My wife is 55 years and she say no sex at this age. But I want to sex with her. Where I should go when my wife does not allow me to sex with her ?
2007-11-22 23:40:14 · 29 answers · asked by ashok k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is up to you where to go for sex but this is not an execuse for you to divorce with her
2007-11-23 00:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not the problem of arrange marriage who has written this statement. A love marriage too posed a lot of problems than arrange marriage and if you estimate you would find that love marriage is less successful. Now, come to you my dear. In just 10 days how can you think that your lady would intimate you physically? Some people will take time. Once you mentally close and share each other thoughts this thing would happen you don't need to do intentionally. I shall advice you here, instead of breaking this, you should apologise for your behaviour and legal notice but talk to her if she is happy with you? Marriage is not for sex. It is a commitment of whole lifetime. Don't spoil your life and her life. Be egoless and be a Man. Mend what is going to break. A Man has full control of his sense and in 10 days of marriage you become uncontrollable....?? Talk to her is a best idea like a friend. Be a friend first then husband will lead a good life and fulfill your all wish of life. God bless you!
2016-04-05 04:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, get to the problem-no sex-WHY? Do you give your wife attention? Or give her compliments? Do you fulfill her needs as well as yours in the bedroom? Marriage is a 2 way street and sex is a beautiful thing that all humans need. Its a thing that 2 people should enjoy so find out what her needs are. Buy some toys, oil, and a shower curtain and have some fun!
2007-11-23 00:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not the popular answer, but in this situation, when left with no other alternative, I think it is totally ok to step outside your marriage for a little side action. Be discreet, informed, and protected. However, before doing this, I would suggest seeing a therapist, or try to woo your wife. Be romantic, make her feel special. Make her want you. Do what you got to do, be a man, Cireno!!
2007-11-23 01:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by dominia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go anywhere - but to your wife. Let her know how you feel. Even let her know you've been thinking of leaving her - not to threaten her, but to let her know the seriousness of how you feel. Find out what the problem is. Couples can still have sex 55 and up.
2007-11-23 00:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by gatsgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is really very important to her. Tell her that she is compelling you to look outside for gratification. You can try giving her a good massage, and unless you are a complete novice, you will certainly turn her on. Once she is hot, how much do you satisfy her? is it four and a half minutes? May be she thinks that you let her down very quickly after heating her up, and so it's better not to start getting sexy with you.
2007-11-24 02:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Whisperer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time for counseling together and she probably needs some on her own and maybe even see a doctor about possible medical problems. A lack of sex will drive the marriage to ruin if you are unhappy and she is unwilling to compromise. For a marriage to work there must be work by both sides and sacrifice on both sides.
2007-11-23 01:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My great uncle had this problem and his wife would not allow him to touch her on pretex of age. He threatened divorce, but she would not change. He took the help of a girl (*****) who posed as his lover and made calls to him and they would go on dates, though they were not having sex. The wife was upset but could do nothing. She immediately changed her attitude and felt threatened and allowed my great uncle access to her body on condition that he does not meet the girl. My great uncle agreed on condition she gives him sex to his satisfaction, and continues to do so. She agreed, and they lived happily enjoying sex to a ripe old age of over 80.
2007-11-23 20:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
option 1 marry other person
2 have an affair
3 keep a mistress
4 take a second wife/with or with out divorcing her
5 prostitution
6masturbation
7homosexuality
now i have run out of options
ps pls check if she is not having an affair
2007-11-23 20:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities are not barred or prohibited hence no offence punishable in ANY INDIAN LAW. A wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. Her husband alone can prosecute him but not the police, court or the wife. After divorce also her earning husband has to maintain or pay till she remarries (if unable), even if she is permanently & continuously enjoying sex openly with all other/s. Pre marital sexual intercourses with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under the HINDU or SPECIAL Marriage Acts. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any INDIAN LAW and she is at liberty to enjoy the sex freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock or without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts have to believe that children born during the wedlock are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay their expenses; till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in INDIAN LAWS.
Subjecting a wife to physical or mental cruelty and harassment by her husband or his relatives is a non-bailable offence punishable upto 3 years imprisonment and/or fine wherein police can arrest them without any court's warrant.
All unwed sexual relations are quite barred and prohibited ONLY in ISLAM who termed in clearly written unambiguous words as the heinous crimes punishable with PUBLICLY death by pelting stones/lashes, and a great sin punishable in hell eternally.
2007-11-23 07:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution wud be speak with her , what's her problem why she is not allowing u, & they consult a doctor. Divorce shud be the last option left with u.
& one more thing have patience.
2007-11-23 23:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋