After being with a guy for two years we broke up. He said he was having up n down feelings.but when he first said he didn't have the same feelings for me as before. We had been living together for 6months at his parents place. Things were differnt and some what awkward at stages but i didn't care cos i loved him and would do anything to be with him. Then one day outa the blue he told me he didn't have the same feelings this was a complete shock to me as i didn't see it coming at all??so i moved out, then we had somewhat a small break and that week killed me we caught up and he told me how much of a d' head he was,and said he was really sorry and wanted to do whatever it took to make things right. I said well you hurt me, and dont know how to trust you. Then we got back together cos i believed he was sorry and wanted to make it right, and it was fine again. After 2months he then after me saying you don't make enough effort in our r'ship he said im sick of this & broke up. is he confused
2007-11-22 23:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by questionable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ahh men...lol...i dated a guy like this in high school...we dated for 4 years..and he was always pulling stuff...every 3 months or so he would need a break and id say ok and sit around waiting for him and he'd come back and things would be ok then it would happen again, he cheated on me, treated me like crap. i bent over backwards to make him happy and he still walked all over me...i got fed up with it and told him it was over(which i should have done looooong b4 i got the guts to) and it sent him through a loop b/c up until then, he was the one breaking up and i was always waiting for him, and now i wanted outknew i deserved better...and so do you! my ex went kinda crazy after i broke up and attempted suicide and tried to come after me...so it was a crazy situation but he actually found my email somehow and mailed me lastyear and said that he was sorry for everything he'd done to hurt me and that he now knows what he lost and regrets losing me...so your guy will defintily see what he lost if you walk away... there is a quote i like "you can only push a girl away for so long, until she walks out of your life on her own, so be careful and make sure this is what you want, because once she turns around, she isnt coming back..."
2007-11-23 01:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's cheating on you! Some men think it's not cheating if you aren't together even though he's telling you he loves you. You now have a good look at what the future will hold for you if you marry this man. Run and run fast and as far away from him as you possibly can cause with his wishy, washy attitude, he's only going to make your life miserable. Do you deserve a man like that, is the question you need to ask yourself. Save yourself a lot of heartache and pass on this man!!
2007-11-23 07:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's too immature right now to make this work. Just be single and get busy making a career for yourself. Much more important for you and any other family you create or live with.
2007-11-23 07:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships that are truly worthwhile don't put you on this emotional rollercoaster. Move on and find a man that is grown up enough that he doesn't live with his parents. Good luck
2007-11-23 08:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like my boyfriend, and it turns out he was suffering depression. Get him to get help if he thinks he's depressed and then just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that falls in and out of love so easily.
2007-11-23 07:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living at his parents' house? I suggest you go on The Springer Show.
2007-11-23 08:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by marcavelli0569 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he might be!! but he is messing with your head i no its easier said than done but you have to try and forget about him hes going to hurt you again and again!! the best thing to do when you fall of a horse you get back up on it!! and thats what you need to do hunny..
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2007-11-23 07:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Top S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone for a bit then sent him a text, saying how much you miss him, then meet up and try to get together again.
2007-11-23 07:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants. Don't try to figure him out. Move on with your life.
2007-11-23 08:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't let the man i love stay depressed for 2 long ...He'll be happy...... I know....
2007-11-23 08:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋