why is it when you move in with someone you think why buy the cow when you get the milk for free.. don't you ever move in with that person to find out if they are the one for you?????
2007-11-22 14:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by vis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's a question that you can answer on your own by simply saying no from the start, if you open the door to having a relationship before you know what you need to know about a person then why would you move into an apartment with someone who is just in it for the physical part rather than the total package, this is a common mistake we make with new relationships because we get caught up emotionally and feel that this is the one without even a clue about who this person really is. before moving with someone get to know the person not just the physical and emotional parts there's so much more to an individual and if you wait till you move ibn and are tied into a lease or contract for payment it's too late to back out when things go wrong with the relationship so think carefully first small steps toward establishing confidence in your mate of choice things aren't always what the package represents.
2007-11-22 14:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mike W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems this scenario has problems from both sides of the relationship. The guy is moving in because he is undecided and jerk... probably not. What kind of woman will let a man move in without having a good idea of where the relationship is going. Unless neither of you really care where it is headed and your just in it for the sex, then what difference does it make.
2007-11-22 16:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by lazydaysranch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all Ms Vis, that kind of thought never enter my mind. The reason why, before I would agree with any woman I would like to know up front where this is leading too. I don't think marriage is the main reason why moving in, if so it should be make perfect clear before agree to move in together.
Not here!
2007-11-22 14:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think a guy doesn't do that? A lot of guys move in with someone because they get along with the girl a lot and want to be with them. Please don't judge all guys the same.
2007-11-22 14:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved in with my partner because I love her and wanted to spend more time with her, and also to see how things would work if we were together 24-7.
2007-11-22 21:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i totaly didnt get it lmao. Wth is the question? And hey, dont move with the person if ur not sure. It doesnt always wind up so good.
2007-11-22 14:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope we're mostly shallow and insensitive. Unless we are roped into getting married. Down ladies, just kidding. If someone is giving you that feeling or saying that, they are probably not the one for you.
2007-11-22 14:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by William B music lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i disagree
have to live with someone to see if it works out
I hate the milk for free statement as I assume means sex
if you want to have sex do and if you dont then dont
2007-11-22 17:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by rich k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I would not live with someone unless I knew (or at least thought I knew) they were the one for me.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 14:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be the only reason i would move in with a girl.
2007-11-22 14:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋