An ...ex question ...(i was obcessed with him for 5 years .. i was ALWAYS married...its been a year to his)?

Question

im over him.. probably so is he. all residual chemistry evaporated ages back , we live nearby and i happen to be a friend of his wife & (teach few basics of baby bringing up to her..also help her with the baby at times) i see little more of him than usual.i saw some sparks coming back but i totally discouraged his warmth .now just few mins ago he was making his wife hear some sad recording of his colleague ..& his wife asked.."why did u record this" and i lol'd... cos i was v amused by the recording..not the sad talk in the conversation...and this So cald EX..started quering me..why are you amused ? whats soo funny?

his baby was on my lap so i couldnt just barge off..i said i cannot explain ... and then he lied on the bed .. his wife next to him.. then this guy started tickling her ..n then ME!! three times i had to say to let it be stopped.
im just pisd m not into him.. & i am the immediate neighbour so i keep getting her calls for help.
What does HE want ???& what to do?

Answer 1

Your torturing yourself interacting at this level, you obviously still have feelings and its understandable. You need to move on for your own sanity, He can't have his cake and eat it too. You owe it to yourself to find happiness in your life. Don't do it by living in the past, MOVE ON

Answer 2

I think, his wife too is on his side, they togather would be trying to have the fun of trio on the bed. Its totally up to you , wheather you want to enter the game or not. Yes ! if once you enter you may not be able to come out of this mess. Its you, yourself to decide what you want. If you want to know his next step let him proceed .............and you will find him on the same line what I told above.

Answer 3

He wants to use you for sex.

You are beautiful and worth so much more than that. It is time you moved.

Good luck.

Answer 4

just stay away from them