What are some things you should think about or prepare for before getting married?

Answer 1

having sex with only one person for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE

Answer 2

I think the only thing you need to prepare for before you get married is your future together with this man. Obviously you love each other or he wouldn't have proposed, and you wouldn't have accepted. If you can see yourselves in 40 years sitting on the front porch of your house together watching the grand-kids running around then your ready. You have accepted him warts and all and are prepared to work at your futures together. Being married is a real job and your get paid with the rewards of the efforts you put in. Good luck I hope everything goes well for you and your future husband. May the rest of your lives be filled with love and compassion.

Answer 3

In all honesty, a prenup is something to think about, even if you ultimately decide not to get one.

I have heard about a study that suggested the couples who had a prenup were actually less likely to get divorced, so it is something to think about.

It's something that can often be done without a lawyer, these days. If you want a prenup, but don't have the money for a lawyer, there are a number of do-it-yourself options available.

Answer 4

My marriage councelor told me that the key to a succesful marriage is 1. Money 2. Sex & 3. Communication... On a foot note you want to fufil any sexual desires you might have with any other person you like. Sounds bad but its better to do it now and get it out the way instead of soem years down the road you find your self cheating because you always "wondered'

Answer 5

Why does the other person want to marry you
Do you both have good sexual chemistry
Do you have passion in your relationship
Do you know more about being a husband/wife or a lover
Are you willing to give up some of the freedom that you have

Answer 6

Are you being honest with yourself? Do you realize that you cannot change this man? Have you accepted the fact that your man is who he is, all character defects and assets are included in the deal?

Have the two of you talked about and come to an agreement on all the big issues?

Have you looked at all the wedding vows seriously?

Good luck. I will pray for a happy marriage for you.

Answer 7

The number 1 most important thing is to figure out your finances get a budget together. Almost all marriage problems are brought on by finances. other than that make sure you got a place to live and make sure you have the same views on certain things such as children.

Answer 8

Aside from the 100 questionnaire, a good marital counselor can help the both of you through a pre-marital process that shouldn't leave any question unanswered.

Don't plan a wedding date until you are well beyond this process. It will give you and your spouse time to digest and ask additional questions if necessary.

Answer 9

Based on questions and answer I have seen here:

1. Your zodiac signs
2. His religion
3. Do you want kids? When?
4. How to keep things spicy
5. Size of his member
6. Getting along with the in-laws
7. Sorting out finances
8. Where to live. (Hint: not with the inlaws)
9. Understand that you will both change after marriage
10. Your response to his porn addiction.

Answer 10

I am not married, so I can't say, but discussing how many kids, if any is a must. If you both believe in different religions, how that's gona work is also a must. How to handle money is another strong issue.

Answer 11

http://www.professorshouse.com/family/relationships/questions-to-ask-before-marriage.aspx

Good Luck