three years ago i meet a girl in yahoo's chat room,we used to chat everynights until she gave me her phone number.
after a while i found out that she has had another boy friend and is planning to marry him(her family was't agree to this marriage because he had no job and had evil character and everyone hated him)
but my gf who has always wanted to make herself a hero stood against her parents and made them agree by force.
in that time i asked her to marry me instead of that evil guy,but she rejected my request.
and she DID married but after a year they got divorced.
some days ago she called and explained their story and said taht she is sorry for her first choice.
i still love her ,what would you do if you were me ?(i mean get marry to her or not)?
2007-11-22 07:22:24 · 11 answers · asked by arash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone makes mistakes. you told her, but this is her past. If you do love her, as you said; you do then folow your heart . iI can not dicide for you, you are the only one who can decide how to live your life,and happiness. Go for it.! I whish you the best in the world.
2007-11-22 07:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by lizrobledo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some BIG mistake, eh? I don't think you should marry her just yet. Give it some time and get to know her more. Be sure she's not chatting with someone else the entire time she's with you. Plus you are her second and probably last choice. That's not something you should be too proud of. Can you live with her mistake? She sounds pretty selfish to me. good luck
2007-11-22 07:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should steer clear of her. She doesn't sound like a smart girl. She married some guy who didn't have a job. Sounds like she has a terrible relationship with her parents. And she rejected you once. Don't bother with her. She's bad news all the way around.
2007-11-22 07:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smells like a rebound, your the last place loser who finally got the girl cause your so nice. Sure what the heck give her a second chance to stomp on your heart and this time take your soul with you when she finds someone else to displace her love on.
2007-11-22 07:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie she is not the one for you. dont sell yourself short. she DECLINED your proposal and feelings the first go round and got married on you dont put yourself through that hurt and pain around. keep this girl at an arm length distance. there is not need for you to talk to her on the regular, or hang out on the regular. she made her decision a year ago about you and her so now she need to deal with it. just be friends to a point and move on. GodBless
2007-11-22 07:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get married to her, but I'm just a person on the Internet.
No one knows how much you love her except for you so you should make the choice.
BUT> you know that she was cheating on her boyfriend with you and how do you know if she's not going to do that to you?
and
It seems like she's crawling back to you to lick her wounds.
2007-11-22 07:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt marry someone who cuts their nose off to spite their face when everyone is telling her that cutting her nose off is a bad idea.
It shows she is immature and childish and if YOU marry her, you WILL be marrying someone immature and childish.Tell her to get a job a car a place of her own n4ear you and you can date for a yr and REALLY get to know one another.
2007-11-22 07:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would get down on my knees and thank God that she said "no" when I asked her to marry me.
Blessings in disguise are the best blessings of all.
Go forth and be thankful for all you have and do not have.
2007-11-22 07:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, just follow your instincts. There is a trick for something like this. Think to yourself, "i want to marry her". if you have second thoughts, you don't love her enough. If you think "i want to marry her", and nothing, not even a little part of you has an objection, go ahead. marry the girl!
2007-11-22 07:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by JerseyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you love? a woman who make bad choices? a woman who made her parents agree by force? no. you love a fantasy, a future that you hoped to have with this woman, not reality. run, and fast. don't become her 2nd exhusband.
2007-11-22 07:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by ProudM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋