11-21 18:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of hard to explain. It will make you feel like you are under a spell and can't control yourself. You also need to understand that marriages are not joke you just don't up and divorce everytime she does something you don't like. Marriages are not easy, you have to work together to keep them together and without prayers and God on your side it will never work regardless of how hard you work at it.
2007-11-21 17:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Through your first marriage, you should have known and learn to differentiate the ONE in your life. I think it depends on alot of factors. Firstly, are you willing to sacrifice your life, time for her? Do you everytime put her as your utmost priority? When you need someone to talk to, do you think of her? Do you plan your programs, your activities, involving her? Do you always want her to be with you? And most importantly, she must feel the same way as you too.
2007-11-21 17:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by le_snowangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHEN IT IS RIGHT IT IS RIGHTYOU WILL NOT HAVE TO ASK OR QUESTION IT IT WILL HIT YOU LIKE A BASEBALL BAT IN FULL SWING. YOU WILL FEEL LIKE A ROMAN CANDLE WAS JUST LIT UNDER YOU
2007-11-21 17:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋