should i worry?

Question

ive been married for almost three months.
it was great at the beggining, we were both totally in love and everything was wonderful.
the thing is that i moved hundreds of miles away from my family and im sad alot because of this.
he works all the time and we barely spend any time together.
when hes home hes eigther too tired or hes on the computer or he wants to watch a movie.i miss just spending time alone with him and talking and being funny.
we dont get alot of quality time anymore.
im afraid hes not as much in love as he used to be.
or am i just exajerating?
he does love me so much but sometimes i just want him to hold me and kiss me when im sad but he rarely does that.
sometimes i think he might be taking me for granted.
he used to cry at the thought of us being apart for weeks and now it seems like he doesnt pay as much attention to me. houldworry? or am i just being too sensitive?
guys, is this normal of you all? what do you think?

Answer 1

He might work a lot, but couples need to have quality time together or I guarantee you your marriage will fell.

Quality time and communication are the two most importance pieces to a happy marriage I believe. Married 20 years.

Sit him down and tell him your concerns. If he's positive towards your concerns then setup a day and time.

My wife and I set a day and time(a date if you would)at least twice a month.

Sometimes we get caught up in the fast pace of life and forget the reason we get married. Love, share life, being there for one another good or bad.

You need to try to keep a freshness to your marriage and sex life. Surprise him with his favorite dinner one night. Go to bed before him. Get naked and climb in bed. When he climbs in let him see your completely naked or after he's in bed take his hand and place his hand on a part of your body you'd like him to caress. Move his hand around on your body to let him know your intent.

Be creative, try new and different things.

Answer 2

QUALITY TIME?

IF HE HAS TIME TO BE ON A COMPUTER?

USE TO BE WINE WOMEN AND SONG--NOW IT'S BEER THE OLE LADY AND TV??

SPICE IT UP LADY, TAKES TWO TO TANGO.YOU SOMETIMES GOT TO MAKE THE MOVE MAYBE HE THINKS WELL I WORK, PROVIDE AND WE ARE HAPPY?? GRAB HIM UP WHEN HE COMES IN AND HUG HIM, SHOW HIM YOU CARE, CRAWL INTO BED WHEN HE IS SLEEPING AT LEAST YOU WILL BE CLOSE AND WHO KNOWS WHAT WILL COME UP BETWEEN YA ALL.