we went to a b-day party and my best friend was there I 'll be honest i didn't pay attecion to him well not much..anyways i was dancing and playing pool with my friends and he was just sitting there like an old man (he's 30)...then I saw him talking to some friends and thought everything is cool.
at the end when we where leaving and got into the car he say nothing..we got home and nothing he did not spoke a word..this morning he woke up and nothign still..and i say you want breakfast and he said nothing!! not even no! right now he is in the computer he's been there all day..I know he is bored and he won't even look at me!! what do i do..
should i let him be and give him space...should I ask him something?
this never happened before so I am like scare and puzzle...
any help is appreciated.
cheers
2007-11-22 10:11:19 · 23 answers · asked by need2know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's been in front of the computer all day,when it was lunch time he made food just for him and he did not seat with me on the table (at home) he ate in the kitchen giving me his back, i can't take it anymore i want to hug him and kiss him so bad right now he is in front of me but not looking....is just so hard to talk im scare he'll reject me bad and i don't want that...anyways...here i go wish me luck.
2007-11-22 14:04:14 · update #1
i would sit down and quietly ask him what is wrong and why is he hurt. something hurt him, he may not know how to communicate what he is feeling. but if u don't get it out in the open it will just fester and get worse.
2007-11-22 10:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 Years! After this amount of time it would seem that you would have a better understanding between you. I wonder what put him in this mood? It seems you just ignored him " sitting there like an old man " ( as you said ) When 2 people go to an event together they should stay together as a couple.You were dancing and playing pool with your friends. No wonder he didn't have much to say after you got home. You dissed him and you were not very nice about it. One thing is for sure, you start taking a person for granted and you will lose that person. I feel bad for him and I hope he finds someone that will appreciate him, love him, and pay attention to him. How would you have felt had he done this to you?
2007-11-22 18:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ignored him at the party so now hes ignoring you. How do you like it?? Maybe next time you wont ignore him....if there is a next time. You could have included him in the game of pool or ANYTHING except leaving him there to sit all alone. I wouldn't speak to my partner if they had done this too. Stop pouting, your learning about karma hands on!!!!
2007-11-22 18:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I suppose you are young referring to your boyf as an "old man"! You got to your friends party with your boyfriend!! Not to just leave him sitting there pretending to enjoy you and your silly little friends jumpin aboot like kids with the impression that ur so "wacky" and "outthere".
Your boyf was probably cringing at you all and maybe having another thought at why he is with you!! Its obviously not his scene, but Im sur back in his wild days he had helluva time and just cant understand what you modern day young uns are all about!
2007-11-22 18:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How has he dealed with his moods prior to this occasion? In the past if he was upset did he keep quiet until he dealt with the issue within? If so, there is your answer. Or if he told you things right after he was upset then deal with the issue now. Do no let it go any longer without you speaking to him. Good luck and go with your gut instincts.
2007-11-22 18:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Izzy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He felt neglected at the party, and feels the need for you to come to him and make him feel less neglected. So, you're still neglecting him. Letting him cool down is not the answer. He is afraid that you don't care. You should go to him and give him some emotional TLC. If you actually care that is!
2007-11-22 18:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok there is a lot of people think that they know everything, just to find out they really know not a thing.
If you will please talk to him if you really want him to be yours.
For man needs to be know that he his the only one for you.
If you really want he then show him.
He might be think of meaning things, and there is really no telling what.
If he was sitting you should be there with him. I am not trying to sound like a male shraving pig. Do you did ask. please forgive me for my spelling.
See I can say that I am sorry but not really saying the word sorry.
2007-11-22 18:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Herman B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Crisis Intervention ASAP
2007-11-22 18:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Google Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to a party and don't pay any attention to your significant other gee I wonder what the problem could have been? Maybe he doesn't like being ignored by you at a party?
2007-11-22 18:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, hopefully you're not planning on marrying this guy in the future because he is obviously showing you that he can't communicate. Leave the jerk alone. Let him sulk like a 2 year old.
2007-11-22 18:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wanted you to keep him company at the party but you were to busy having too much fun without him. Ask him what is going on and why is he not talking to you.
2007-11-22 18:22:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋