2007-11-22 22:29:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I would confront you wife. How do you know what she's been telling him? Why is it his fault alone? Your wife is the one who knew she was married, so why did she put herself in the position to sleep with someone else in the first place. Unless you have all the details.....like.....did he rape your wife, did he have sex with her without her permission, then confronting him may come as a total shock....he may not even know she is married. Get your facts straight, put the blame where it belongs. Your wife is the one you need to confront first.
2007-11-22 22:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confronting The Other Man
2016-10-21 09:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea as that person could care less of how you feel. The person you need to confront is your wife. She is 100% responsible for her decision to enter into the affair.
Now I do believe in letting others know of this person and the character he has; once out in the open when the cheating parties have to deal with the repercussions of their actions, it isn't so thrilling anymore.
2007-11-23 04:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF it was me I would just file divorce papers and make sure I get the kids.......Due to the fact that I have a very very bad anger problem along with a bad attitude I may end up in prison for a long time if I was to confront the person sleeping with my wife!!
2007-11-23 03:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront your wife and tell her that it has to stop or you are out. Give her the oportunity to stop it herself. The man is really the innocent party, he doesn't owe you anything (your wife does) It would be nice if people would just stay away from anyone that is married, but it doesn't always work that way. Your wife took vows with you, she owes you honesty and loyality, get on her and leave the guy alone.
2007-11-22 23:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The only person you need to confront is your wife.
2007-11-23 01:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and do what? If you want to save your marriage, perhaps it's best to talk it out with your wife. Confronting the "other" man will more than likely end up with denials or a physical fight. If that is what you are looking for, just be prepared for the consequences.
2007-11-22 22:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront your wife first if you haven't already, then confront whatever b*st*rd thought he could get away with dipping his nib in your wife's ink! People like that have boundary issues and you need to show him where they are. But don't beat the s**t out of him... he'll only get you arrested.
2007-11-22 22:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you confront the wife. Why bother confronting the guy? It is your wife who is cheating on you. Dont let your ego confuse the real issue. The real issue is your wife is cheating on you and not who she is cheating with.
2007-11-22 22:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As seen by other friends and family I know, it seems to always be best when confronting the spouse rather than the person they've been going around with.
2007-11-22 22:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋