Ok, me and my partner have been together 9 months. I am nearly divorced with 2 children and let my childrens dad see them 3 times a week. (Regardless to what he did in our marrige) My partner is going through a divorce also and choose after loads of heartbreak to be with me. He pays to his children and sees them once a week on her terms and conditions. He lives 60 miles away from them and has lost everything to be with me (parents included). He goes to parents evening at a seperate time than his wife, goes on trips with his daughters school works to provide for me,his kids and my kids. However much he compromises with his wife she goes out of her way to make things difficult. One week shes going to New Zeland the next down South and telling him he cant see the kids when hes due to travel 60 miles to see them. She asks him to help with the kids more then when he says he will after loads of sacrifices she says they want nothing to do with him. Whats going on? Help!!!!!
2007-11-22 08:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been seperated 2 years just cant get divorced until 13th Dec. Thanks for all your answers so far. Im sure you agree that regardless of what goes on in a marrige kids should see their dads, unless their is a risk.
2007-11-22 08:57:30 · update #1
I didnt have nothing to do with their split!! They seperated BEFORE he got with me.
2007-11-22 08:59:30 · update #2
I didnt have nothing to do with their split!! They seperated BEFORE he got with me.
2007-11-22 08:59:32 · update #3
yes it is hard for a man, a woman is a beautiful thing and will love you give you all and every thing but your partner hurt her and that loving woman turns into a reptile with breastacles if you know what i mean a hurt woman is the most dangerous thing on this earth so you have to stand by him she is going to take his children away what you both must decide is does he try to get an injunction to stop her taking the children to new zealand looking at it as an outsider she is using the taking the children away thing to get to your partner why pick new zealand it is the furthest point away and expensive to travel there it is a ploy to win him back and i could be wrong but think about it she is playing games with you both causing upset in you partnership tell you man to tell her take them if it wrong and she is going to new zealand then it will make little diffrence dont play her games she will riun your relationship Dave
2007-11-22 19:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Psycho Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take some time to be by yourself after the divorce, and heal, before you can move on to the next relationship.
Let him go. Be true to yourself and your needs.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 08:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He needs a lawyer and an agreement on writing... it's gonna be costly but it will save him more headaches later.
2007-11-22 08:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
clearly she is angry and wants to cause him as much grief as possible. he should go back to his solicitor and get an contact agreement keep evidence of all her crap for legal purposes and if she will not be agreeable to contact and stick to it then its off to the courts.
2007-11-22 09:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody had good answers for you here. she is still spiteful an also would love to cause you guys problems. she sounds like the type that loves to put obstacles in his way , especially if she thinks it is you an him.
2007-11-22 09:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you broke up a marriage and are now 'paying ' for it. He needs a lawyer.
2007-11-22 08:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by misselie1 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
she's making him pay because she's still angry. He needs to revisit his lawyer and get things worked out
2007-11-22 08:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep , she sounds like a winner! she just tryin' to be a bit_*h!
and make it hard on him.
2007-11-22 08:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋