Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2007

three years ago i meet a girl in yahoo's chat room,we used to chat everynights until she gave me her phone number.
after a while i found out that she has had another boy friend and is planning to marry him(her family was't agree to this marriage because he had no job and had evil character and everyone hated him)
but my gf who has always wanted to make herself a hero stood against her parents and made them agree by force.
in that time i asked her to marry me instead of that evil guy,but she rejected my request.
and she DID married but after a year they got divorced.
some days ago she called and explained their story and said taht she is sorry for her first choice.
i still love her ,what would you do if you were me ?(i mean get marry to her or not)?

2007-11-22 07:22:24 · 11 answers · asked by arash 2

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4 me - in the nehbor car! It was unlocked and they were out of town!!! It was kind of hard caus the nehbor had junk all over the inside of the car and im like ah!! ahH!H!HOuCH!!!!!!! It looked like they lived in the car and before we left we stoled some shoes!!! IT was hilarious!!!!
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2007-11-22 07:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

view of the road after seizing me in a passionate embrace. I took her out for a run in the country in the car, stopping off at a nice country pub "The Snivelling Ferret" where they do nice "Cheese toasties" laced with HP sauce. It was her birthday you see and she does have this weakness for cheese-makes her go "all of a dither." She did go on the balloon flight earlier but survived it and really invigorated her. Anyway she grabbed me at an inappropriate moment taking us through a farmers gate right into the pig pen. This fierce old sow trying to protect its young stuck its head and shoulders through my window-considered Doris but then frightened by her, bit me instead. I don't think I will be quite the man I was. Dear oh dear-I am depressed. Can anyone help me get some new two tone Royal Purple and Scarlet waders? That Pig ruined them and I think that colour has been discontinued.

2007-11-22 07:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In January, I will be married 3yrs, we've always been sexually active. I try to please him which ever way possible. I even suggest different positions. I'm always caressing him, touching making him feel good. I discovered my husband loves porn. I had discovered sex web sites on my computer.. He likes to watch it secretely. It wasn't until the most recent time that he was confronted he admitted watching porno. He wasn't all truthful he omitted the sex chat room. I did ask my husband in the begining of the marriage if he liked porno. He said "NO", meanwhile, he acts all roly poly in front of other people. He prays 5x a day and preaches about his religion how perfect it is. What a big hipocrite. My fear is this behavior will lead from fanatsy to reality.

2007-11-22 06:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by doradogirl 1

I have been playing football with my husband and his pals. they play a rough game of tackle which sometimes includes the men "accidentally" tackling the women by grabbing our boobs to tackle us. my husband says its all in good fun so to just deal with it when one of his friends does it to me. does anyone have any advice how to get these guys back? one problem is i'm only 5'4 and most of these guys are big and built.
the guys think its so funny that i'm so vunerable because its so easy to take me down with a squeeze up there.

2007-11-22 05:46:26 · 11 answers · asked by Nick 1

Basically I a soft natured guy and emotionally attached to everybody.

Ours was an arranged marriage more than 10 yrs old. Of this, we were apart for 10 years with 5 spells of reunited life aged not exceeding 2 – 4 months. We have a girl kid of 10 yrs. Efforts of reunions were initiated by me. Their family members are the culprits.

In the present spell of reunited life my wife behavior is too erratic, adamant, arrogant, beyond control and out of character and control. Sometime psycho / eccentric behavior. Now, we are leading separated life within house. She spoiled the kid and she also following her mother .

Now she is not willing to go away as was earlier and also not for legal separation. I proposed for mutual separation considering their future and avoid embarrassment to both. Serving divorce notice will certainly affect their future and I do not know under what ground I should.

All this issues hampering my official and other activities. Please advice honestly

2007-11-22 05:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this guy for 3 years and we had a relationship then he got married to somene else and i didnt speak to him in a year and then one day he had gotten my new # and got in contact with me and calls me all the time we have had sex several times and he told me that he loved me for the first time but will not divorce his wife but we still see each other every once in a while.

2007-11-22 05:27:56 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda O 1

My man doesnt want to do husband wife things.Neither gay nor is there any other girl in picture.My man wont want intimacy even if i intiate it,no romantic holidays or doing things talking romantic with eachother,no gifts.My man works very busy in his career he works with my relative so theres no other girl or not gay.My man was same before marriage when we were dating.Whats wrong its 7years.

2007-11-22 04:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was married 17 years first time. Have one daughter, great relationship with her father, stepmom and halfbrother. I am frugal, independent financially have my own business and home. Guy we'll call...Homer! Unstable financially(Michigan economy no fiscal discipline), huge heart, pretty good job, one daughter...oh and ADHD!
I love him, but sometimes we can fight like cats and dogs. Just as much me as him!
Any advice from those who have been in this situation would be appreciated!

2007-11-22 04:52:20 · 2 answers · asked by Macy 2

Im fed up with my hubby coming in from the garden with muddy boots and stepping all over the back passage when I have spent hours cleaning the floor, I have asked him to go round the front but he never listens...what can I do?

2007-11-22 04:48:15 · 34 answers · asked by Jenny O 4

well..here it goes..
-i am 18..happily married for 2 yrs.
-my hubby is 27..( i know..it is weird but don't laugh @ me!)
-i came from india last yr and my hubby grew up in america
-we have a few cultural differences...and he is a doctor( stilla resident so he just make $3000 a month plus med school debt) and has friends who r very materialistic and always talk about bars, wines, high class restaurants, fashion and jewelry ...so i don't like to hang out with them. but he does and i don't mind.
-i go to college a local community college and i have no car (again financial problems)

now my question is how do i make new friends? All my frinds are in India and i was so busy last yr being newly married and helping my inlaws..and studying that i did not socialize even a little bit...and i am a bit shy too..
How do i make friends? i can't go out a lot becoz i don't have a car only my hubby does

will people get scared and not talk to me as i am married at an early age? coz i am still learning

2007-11-22 04:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Just another gal 3

My sister is separating from her husband,and my mom invited him to have Thanksgiving at her house.My sister said she wanted to stay friends with him.She came over and yelled at mom how dare you invite him to dinner! so was my mom in the wrong for inviting him to her house.I can understand my sister being upset.But i also understand my mom wanting to be nice and inviting him,because she still likes him. I would appreciate any advice.

2007-11-22 04:35:41 · 13 answers · asked by Cinderella 5

My fiance and I have been engadged since September. I am begging to wonder WHY we are we even together. I never sold my old house so I will probally move into that. How can I lightly break up our relationship. He has kids and I have kids and I just think now isn't the best time for marriage. Nothing major has been planned yet, so I can do this.How should I do this?

2007-11-22 03:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jasmine 4

My Fiance's ex-wife insists on staying at the house to visit the children when she's in town. She wants to visit the children and stay/sleep at the house if visiting for more than 1 day. I believe she should be able to visit her children, how would you react to her staying/sleeping at the house?

2007-11-22 03:41:15 · 28 answers · asked by Lady D 2

I have a friend who about two years ago thought she had found Mr. Right, unfortunately after he promised to marry her and she bought a condo that he was suppose to share, he dumped her. Now she has met someone else and has bought another home with him, soon they are to be engaged and marry in the fall. I have known her since college and think she is moving to fast. This past summer she wanted to dump him because he was too needy and she wasn't attracted to him. I know feelings can change but how do you go from that to marriage six months later? After her last relationship I think she needs to be more cautious and slow down. I guess some people get married "just to get married" or is love confused for need?

2007-11-22 03:30:15 · 16 answers · asked by iknowmarysunshine 2

I have been seeing this married guy for 7 months now, he has introduced me to all his friends, we go out together, we see each other everyday and took a few weekend trips too. He spends as much time as he can with me, he says he loves me. His wife is driving him crazy (so he and his friends say), he married her because she got pregnant right after they started dating. He says he can't get a divorce cuz he doesn't have enough $$ to pay for child support. But he recently got a new great paying job.

With the amount of time we spend together, do you think his wife knows?? or she does not want to face this reality?
If he says he loves me and spends so much time with me, and now has a great paying job, should he finally leave her to be with me?

2007-11-22 02:32:06 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my man for 14 years and we have definitely had our share of problems. We had a major melt down about 2 years ago and ever since then we've been getting along fairly well. But lately, he's been acting really sneaking and I think he's up to his old tricks again.

We have 3 kids, so I try not to make it a matter of breaking up, but I feel I'm only left with two choices...break up with him (and potentially damage the kids) or stay with him and *possibly* cheat on him. I've never cheated on him before, but something in the back of mind wants to let him know that two can play that game. I know it's not right, but I don't know what else to do...

2007-11-22 02:18:26 · 19 answers · asked by doit4fun 2

U'll earn double pts for answering this. Also mention ur age,height and weight if possible

2007-11-22 01:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

bodybuilder,intellect and great guitarist musician.

2007-11-22 01:15:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

without other intentions.I have never had that.

2007-11-22 00:53:39 · 42 answers · asked by honestly36female 1

fall in love with your mistress? Do you have full control over your emotions to prevent such complications and keep things simple? If you did start to develop feelings would you end the affair or just go with the feelings?

2007-11-22 00:43:34 · 16 answers · asked by Liteson 3

My wife of 1 year and I had a party to show off the house we just purchased. About 20 people were there and drinks for flowing. I'm not much of a drinker but my wife kept making me do shots. A few hours later, she comes up to the bedroom and finds me in bed with one of her friends. I told her I was so drunk, I forgot I was married. The party kind of went down hill from that point. I feel her forcing me to drink caused the situation and she should take full responsibility.

2007-11-22 00:38:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My relationship was hard since the beginning. He only like skinny girls, and a year ago my weight was 160 pounds, Now, I'm 130 pounds. Some of his friends were telling him all the time that he deserve something better than me. We improve. He was very hurt in the past and now does not want to have kids at all. He told me, he will never have kids with me. Now one of his sons (8 years old) knows about him, and that make my boyfriend believe that he will never want to be a father again, and he already have the sons he wanted to have
We are living in Costa Rica, and my boyfriend is from Colorado, also the 2 kids are living there.
He is going to start having contact with him over the phone, and has the idea of bring him to Costa Rica and help him to raise him. I’m not sure if I want to do that., I’m 32 years old, and I’m not a mother yet., but I don’t want to take that responsibility on my shoulders either. I believe that will ad more issues to our relationship. Any ideas?

2007-11-22 00:29:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner has just be assigned a new job in Birmingham and we currently live in Leeds so quite a distance, therefore, he is planning to stay down there and we would only see eachother every weekend. We have been together 5 years and 4 of those we have never been apart. He hates this fact aswell and has asked how i would feel about going with him not forgetting i have quite a good job and we have a house. This job he is going for is 6-8 months what should i do?

2007-11-22 00:24:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everything is perfect for now? I want to be the perfect mistress I almost mess up the first time he pull back but he can't stay away. I need ideas from guys what to do. I just want to be his mistress sometimes it feels like he is addicted to me. It's is going on three years. Help Please

2007-11-22 00:14:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

he never initiates hugging, he doesn't snuggle anymore, etc. In addition, he says he has zero sex drive right now, but always looks at porn when i'm not around. His libido has been low since his surgery, but that was 2 yrs ago. i keep telling him to leave if he's not into me, but he says he loves me. Other guys stare me down, so i don't think i'm horrible to be with. Furthermore, i am super nice to him and we have fun together. We've been together 5 years. The first 3 yrs he was very affectionate/active w me. He has an ostomy, but is very comfortable w it otherwise, ie, walking around naked, etc. What's the deal?

2007-11-22 00:11:10 · 13 answers · asked by just asking 2