Everything is perfect for now? I want to be the perfect mistress I almost mess up the first time he pull back but he can't stay away. I need ideas from guys what to do. I just want to be his mistress sometimes it feels like he is addicted to me. It's is going on three years. Help Please
2007-11-22 00:14:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE MESSING WITH A MARRIED MAN THE WIFE SHOULD BE THANKING ME FOR KEEPING HER HUSBAND HAPPY
2007-11-22 00:35:23 · update #1
I GUESS LAZY BUT MARRIED MAN ARE CLEANER THAN SINGLE MAN
2007-11-22 00:49:16 · update #2
Was that suppose to hurt my feelings. I know how fine I am believe me body and face is slamming . When wives get fat and ugly that's why the man cheat. You have to keep yourself up.
2007-11-22 07:24:36 · update #3
If it gives you happiness then carry on...
2007-11-22 00:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by DN1955 2 · 2⤊ 7⤋
Your mind of pretty screwed up. There is karma girly. The Divine has given us free will.
The thing we all have to realize, as that the girl being cheated on, manifested this in this life or some other lifetime more likely.
Things don't happen to people for no reason. So this is a karmic lesson being worked out for all. The best thing is to do gracefully as possible and/or unwork the karma through meditation/mantras and/or selfless service and right action.
Anyays, to the homewrecker, you may be partially acting out this karma but you also also creating new bad karma, and be it now or in a next life, will face this being done to you, one way or the other.
I assume what I'm saying is probably over your head and you are still asleep in the material delusion of an Earth Life.
You know better. It's hot and fun now but the pain will follow.
Yes, his little fling awakens his dull marriage (because after the honeymoon he didn't realize it takes effort on both sides to keep magic) but they almost never leave the wife and he'll eventually tire of you, esp. if wife finds out and in end he chooses her. The chance he goes to you...in my experience, you always end up get cheated on down the road.
Enjoy your life and the misery you may be causing by taking something that isn't yours. Congrats on failing the temptation lesson.
2007-11-22 01:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Bent 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most women who get involved with married men have low self esteem about themselves. Everything is not perfect because, you will always be last honey. His wife is always first, in his mind and in his heart, not you. Nothing good never come out of this. He's not addicted to you, he's only with you for sex, and that never last, that's why he has a wife. Your not only disrespecting yourself, an wasting time on someone who's not yours, and never will be yours. Get out there and find your own men, and stop being with some one else's. Have you ever heard of Karma? If he really wanted to be with you, he would have divorced his wife and marry you. I can't believe that you don't mind mind putting your life in jeopardy and living life on the edge as a mistress. You really sound ignorant. That's a dangerous place to be. Hopefully, you will love yourself enough to put yourself first and find your own man. By the way, he's showing you what kind of men his is. You deserve every single negative emotion he's putting you through, because your doing it to your self. The only person I feel sorry for is his wife, Home wrecker.
2007-11-22 01:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Everythings perfect now? Are you insane? I almost think that you are kidding around, and if your not then you have lots of issues, this is not how you should be living your life, and patting yourself on the back acting as if you should be so proud of yourself for the fact that he cant stay away is really a red flag of your mental sickness, big deal if he cant stay away, men are men, they will screw anything from a blow-up doll to a hole in the wall, so stop with all the egotistic talk, it doesnt make you special to him, it only makes you a easy target for sex, you are his whore not his mistress and untill you see the situation for what it really is, and not for what you think it is, you will never be able to move forward in your life and have a real loving relationship with a man! You are gonna be getting older soon, dont you want a life? dont you want someone who cares about you for you? not for sex? I recomend getting rid of this guy, if ya dont, you will never have a life, you will merely be living in a fantasy world.
2007-11-22 01:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A mistress is an easy toy, a discard-able object, a place to get off; a lonely pathetic worthless nothing available for another woman's man to use and then put away until the next time the urge arises between his thighs. I admit I feel little empathy for the pain felt after any woman has let any man use her in this way....
If everything was perfect for you with him now, dear Sasha, you would not need us....
2007-11-22 00:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
You are dumb. If he was sooo addicted to you, then why are seeking validation for your despicable behavior.Right now he's probably with his wife and family,celebrating the Thanksgiving holiday. Better yet, he might be with his "other" jump off. Meanwhile, you're sad and lonely, feeling sorry for yourself. You should really evaluate your quality of life. Stop kidding yourself...and get some kind of mental or spiritual counseling. I'm not judging you. I'm only being truthful.
2007-11-22 00:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The reason men that are married and go after girls like you is because you are not worth any thing but a piece of A-s-sWomen that are worth something they marry you offer nothing but an empty head and a warm bed......
2007-11-22 08:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by diva102288 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like this fear they cannot keep a spouse of their own so they glom on to someone else's. They take no real risk of giving their heart away. Show's a lack of maturity and definite fear of living.
If you really want help, then just grow the fk up, take a chance with your own mate. If you're just in it for the money, then you still need to grow up and make it on your own, otherwise I dont really think you want help. In that case you'd just be another low-life whore.
Sht, 3 billion men in the world and you have to get a married one? Either a wacko, scared child or lazy whore. Identify which one you are and then take the proper action to correct it.
2007-11-22 00:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny U 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Congratulations on having a nothing life that is going absolutely no where. You say everything is perfect...you are having an affair with a man that belongs to someone else.,...perfect? I think not! You don't think highly of yourself, do ya? One day you will 65 and you will still have nothing but memories of an empty life...I must say congratulations again. Today he is with is wife and family having a wonderful time..And men like he is is just as sick as you. Y'all deserve one another and it will be a blessed day when his wife finds out. Happy Thanksgiving and I hope you have a wonderful day alone. . .
2007-11-22 00:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
If you think you have done well your job on pleasing your man and enjoying it..that's up to you to continue but from my point of view,lust without love is a disaster!!! In the end, you will be hurt 'coz never you are a priority in his life.Sad to say,he is toying with your feelings.He gets what he wants from you and you give freely sexual pleasure.
Careful not to let yourself get pregnant.One thing he likes being with you is because,he doesn't need to worry about monthly bills,headaches from watching kids,nagging wife,etc..He finds you often 'fresh' for him in every way..and in bed.My dear,hope you can have your senses back before it's too late!!!
2007-11-22 00:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by flyz 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You deserve better than this. You need to look after yourself. No one else is going to do it for you. He is using your body for sex and nothing more. You are prostituting yourself and you can do better than that. You need to develop some self confidence and dump him. You are throwing the best years of your life away. I guarantee you will look back on this time and wonder why you didn't kick him out of your life sooner.
The bible says you reap what you sow. Consequences from this affair will not be pretty. Get out now before it's too late.
2007-11-22 01:06:21 · answer #11 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋