Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2007

theres a lot of girls that i used to be friends with and then had a falling out with (usually something they did, example, getting me kicked out of the house i lived in, trying to get me fired, talking **** about me, ******* my boyfriends etc..) that i no longer speak with, and have in the past gotten violent with, i try to avoid them because i know they havent grown up any and would continue trying to fight. however, my now husban will still talk to them and socialize with them whenever he sees them. he says they havent done anything to him and doesnt want to start anything. that would be fine but these girls will talk crap about me to him or will try hitting on him. now he always stops them from hitting on him, and will ask them not to talk about me. but i dont want him talking to these girls...am ibeing demanding?? or unreasonable? i think he should stick by my side and defend me. but i need some argueing tips.

2007-11-22 17:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by vpireprncss 2

2007-11-22 17:02:42 · 16 answers · asked by John T 3

Married 8 years - 6 of them not that happy. We live more like roomates. I have a college degree, a professional, not like my mate. He has social problems.

2007-11-22 16:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you ever marry a policemen, firemen, or any military men? I've been going out with this really nice guy, and he's a cop. All my friends tell me to find another man, someone who won't die in lie of duty. So my question is would you marry a men who's profession is dangerous, and might not come home to you?

2007-11-22 16:54:56 · 38 answers · asked by Tina 2

My brother farts a lot and with big noise......
He is going to get married in december.
How will his wife react to his noisy farts?????
Would she be able to accept him wid those noisy farts????

2007-11-22 16:52:53 · 11 answers · asked by understanding_bf 2

Ok people I know I cant top the 5k I spent on her ring but... I want to do something special. Any ideas?

2007-11-22 16:47:21 · 4 answers · asked by joshuabekah s 2

who would love some one like that.. I would.

2007-11-22 16:46:18 · 6 answers · asked by vis 7

Im 14 years old, my mom is talking bad about my dad and all she and her family can do is yell in front of me. I really cant take anymore of this, and im sick of it. what can i do.

2007-11-22 16:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brittany K 1

I have been working with a female co-worker for about a year now, we have became pretty close friends and share alot of lifes struggles by talking alot with each other. The problem is that we are both married and both having marriage trouble, the trouble was there way before we even meet for the both of us. I found myself being attracted and careing about this person. The felling is the same on the other side. We have a lot in common. She is very open with me on somethings, but not her feeling towards me, but we both know we can cross that line. I have been emailing her almost daily with poetry that I have written, I know she likes it, and I know that she keeps them in a special place, but never get any reponse from her on the poems. I can tell her anything and I will make her day. She does make strong eye contact with me. She is very freindly towards me, and sometime makes acusses to talk to me small talk. But I am still very confussed on what her intent is. How do I appoach this.

2007-11-22 16:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by PHP 2

can a man be cured of emotional and verble abuse

2007-11-22 16:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by pair_a_dice0285 1

I just posted a very good news on yahoo answers
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuotiPtc7hd4S1J5vD1W2eLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071122164109AA0vjIB
And right now my husband asked me that " If it is Okay that you do paternity test. Will you be offended". He said he always thought about doing that whenever he has child.
we married for 5 months. I was virgin when I met him. I never had any relationship with someone. He wasn't virgin when he met me. I came from a very traditional background and would never even think about someone else. Is that okay for him to ask these kind of questions.

i don't want to do that. Why would I. How could he say that to me. I never cheated on him ever. You tell is that okay for him to ask this?

2007-11-22 16:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Between work and college classes, conflicting schedules, errand running, etc., I feel like I barely ever see my husband. I really wish we had more romantic alone time, but it never seems to fit in. How can I make more time to spend with my hubby?

2007-11-22 15:56:29 · 10 answers · asked by BG 3

My wife doesn't get along staying with my family.
And now she always goes back 2 her mum pl 2 stay n we
r still waiting for our new flat, i suggest renting a room but she
doesn't want. I really donno what 2 do.

2007-11-22 15:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by da da 1

My husband wants sex all the time, we have been married for 5 years and together for 8. We have two loving kids together. I love him with all my heart, but sex is just not on my mind 24/7. Im always busy with work or cleaning the house or taking care of the kids. We share a lot of time together and that time never seems like enough. He comes in from work and expects me to have sex with him right then and there, no matter where we are or whos at the house with us. He dont care. When he wants it, its suppose to be done right then. What do I do, please help. Thank you so much.

2007-11-22 15:50:55 · 17 answers · asked by Carebear 1

My boyfriend of 7 years has lost all intrest in SEX. It did not start out this way. We just had our first child 10 months ago, so this has been going on for almost a year. He says he is tired all the time, but I truly think there has to be something medicaly wrong. Or is this more common then I thought?
I have tried the obvious stuff, and still nothing, He even refuses to do things that were once fun. I truly don't understand. But I am to YOUNG to be going through this, so any ideas, maybe emotionaly or please tell me I am not the only one..................

2007-11-22 15:43:45 · 17 answers · asked by Cali Girl 1

we've been together for so long, but he is still married only because he does not want to walk out on his child, his wife gives him so much stress and has to leave... he knows exactly how i feel, but the age between us is a big problem. should i let him go? or tell him that where he goes, i go?!?!?!? he was my first love, my true love, and its really killing me to know i will never see him again.... WHAT DO I DO??

2007-11-22 15:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my mom's house for Thanksgiving tonight and her husband let me use his laptop to look up some stuff online. When I started typing stuff in the address bar it auto-filled "marriedsecrets.com." I clicked on it and found his profile with loads of messages asking women to meet him for dinner and drinks. I copied and pasted his profile and all of the messages into emails to myself so I have proof.

My dad died on Thanksgiving 11 years ago, so it's already a really hard time for my mom. I don't feel like I have any choice but to tell her about her husband, but I still have reservations, and I don't know how to broach the subject.

How do you tell someone you love something so devastating? Should I not? Should I wait until after Christmas? I need advice - please!

2007-11-22 15:40:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has plans to get divorced but i don't know why he calls me when he gets a chance and has taken chances when he's at work the first thing he told me when we started talking was that he was married and planned on getting devorce as soon as h could without loosing everything

2007-11-22 15:37:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated a guy about 10 years ago; we broke up on good terms and remained friends. Due to an out of state job transfer we lost contact. When I was visiting a friends myspace page; I saw he was a visitor. When I asked my friend about him, she forgot we dated. I have since learned that he is divorced. I would like to email him and catch up. Do you think my friendly email could be construed as something more serious? I am happily married!

2007-11-22 15:33:02 · 11 answers · asked by Rebecca K 3

how he/she will feel , at the time when he/she will come to know that someone very close has lied to him, withaut any reason!!

2007-11-22 15:25:48 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3

My boyfriend and i are in high school and have been in love with eachother for over 3 years. This past summer we broke up because he got scared that we were to close for our age. We both tried to move on by dating other people but we ended back together. We are now taking a "break" so that we can live the rest of our senior year as it should be. To make a long story short, we are both madly in love with eachother and cant imagine our lives without the other one. We both have expericed different relationships as well with other people. We both know that we are going to end up together in the long run. I have this feeling that he is going to ask me to marry him after we graduate but we will only be 18 when this happenes. So my question is if we both love eachother, we both have tried to move on but can't, will it be too soon if we get married at age 19, 20, or 21?

2007-11-22 15:21:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go out of my way to help my friend...he has 3 boys and gets them 4 days out of the week. he works very hard, going threw a divorce and has little money to support himself. I was out of a job so i helped him out from time to time, with babysittin and food and house duties.untop of things i have a four year old myself, i would do anything for anyone.i have always been that way. i sometimes feel i'm being used from him and everyone around me. he says he cares about me and worries when i get upset, but then there are times he is so distiant that it is sicking,how do i make him relize that i do it because i want to, and i care for him and his boys,

2007-11-22 14:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 14:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so does it bother you or are you ok with seeing her pick?

2007-11-22 14:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

"To have and to hold
from this day forward,
for better or worse,
for richer, for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish,
till death do us part.

2007-11-22 14:38:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought I was doing okay. It has been 11 months since my ex and I spilt up. I could afford what we 'had'... but i had to refinance the house to get his name off - and that changed my mortgage by an additional $300+ per month.
I have a huge credit card bill from the attorney that i hired.
and plus the 2nd income isn't here in the house -- plus with him gone - it is just me . . . so sometimes it is hard getting OT at work because "I NeeD" to get home to the kids - he isn't there.

plus when we split up - he took stuff like the lawnmower - i went out and had to get one. . he took the TV so i went out and got one...

so i have added to my debt too.

just wondering if it is just me . . . or is this a part of this situation?

2007-11-22 14:36:44 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4

2007-11-22 14:35:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to my husband for about 2 years. We have had a good relatioship all the way up till we said our I do's. He works 2nd shift and by the time he gets home I'm ready for bed so we dont have much alone time. When it comes time to go to bed and be intimate I cant because he grosses me out. He will literally go 5 days without taking a shower. I tell him that is my problem and how he smells and stuff. I still cant get him to shower daily. Besides all that our relationship is great. I dont know how to make him realize that his hygene is effecting our relationship?

2007-11-22 14:32:46 · 16 answers · asked by ham 1

My husband and I have had some pretty serious problems (suspected cheating by him...almost separated) in our marriage over the past year or two. We ended up working things out and have been doing really good for the past few months, but I'm still very insecure about our relationship. Now, he doesn't seem to be all that interested in having sex. He used to want sex all of the time, but now I'm lucky if he wants it twice a month. I don't think he's cheating on me now and I don't want him to do anything with me that he doesn't want to do. I just don't know if I should be worried about our marriage.

By the way, we've been together for 14 years, married for 8, have 2 small children and both work full time jobs.

2007-11-22 14:31:32 · 42 answers · asked by ncgirl 3

i've been with my partner for 6 years now, and kind of thought that we would at least be engaged by now. we love each other but i need to know .....

2007-11-22 14:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous