me and my girlfriend went out for 1year and 2 months .she broke up with me due to a fight .she will not talk to me or answer my calls.shes the type of person of that all ways likes to be right no matter what.she told me that she doesnt love me but she told me that all the time we fight . Can some one please help me find someway to make it up to her.and take her breath away
2007-11-22 11:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by lil_jayrunner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we got into a fight b/c i was dumb and got mad at something little
2007-11-22 11:53:21 · update #1
she still has our pictures up and everything i bought her too.is it really over???
2007-11-22 11:56:37 · update #2
Move on with your life and find the right girl for you. Why be in a relationship if you both are going to argue?, this is saying to you that you aren't in the right relationship. The fact she is saying she doesn't love you also has the alarm bells ringing.
2007-11-22 11:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys truly fighting all the time? If so that really drains people emotionally. One person may thing it isn't so bad where the other just can't handle it anymore.
I love to be right too.. But I know I can't be right all the time. It is frustrating.
She may just need time to chill out and calm down. She must care about you still if the photos are up. I am not sure why she said she didn't love you. That is just cold and wrong.
However if her perception is that you always fight, maybe she is ready for a change and there isn't much you can do about it.
Try to talking to her again, if that doesn't work, try writing a letter, sending flowers, leaving a gift on her door step, anything to let her know you still care.
I don't think your stalking her, so don't worry about that statement. When you love someone it is really hard to move on when you just don't have the proper closure.
2007-11-23 01:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to live with someone who believes they are always right?
Your probably minimizing what got you mad because of your self esteem.
Leave her find out what's wrong with your self esteem and quit taking the short end of the stick.
You will never be a healthy adult being always wrong.
Your girlfriend has big problems .Know one is always right or always wrong. Always right is a head game she plays with you to keep you inferior.And it works.
Leave her .Let her be right when she says she doesn't love you. Get some balls and move on.Otherwise your playing a part in this sick relationship.
2007-11-22 20:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by China Preggo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they wanted to be with you, they would be.
If they "loved" you like you say you do..they wouldnt treat you like ****.
You wouldnt have to beg for them.
You wouldnt have to bribe them with "Oh I'll do this for you if you.."
They would take you.
Unconditionally.
No matter what.
I've been there.
Its a harsh reality...really harsh.
And the day that you finally give up on them is the worst.
You'll probably cry...but you know its what you have to do.
Because life goes on.
If you're meant to be...it will happen.
But forcing it never helps.
It just drives them away.
And I'm a better person because of it.
It will get better once you let go.
<3
"Letting go is never easy. Because holding onto the past feels good. But sometimes, you need to let go...to make room for the rest of your life."
happy genocide day.
2007-11-22 19:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by peace 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't have the magic you need... nobody does.
But you do have the power to quit stalking the poor girl. Move on to another girl. There are many better than her just waiting to meet you. The longer you sit there feeling sorry for yourself, the more you will suffer needlessly.
Pain is part of life, suffering is a choice.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 19:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Look women like that are trouble.They come of as sweet & innocent, but is really jealous.So just sit still & think about the stuff you argued about & you will see that you were always the one who apologised. So it's best that you move on.
2007-11-22 21:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by jero0111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please need help !!!? you said first you need to help yourself and what i mean by that is you need to star putting the focus back to you ,clearly she wants nothing more to do with you and for the pain it is coursing you i am sorry for that i now the pain runs deep and just for today it does hurt but you need to move on .This pain you are feeling to day will not last for ever this will pass .Go and spend time with good positive ,supportive friends to take your mind of the ex.you maybe feeling rejected but there is a saying rejection is gods protection .at the end of the day bring it back to you focus on you not your ex there is a door for you to open your new beginning take care of you
2007-11-23 00:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by this account is no longer in use 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds horrible but if she thinks that she needed to break up she must be right! do you want to be with someone who doesnt think that your opinion is worth a dam? find somewhere to have a good cry and after that last tear drops pick yourself and move on without ever looking back YOU DESERVE BETTER..good luck and be happy....
2007-11-22 20:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with the type pf person that always likes to be right no matter what and who tells you she doesn't love you? You deserve better. Move on.
2007-11-22 19:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give her a little time but really if she treats you like that when when she gets mad I would say good ridance!! She doesn't sound worth it!
2007-11-22 20:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by k-baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋