I'm in a long distance relationship, and lastnight my girlfriend had sex with another guy. This was her ex boyfriend. She was at a party amd may have been slipped something. Either that or she drank too much. She didnt remember half the party, leaving, or having sex with him. I know she is telling the truth, and I believe her. However, its just so hard knowing that she was getting laid by her ex boyfriend lastnight. Need advice
2007-11-22 09:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she can Tell u anything and she thinks u will believe it, but she was the one who chose to drink, and long distance relationship's rarely work out because the temptation to see others is always there.
2007-11-22 09:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need this kind of turmoil?
Do you deserve to be treated this way?
How would she react if the shoe was on the other foot?
Listen to what all these people on this post are telling you; Short or long distance, a relationship can't last too long without trust.
You'll spend so much energy wondering what's she doing, life and all it has to offer will pass you by...
Cut the cord... it will sting but you will be stronger for it.
2007-11-22 17:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by asgodintended 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was at a party and most likely got drunk and had sex with her ex...now she is feeling guilty and confessed to you...but is wanting to be excused because she was either drunk or had been drugged....You really need to question your relationship with her...especially a long distance relationship...
2007-11-22 17:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship rarely works. Now she's sleeping with someone else. What else does she do that you don't know about?. Find someone local.
2007-11-22 17:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Notredame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice try from her end. She wanted to have a good time and she did it with her ex boyfriend. It is up to you if you want to stick around her. I would dump her.
2007-11-22 17:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please just how many people can honestly have sex and not remember a thing????? Man you need to move on. At least your not married to her yet. She had sex with him because she wanted to....I am sorry it is so hard for you to admit. Good Luck
2007-11-22 17:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lue R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to realize is she is not your girlfriend. She is just stringing you along and keeping you as her safety net.
Descend your testicles and be done with her!
Good luck.
2007-11-22 17:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't be a push-over.........she's lying. Dump her.
2007-11-22 17:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump her, she's a slut
2007-11-22 17:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Brittney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋