Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2007

why is it when you move in with someone you think why buy the cow when you get the milk for free.. don't you ever move in with that person to find out if they are the one for you?????

2007-11-22 14:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by vis 7

My husband and I just got married. And since he is a Christian, he couldn't have sex until he was married. Now we do it three times a day but it has gotten to the point that I'm tired of it. I can't tell if he does love me or not. What should i do?

2007-11-22 14:17:39 · 19 answers · asked by Pancake 1

if a woman sent you this poem, how would it make you feel?
I know this doesnt belong here, but you are really the only people who talk.


When you feel lonely
I want to keep you company
When you feel sad
I want to bring a smile to your face
When you are laughing
I want to laugh alongside you
When you are feeling great
I want to be your cheerleader

When you are hungry
I want to make your food
When you are weary
I want to give you rest
When you want to dance
I want to be your partner
When you want to fly
I want to be right there beside you

When you need some loving
I want to take you in my arms
When you want some comfort,
I will bring you soft cozy feelings
When you want peaceful solitude
I will take you to a quiet haven
When you want to feel love like you never have before
I want to give you me

2007-11-22 14:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm divorced and here's my experience and it has happened several times. When I tell a woman that I have a new house, she shows interest. When I tell her it's mortgaged to the hilt because my ex just had to have it and then filed for divorce 5 months later, that kinds of backs them off. When I tell her I live in the country, that's good but when I say I live on a working farm, that's not so good. When I tell her I have three kids (18,16,12), that's ok but when I tell them they live with me most of the year i never hear from her again. I've found that if the woman has kids, the new guy is supposed to love them like his own but when it comes to his kids, the custody agreement had better be the common2 weeks in summer and every other weekend. Why the double standard?

2007-11-22 14:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by bikinkawboy 7

Are there any good web sites for married people to hook up? Please spare me your comments about the morality of my quest. I'm quite aware of the moral implications. Thanks

2007-11-22 13:44:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard him cough his lungs out again, he's being a smoker for almost 12 years. I don't know what to do, I throw away his cigarrets several times during 9 years of our marriage, only to get into arguments, I bought patches, gums for him, but it doesn't work, he doesn't have the will or for some reason he's not inspired.
He catches all colds my son gets in the winter, I'm watching him slowly killing himself, and I don't know what to do. I ask him to ask his doctor for prescriptions to quit, but he doesn't want to tell him.
Does anyone have any sucess to get their spouse to quit smoking?

2007-11-22 13:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

I recieve social security for my depression, I'm seeing a therapist, and taking medication; but I've never neglected my child. My therapist has me bring her into our sessions, just to get an idea of our relationship and interaction; and she's said that I'm an execellent mother, that my child is well taken care of and growing just fine ( emotionally and physically). Now that my husband and I are divorcing he's threatening to take sole custody of her and I'm worried that because of my disability he might acutally win. Does anyone know what the odds are of me losing physical custody of my daughter in this situation?

2007-11-22 13:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 13:41:01 · 22 answers · asked by boardgamebob 2

I am 30 years old. I am pregnant. I have two children 12 and 8. I am recently divorced. Well, I do not think that I can afford this new addition.
So, I asked my parents if I could move back in with them.

I will have to sell my house and put my things in storage.

My two sons would share a bedroom and me & the baby would stay in the same room.

My expenses 'right now' is that i live paycheck to paycheck. i can afford what i have - but not much more.

does this make me a weak person?

2007-11-22 13:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4

Its really not the END ALL of anything.

Its boring

Its a hassle

Its boring some more

Why do you women pretend that marriage is such a great thing?

I guess you have to take a stand somewhere in life after having all those promiscous single years.

2007-11-22 13:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by male.confused 2

My 8 yr old son lives with me 40% of the time. I wanted to buy him gifts that he would be able to leave at my house so he had stuff to play with when he came over(ex. legos,ps2 games, etc.). Well all of the stuff he wants is stuff that would be hard for him to leave just at my house( gameboy games,IPOD, guitar ect) and in the past things like these get brought to him moms house and get "left" there. So dads what do you do for x-mas when your divorced? Should I get the stuff he wants knowing they will just end up at my exwifes house?

2007-11-22 13:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband separated 2 months ago , he treated me really bad because i had fund out i was pregnant and then had a misscarrige, i try to call him to get the rest of my stuff but he ignore me, he dont want me to come arounsd so he serve me a injuction on domestic abuse! this has mothing to do with he not wantting me around, and he was the one that use to abuse me ! i dont get it....now i have a court date intwo weeks and on the staement he wrote that i scratch , slap , and curse at him at his job and the house and text messages, okay i never physical abuse him those things on the statement are false....the only thing that is true is yes i did text him mean things but he did too! should i be worried going to court? how should i defend myself? i really dont want to get charged for things that is false, and plus why in the world would he do that injuction over domestic abuse if i left him 2 months ago/??? can some one really help me ...i really dont have a lawyer or thinkitsths seriu

2007-11-22 13:26:54 · 7 answers · asked by rhea 1

women understand men better then me do women??

2007-11-22 13:11:43 · 8 answers · asked by vis 7

We have been married for 15 years and slowly my wifes drive has gone down. Now I think she only does it for me. It has been the source of much of our problems and I often think that if I would just have an affair the rest of our marriage would improve. The last thing I want to do is hurt my wife but sex is a very important part of life and although I would give it up before hurting her I don't want to have to.

2007-11-22 13:10:14 · 33 answers · asked by troubled 1

who still keeps in touch with ex family members.. i have a sister of my ex i still talk to.. and a ex sister in law who married to his brother and they got divorce.. that i still keep in touch with..they have no children connectted to my children..no cousins..but we still keep in touch..me and my ex also get along is that strange??

2007-11-22 13:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7

When we do its completly passionless. and when she was a teen ager she had no res[ect for herself and i feel like she is holding back in our marriage. its killing me to think that she never wants to have sex with me, or even that she might occociate me with what happend. Help me. i dont know what to do...

2007-11-22 13:04:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just posted a very good news on yahoo answers
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuotiPtc7hd4S1J5vD1W2eLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071122164109AA0vjIB
And right now my husband asked me that " If it is Okay that you do faternity test. Will you be offended". He said he always thought about doing that whenever he has child.
we married for 5 months. I was virgin when I met him. I never had any relationship with someone. He wasn't virgin when he met me. I came from a very traditional background and would never even think about someone else. Is that okay for him to ask these kind of questions.

2007-11-22 12:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my girlfriend like crazy and I was planning on asking her to marry me when our anniversary comes up in a few months.

But she recently deciced to quit her job and go back to school. I'm already in graduate school. Her attitude toward school is a lot more intense than mine, and she made some comments about us being in "transition periods" now. Frankly, it kinda makes me want to quit school and get a job... lately I feel like one degree is enough.

But in any case, do you HAVE to be stable financially to get married? In my grad program, most of them are already married.

Do you have to choose BETWEEN a career and family life?

2007-11-22 12:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by menorans23 1

He says it is not me he doesn't want to marry anyone. I am almost 27. Never married. 2 kids. Is there something wrong with me ? I ask him why he doesn't want to marry and he always comes up with a new excuse such as our age diffrence. He is 39. Or he says I quit everything and he thinks I will divorce if married. He also said he doesn't want me to find someone else later and be stuck married to him. What should I do. I don't want to leave but I also don't want to never marry.

2007-11-22 11:53:51 · 33 answers · asked by Amanda C 1

me and my girlfriend went out for 1year and 2 months .she broke up with me due to a fight .she will not talk to me or answer my calls.shes the type of person of that all ways likes to be right no matter what.she told me that she doesnt love me but she told me that all the time we fight . Can some one please help me find someway to make it up to her.and take her breath away

2007-11-22 11:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by lil_jayrunner 1

Nah, I'll keep it terse. Go ahead and pound it into my thick little skull. We were together 5 years, lived together most of it. He had to take care of me. Now I am more able and have a place and job. He says he'll be around and will help financially as long as I need it. He says he loves me 'but...' Now he is moving on with his life. He says he just wants to be alone. If we 'go our separate ways,' will he want me again someday?

2007-11-22 11:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

That I am pregnant. my home test came positive. I will do the blood test tomorrow for sure. What to do. How do I know that I am pregnant. I can't wait till tomorrow.
I am nervous and excited. I am married and I just told my husband and my friend. We will tell my inlaws tomorrow.

2007-11-22 11:41:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last weekend we did it. It was with a old girl that I have know for a long time. It happened spontaneously and it was amazing. We talked about last night and she is interested in doing it again. Should I ride the donkey tell it falls down, or put a stop to it before it goes wrong.

2007-11-22 11:36:13 · 29 answers · asked by funkyballs 1

settled in life....whether its with your spouse, job or anything else?....

2007-11-22 11:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by unbroken29 2

I have been dating this man for 2 1/2 months, during this time I have met his family and friends . Things were going very well, until little by little he stopped texting me little messages, he did not call as often as he used to. And yesterday we were supposed to see each other and he did not call me back to confirm. I have not herd from him since. Last night I talked to one of his friends online and he advised me not to get to attached to my man. He told me that he was a good friend but not a boyfriend material since he is immature. Basically, he told me that I was too good for him. The problem is that I really like him. What to do? Should I move on? I have a feeling that perhaps he lost interest or he prefers spending time with his x-box/friends rather then me.

2007-11-22 11:31:06 · 16 answers · asked by Natalia 2

My partner and i have been together for just over four years, In April she went overseas for 2 weeks without me and when she came back she was really in love with me and 100% committed to our relationship.
Over the last month or so she has just told me she doesn't know how she feels anymore, she doesn't know if she loves me or not! I still love her very much and don't want to lose her.
We decided to break up yesterday and see if her fellings change.
What should i do?, should i stay away and hope she comes back?
As i said i don't want to loose her.

2007-11-22 11:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Family, I love them, but ....?
Comments???

2007-11-22 11:29:36 · 19 answers · asked by Elainea 3

2007-11-22 11:27:30 · 8 answers · asked by EddieH 2

physically and emotionally

2007-11-22 11:26:01 · 19 answers · asked by Pi B 1

Would you marry your present spouse?

2007-11-22 11:24:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous