physically and emotionally
2007-11-22 11:26:01 · 19 answers · asked by Pi B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't wanna be anywhere near that mess, get to the nearest bar and have some drinks.....it'll be your last chance.
2007-11-22 21:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever she wants him to!!!!! You can't really help her physically, other than plump pillows, get her ice,..... emotionally, be encouraging, supportive, tell her what a great job she's doing. And after the baby is born, help her with feedings, give her some sleep time, help make up bottles, etc. Just ask her where she needs you to be. Congrats and good luck
2007-11-22 11:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my personal experience, I would say ...stay just as far away from her as possible>> If she has natural childbirth, she will be in alot of pain and she just might hold you resposible , I know I wanted to get my hands around my husbands throat for doing that to me... Woman react different ways to pain,.. If she permits you, hold her hand and hold her when she cries. Other than foot massages and rubbing her tummy, there is really nothing you can do. I bet if you ask her , she will let you have some of the contractions. . . .
2007-11-22 11:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cleave 99 blocks of wood in two; or
Run around from your house to the market three times; or
Clim up a tree more than three times; or
Walk up to the ten-storey buiding 1X; or
Swim to cross a river of 100 m.
Or do nothing, if you think these above actions are ... crazy.
Try to do something to console her if her doctor allows you at that time
2007-11-22 12:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by nhkbte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything she asks for! (within reason). Keep in mind that she is going to get more and more uncomfortable so whatever you can do to make her comfortable would be soooo appreciated! Talk to the nurses to find out what all you can do for your wife. They will be more than happy to give you some ideas. If she asks you to leave the room, leave for a minute, but make sure you come back!!! Whatever you do DO NOT YELL AT HER!
2007-11-22 11:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by peggy m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for here. What ever she needs get it fast. Keep on hand ice chips and chapstick those are two things that my mother n law brought me that I thank her till this day for.... Oh an try very hard to keep her calm if she starts getting louder lower your voice so she will have to calm down to hear you. Do whatever you can to make her happy.. Good luck
2007-11-22 11:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by rene1695 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be there hold her hand, tell her you love her and you are with her, in the classes they tell you what to do, the breathing, positions etc.. just stay calm, she is going to have a human being getting out of her so give her a break if she says something you don´t like, anyway... the minute you both see the baby you´ll forget all the annoying things, that´s fantastic, enjoy it don´t suffer it
2007-11-22 12:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by mommy of 2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be with her throughout the labour. Hold her hands, whisper encouraging words to her, give her the assurance. Thats the best thing a husband can do.
2007-11-22 12:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by le_snowangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My experience with this is it is best if he is just there...doesn't say much, and tells her that he loves her....this is a weird time..when I was in labor...I was really grumpy.
2007-11-22 11:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rein 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be really super sweet too her, and she might say things too you but she doesn't mean them trust me.
I think i would rub her head, and keep reasuring her, tell her how beautiful she is, and how beautiful your baby is going to be.
Tell her you love her so much!
2007-11-22 11:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋