I have been playing football with my husband and his pals. they play a rough game of tackle which sometimes includes the men "accidentally" tackling the women by grabbing our boobs to tackle us. my husband says its all in good fun so to just deal with it when one of his friends does it to me. does anyone have any advice how to get these guys back? one problem is i'm only 5'4 and most of these guys are big and built.
the guys think its so funny that i'm so vunerable because its so easy to take me down with a squeeze up there.
2007-11-22 05:46:26 · 11 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh you so need to get a life.....or ask a different question.
2007-11-22 05:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by unbroken29 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have one of three options.
1 Refuse to play..."Feeling Up' another's wife or any woman who objects is being totally disrespectfull....and he's going along so he can pull it on another woman....
2. Play but make it quite clear that the next jerk who touches you that way without your permission will have to explain his behavior to the cop you WILL call....and call !
3. The next time your grabbed that way...
a swift elbow in the ribs or
grab his 'package' and squeeze it...hard. Tell him it's funny and all in good fun while he rolls about in pain
Or threaten to knee the next jerk in the you know what if he does it to you again...and follow thru.
They are only doing it because they are geting away with it...Do the other ladies like it or are they objecting, too.....get the others to join in on your 'fun'....you;ll see a sudden change, I'm sure.....
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you can also man proof your bra......get an inexpensive sports bra and glue/sew tacks to the outside of it pointing outward. The next time a guy grabs ya...you'll make your 'point'......
2007-11-22 15:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And it's easy to take them down with a squeeze DOWN there!
Seriously though, if them grabbing you bothers you, then ask them to stop. I'd be upset if my husband continued to allow them to grab me like that...even if it was just in fun for the game. They don't have the right to touch you there unless you say it's OK. If they won't stop, you need to reconsider whether you want to keep playing with them. Or start grabbing their crotch to tackle them!
2007-11-22 15:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you like it, come on you know you do, other wise you would not be playing tackle football with your hubbys friends. Be a lady and stop this silliness, go shopping with your hubby's friends wife's or G/F.
2007-11-22 14:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by tiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have two options:
1. don't play football with these losers
2. get a new husband who has more respectful friends.
2007-11-22 14:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jen70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not play the game!
2007-11-22 18:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Right.
2007-11-22 13:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think so too Tiny because if she didn't she wouldn't even play with them right?
2007-11-22 14:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they enjoy "accidently" grabbing your boobs...then I say "accidently" knee them in the balls...That'll get them to stop
2007-11-22 14:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lilli 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to post the same question???
2007-11-22 14:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋