Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2007

2007-11-22 11:19:13 · 9 answers · asked by aais 3

Do you and your wife have the same sex drive? I'm having some difficulty because my sex drive is way higher than my husbands and its been this way for about two years. He has gained some weight and now feels unattractive. Any advice or suggestions would be great!

2007-11-22 11:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not have any money this year for a anniversary gift for my husband.I literally do not have any money between christmas gifts,and bills.I have one week until our anniversary.Please help me wth some ideas.

2007-11-22 10:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by shadowmonkeyblue 3

I have stepdaughters who are my same age as my husband is older than me. They have thier own lives and live in different towns. Recently my spouse was seriously ill and had to be hospitalized. the daughters from his first marriage decided to visit him daily. One went so far as to move into his hospital room. I was not able to spend all my time with him as i was busy taking care of our own children. I resent it that they seem to think that because he is in the hospital a hundred miles away that this is the perfect time for them to spend some alone time with him. They want to be there listening to all the doctors decisions and they dont tell me anything about whats going on. I think they should let the hospital staff take care of him and let him get his rest . They have been very rude and unfriendly when i am around them therefore i dont want to be around them that much and they know it. Am I wrong to feel this way ? We have been married for more than 20 yrs.

2007-11-22 10:42:27 · 17 answers · asked by BabyGurl2011 2

The majority of answers here offer conseling as a means of reconciliation. Are there any mature people here who relied on themselves to solve their relationship woes. I personally feel that if you can't fix your own relationship how can a stranger do it for you. What has any counselor ever told you that you and your partner didn't already know?

I do understand how it works. Counselors are there for mediation and to be impartial. My point is if your partner refuses to be honest behind closed doors, why would anyone want someone who has to be forced to change who they are to be with you? Don't you ever think that they know they are wrong, but refuse to change? Why drag them to a "professional" talker to try to get them to admit they've been wrong. It just seems like a fad to me.

2007-11-22 10:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by WAKE UP 3

I know he had some property like a time share and life insurance. We also had four storage units but I believe they are in his mothers name.

2007-11-22 10:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by danisadress 1

2007-11-22 10:18:36 · 32 answers · asked by billylapierre509 1

we went to a b-day party and my best friend was there I 'll be honest i didn't pay attecion to him well not much..anyways i was dancing and playing pool with my friends and he was just sitting there like an old man (he's 30)...then I saw him talking to some friends and thought everything is cool.
at the end when we where leaving and got into the car he say nothing..we got home and nothing he did not spoke a word..this morning he woke up and nothign still..and i say you want breakfast and he said nothing!! not even no! right now he is in the computer he's been there all day..I know he is bored and he won't even look at me!! what do i do..
should i let him be and give him space...should I ask him something?
this never happened before so I am like scare and puzzle...
any help is appreciated.
cheers

2007-11-22 10:11:19 · 23 answers · asked by need2know 1

Like a cooderator for the counseling services that some people get with or as they are getting treatment ???

2007-11-22 09:47:21 · 2 answers · asked by HollyBerry 3

If a girl beg and cried infront of a guy ask him for another chance and back to her..most of the guys will say yes? or just pissed off?

This girl got a very bad attitube ,always nag him becos of a small issue.this girl actually got a 2 years old kid.she asked this guy to marry her..this guy never think of this before because he's just 24years old.he actually avoid her for 1 week ..he is so sick of her bad character.they work together at the same place.his family actually dislike this girl.all his friends and family asked him don't turn back

2007-11-22 09:43:06 · 4 answers · asked by Lala L 1

I'm in a long distance relationship, and lastnight my girlfriend had sex with another guy. This was her ex boyfriend. She was at a party amd may have been slipped something. Either that or she drank too much. She didnt remember half the party, leaving, or having sex with him. I know she is telling the truth, and I believe her. However, its just so hard knowing that she was getting laid by her ex boyfriend lastnight. Need advice

2007-11-22 09:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here's my question.

Persons C and CC are married.... other persons N and S are married, if C and N kiss, is this considered an affair or cheating on your spouse??

I chose using letters instead of names for some reason..

2007-11-22 09:23:14 · 21 answers · asked by Danny 4

Discribe love / happy dating

2007-11-22 09:21:01 · 9 answers · asked by Muidahmed MD 1

If a girl beg and cried infront of a guy ask him for another chance and back to her..most of the guys will say yes? or just pissed off?

2007-11-22 09:13:16 · 3 answers · asked by Lala L 1

2007-11-22 08:50:06 · 27 answers · asked by neopoet22 2

Ok, me and my partner have been together 9 months. I am nearly divorced with 2 children and let my childrens dad see them 3 times a week. (Regardless to what he did in our marrige) My partner is going through a divorce also and choose after loads of heartbreak to be with me. He pays to his children and sees them once a week on her terms and conditions. He lives 60 miles away from them and has lost everything to be with me (parents included). He goes to parents evening at a seperate time than his wife, goes on trips with his daughters school works to provide for me,his kids and my kids. However much he compromises with his wife she goes out of her way to make things difficult. One week shes going to New Zeland the next down South and telling him he cant see the kids when hes due to travel 60 miles to see them. She asks him to help with the kids more then when he says he will after loads of sacrifices she says they want nothing to do with him. Whats going on? Help!!!!!

2007-11-22 08:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be 18 soon and my girlfriend is 15, we have been having sexual relations, once I turn 18 what will it take for me to stay with her legally, in washington state?

2007-11-22 08:35:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a good girl for the most part. i party and drink but for the most part i am good. . I am 5'4, 120 pounds, black hair and eyes, 36d, flat tummy, athletic and tan and in good shape. i get checked out by guys but its always by bad boys and those r the ones i go for then and end up getting hurt. u dont know what i do wrong and what good guys like?

2007-11-22 08:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a child two years ago. ever since she was born my husband doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. what could be the problem?

2007-11-22 08:31:36 · 18 answers · asked by lovely1 2

my husband left me in august 2 go & live with his daughter(who is now pregnant with twinsby ivf) & her boyfriend, he cant talk 2 me if they are around yet he tells me he wants 2 save our marriage but is not willing 2 move bk 2 our marital home but he is living in his ex martital & his daughter's ex marital(long story) home, the house is rented by his daughter & her boyfriend off my husband's ex wife( get that if u will)! He is applying 4 housin off the local council & expects me 2 move 2 be near him but he is not willing 2 give anything in exchange, am i a fool or wot????

2007-11-22 08:25:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im over him.. probably so is he. all residual chemistry evaporated ages back , we live nearby and i happen to be a friend of his wife & (teach few basics of baby bringing up to her..also help her with the baby at times) i see little more of him than usual.i saw some sparks coming back but i totally discouraged his warmth .now just few mins ago he was making his wife hear some sad recording of his colleague ..& his wife asked.."why did u record this" and i lol'd... cos i was v amused by the recording..not the sad talk in the conversation...and this So cald EX..started quering me..why are you amused ? whats soo funny?

his baby was on my lap so i couldnt just barge off..i said i cannot explain ... and then he lied on the bed .. his wife next to him.. then this guy started tickling her ..n then ME!! three times i had to say to let it be stopped.
im just pisd m not into him.. & i am the immediate neighbour so i keep getting her calls for help.
What does HE want ???& what to do?

2007-11-22 08:19:49 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2

I am going to get a divorce from my wife but in the mean time she has taken my daughter out of state. My daughter was born where I live and I want to know whats the best way to get her back before were divorced. What can I do?

2007-11-22 08:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 08:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if he has the proceedure and then decides he does want kids?

2007-11-22 07:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1

Is it true if a man has sex more often he lasts longer??

2007-11-22 07:46:27 · 18 answers · asked by jilliebean_777 1

2007-11-22 07:40:20 · 16 answers · asked by Mi vida 1

Been with the boyfriend for about 2 years. Sometimes I feel he wants me to break up with him, even though he tells me that he doesn't want that at all, and he hopes we get married. He doesn't act as sweet as he used to. Part of it is I can be very demanding sometimes. I always want to hang out. He tells me the reason why he's not as nice as he used to is all because of me. He says I expect too much from him, and expect him to be everything, and I'm going to have to learn that he can't be my everything. He also tells me that I won't ever find a guy who puts up with my crap, and that he puts up with so much. I was upset because today he didn't call and tell me happy thanksgiving, but he said I never gave him a chance to, and that he didn't want to waste his minutes because it costs too much money. He said that he was trying to save up money so he could do something fun with me. We're both 20 and studying abroad together. Do I need to change or Am I being taken for granted?

2007-11-22 07:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Consultant 1

Married 11 years
girlfriend entertains husband six years
Got caufht in the sensual act
Wife quit work and husband quit work
Made a deal with husband
she wouldnt divorce him and he can keep his upper middle class lifestyle if she can quit work and live the good life
Husband didnt want to lose children and homre
decision after years of work
retired and let girlfriend support both of them
Girlfriend works two jobs and supports both of them while carying on the affair with wifes approval
Now six years later girlfriend is angry at no account wife

call wife lazy Wifes reply
just keeping paying for children and her and everything is fine
result girlfriend keeps paying
Children thinks shes a sweet aunt
Nothing is ever done in front of the children so they are happy
They think mom andad are rich

2007-11-22 07:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 07:32:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 07:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by Riya 1