2007-11-22 20:13:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Without giving some details you expect answers to a serious question that you have posed.The net result,I find, is that you have invited a whole lot of flippant and frivolous answers not to mention the abusive and vituperative ones too.The way you have composed your poser raises a lot of speculation about your household,I am sorry to say.Anyway all power to you should you succeed in your efforts.
2007-11-24 06:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you mean to wear the pants in the relationship, I wouldn't recommend it. you would then lead the most boring life in history, since you made the rules, you would always know the steps it took to get there, almost always know the end result.
If you mean you need to control him, why not sit him down + talk to him.
Do more things enjoyable together, sometimes just talking without the tv, radio or phone is awesome, gives you more time to discover each other.
If he's a workaholic or control freak himself, only suggestion here is a marriage counciller. Provided both of you are ready to make some of your own personal changes.
2007-11-22 20:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by toobingaddict 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realise if a man has his own way through adulthood childhood its hard to control or make him live a normal life since he always wants his way?Right i suppose thats what your asking.Only way to control as you say is find out what sets him ticking be it intimacy or something else like flattery or whatever then do it in large doses to get what you want.
It might be called bribing or power struggle since he can play the same game as u back to u so communication in marriage is good if he doesnt listen then you play the game while at it win the game best of luck
2007-11-22 20:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...this is a very strange question...why would you want to control his time, money, and property? You have issues girl...get help ASAP. A person who desires power and control over any other human will surely lose love and respect from the people standing back and watching you at this very moment.
2007-11-22 20:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by BookButterfly 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to control your husband? Are you greedy? Or is he incompetent? You don't elaborate. Makes one think when something is not detailed. You want your hands on his money, his property and time? You sound like you are selfish and out for yourself.
2007-11-22 20:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sasha 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't. This is a landmark case, but your woman card is now up for review. The police will escort your husbamd awy and give him a new life. You will be miserable for the rest of your life for such evil.
2007-11-22 21:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now make up your mind, are you a husband or a wife? You just asked this question about your wife.
2007-11-27 15:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't unless he willingly gives all that control to you. He is a free human being. If you try and control him against his will, he will resent it and go against you just to go against you.
2007-11-23 01:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband called he wants your back in your cage and off the computer.
2007-11-22 20:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by rufstuff 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy or a girl..you've asked this question both ways..for a wifes standpoint and here a husband stand point..which are you?
2007-11-27 15:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋