Married 11 years
girlfriend entertains husband six years
Got caufht in the sensual act
Wife quit work and husband quit work
Made a deal with husband
she wouldnt divorce him and he can keep his upper middle class lifestyle if she can quit work and live the good life
Husband didnt want to lose children and homre
decision after years of work
retired and let girlfriend support both of them
Girlfriend works two jobs and supports both of them while carying on the affair with wifes approval
Now six years later girlfriend is angry at no account wife
call wife lazy Wifes reply
just keeping paying for children and her and everything is fine
result girlfriend keeps paying
Children thinks shes a sweet aunt
Nothing is ever done in front of the children so they are happy
They think mom andad are rich
2007-11-22 07:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i told them they are wrong/They siad im entitled to my opinion. but dony interfere I dont
2007-11-22 07:35:32 · update #1
Do you feel sorry for girlfriend working two jibs so she can support everybody inorder to keep husband sensual action?
2007-11-22 07:46:32 · update #2
Girlfriend complains shes so tired doing two eight hour shift plus staying in shape she could drop but in love with husband Desperate for advice on how to kep him
2007-11-22 08:00:55 · update #3
the girlfriend can only afford a room while husband and wife live in a six bedroom house with a swimming pool and huge game room.. Girlfriend says he he knows his business during the steamy hot passionate deep driving sensual groaning nail biting act
2007-11-24 07:29:38 · update #4
the girlfriend is an idiot, and sells herself short. no man could be that wonderful that i would work two jobs, support his family, just so i could be with him. if she doesn't like it she can at any time get out of it. plus whats in it for her? doesn't seem to be much of anything at all.
2007-11-22 10:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the g/f should be angry at the wife. She should be angry at herself. Working to support the man she is having an affair with along with his whole family is a lack of respect for herself. Either that or the sex is damn good.
It's also not very fair of the man for putting all of them in this situation. I believe the g/f needs to get out, make the husband and wife get jobs again and support their family on their own.
How unethical is this relationship? Talk about adultery right in the eyes of everyone. I am sorry to say, that I believe this is completely and utterly sick on all ends. I sure as heck would not share my husband like that, happyily married or not.
2007-11-23 00:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Just Want To B Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an adulterous relationship with a married man.....so I can't feel sorry for you.
That's the price you pay when you play.....and someone else owns the sandbox and all the pails & shovels....sorry.
Cut off the money to the Boyfriend so he'll hafta find some other Cash Cow....and that's what you are to him, honey, a cash cow that he has no legal ties or obligations to. And the wife figgures if your stupid enough to support the idiot, then you need to pay for the privelige of boinkin' her husband...as long as her kids are provided for and so is she,she doesn't give a rat's patootie where the moola is coming from. Wise up before it's too late.
2007-11-22 07:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a comedy of fools.
The wife for accepting a cheating husband in order to keep her lifestyle, the husband for being a cheat who has no intention of leaving the wife or working, but mostly the foolish girlfriend who works two jobs to support the two of them, when neither of them is offering anything worthwhile in return.
None of the characters in this black comedy deserve sympathy.
2007-11-22 07:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hope she barely makes enough to get by ,otherwise she may hire a hit man to get wife out her way.
That would be bad for all involved including the kids.
Also once the kids are grown the husband may dump you for her.
At any rate you all are screwed up.You are for staying with a guy who may bring you a disease home, he for being an adulterous infidel dead beat dad and not setting a good example for his kids, and the g/f for getting involved with a married man and doing what she is doing.
2007-11-22 07:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you in this situation?
For one this is just a horrid scene. The wife, husband and gf are all nasty little people. I don't know how they live with themselves...
The girlfriend should be angry with herself for being so stupid... what I think is... the girlfriend should leave the nasty marriage alone and allow them to venge for themselves. She needs to find a man of her own. (a single one)
And wife needs to divorce her nasty husband, get some of that retirement check, get a job and some counseling
Husband needs to make sure he doesn' t have a disease and he needs to get ready to reap fotr what he's sowed...
2007-11-22 07:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should run off to peru and start anew. You, or your wife, don't need to pay the child support from those ho's.
2016-05-25 01:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by jennette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Riiiiiiight
2007-11-22 07:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Trogdor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend seems to be the only one upset by the relationship and rightfully so! But I won't even answer the question does she have the right to be mad, because its to easy, I think she has a right to therapy! She owes it to herself. She needs it desperatly
2007-11-22 07:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would a person stay in this situation?
I don't feel sorry for the GF, she put herself in this relationship. Now the kids I feel really sorry for them. Total losers for parents.
2007-11-22 07:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ryann 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋