My partner and i have been together for just over four years, In April she went overseas for 2 weeks without me and when she came back she was really in love with me and 100% committed to our relationship.
Over the last month or so she has just told me she doesn't know how she feels anymore, she doesn't know if she loves me or not! I still love her very much and don't want to lose her.
We decided to break up yesterday and see if her fellings change.
What should i do?, should i stay away and hope she comes back?
As i said i don't want to loose her.
2007-11-22 11:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I beleive in my heart that she will feel that she has mad a mistake, as we parted on good terms and she felt i was a really good to her.
Her mother thinks it will take only a short time for her to realise she still loves me.
What should i do in the mean time?
2007-11-22 12:49:27 · update #1
have been in the same situation as your girl. I dated a man for five years and I was not sure if I still wanted to stay in our relationship. So I decided that we needed to take a brake. In my case I left because I was not sure if he wanted to commit (marriage) and I also needed some time to myself to see if I really wanted to stay with him after so many years. To see if he was the person for me and that I still loved him and did not stay just because I got used to our relationship. There could be also someone else that your gf started to have interest in. You know what they say, the grass is greener on the other side. Sometimes, women need to have reassurance that they are still desired by other males. So perhaps she needs to see if she is desired out there. We all ask ourselves questions especially after dating someone for so long. I think that you should give her time to reflect and see what is out there. I came back to my boyfriend after 3 months, I realized that he was the perfect person for me and that I loved him very much. By meeting other men, I realized that he was my perfect match.
2007-11-22 11:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face facts. Life is about loss and opportunity.
If you do lose her, that just means that you will be available to love another woman. So quit feeling sorry for yourself and move on.
Besides. Women hate it when men get all pathetic like you are now.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 19:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you already "loosed" her up enough! Give it a chance to snap back. In all seriousness, she's probably ready to move on. If she's pressured into staying now, this issue will present itself again soon enough. Leave her alone and wait.
2007-11-22 19:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say stay if you really love her you will wait and see ya never know there may be something bothering her that she needs space to deal with that may have nothing to do with you.maybe shes confused but about the wrong thing and shell relize that it wasnt you but something else.if you venture off and she truely luvs you and comes back can you imagine what she would think if she saw you with someone else?just think about that and make your decision it should come from the heart what you are to do.good luck.
2007-11-22 19:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by milwmcnutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, you have serious issues if you are in a real situation where you need help and depend on yahoos from the internet to help solve your relationship problems...
grab a beer, swallow your pride and call her and apologize.
2007-11-22 19:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ itchy b...:)
weird name.â¥
2007-11-22 19:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Juicy Girl.♥♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋