ok me and my husband are married for 6 almost 7 years, and its his birthday on dec, 3. so he reserved a hotel for us. a really nice one, and i got something nice to wear, but now i feel weird. because this is our first time out alone. the outfit fix perfectly and i have a fit body for a mother, but he never seen me in something sexy. what should i do.. i want him to see me beautiful, not slutty..
2007-11-22 23:15:21 · 29 answers · asked by nandy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first time out alone, without kids..
2007-11-22 23:23:00 · update #1
Okay, first of all, he will see you as beautiful, and see the outfit for what it is - a treat for him. If he thought the idea was slutty he wouldn't take you to a hotel room! I work at a hotel, and people plan getaway and romance mini vactions all the time.
If you feel uncomfortable, I would suggest bringing along a bottle of wine (don't forget the corkscrew!). Ask your husband to open the wine and pour you both a glass, and say you are going to freshen up. Have your bag in the bathroom a head of time, and go in and change into the sexy outfit. Apply a little makeup, and come out of the bathroom with your head held high and confident. Trust me, he'll love your suprise!
2007-11-22 23:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by sos_sweet 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey Darlin',
Married six years, mother of his children, first time for hotel sex. I do not think you have anything to fear concerning the appearance of slutty.
A fully committed loving marriage is only enhanced by attempting to liven things up a bit.
If husband does not appreciate the effort there would be something severely wrong with him.
Enjoy.
2007-11-23 01:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband reserved a hotel for both of you after 6 years put on the outfit. If you are 5'7" 180lbs turn off the lights.
2007-11-23 02:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear it...he will love it. You guys need to get out more alone. Speaking from my point of view as a married man, I wish my wife would wear lingerie. I love to see her in something sexy. In the bedroom let it be slutty, that's hot. Feel good about yourself looking sexy for him, he will love it.
2007-11-23 01:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be slutty for him, its OK. You 2 could open some doors for the 2 of you 2 stay 2gether for another 7 years.
The fact that you are still 2gether is huge.
YOU might like to tease him some.
HE wants to be teased.
HAVE FUN.
2007-11-23 00:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, moms are the sexiest women on the planet! When a woman is expressing herself to & with her husband there is no such thing as slutty. Let loose & give him the time of his life. He'll love you long time!
2007-11-22 23:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by marcavelli0569 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Use your judgement. Is the outfit sexy or kinky/slutty? If it is TOO extreme from the person he knows, he may be put off by it.
2007-11-23 01:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to do when your first time and disregard all your worry. Probably he just want you&him alone to rekindle the moment you both missed since you have kids now.
2007-11-23 00:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by kugay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What man doesn't want to see his wife in something sexy??? Slutty even - for his eyes only... Go for it!
2007-11-23 00:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by gatsgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Sexy! Especially if it's your 1st time away. Remember, your married for the long-haul, so switch it up a bit...he'll love it!
2007-11-23 00:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by opieco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋