and now that he has remarried you try to do anything you can to stay in the middle of his life "because of the kids". (being sarcastic) I would love to hear honest answers from honest exes....tell me - I would love to know. Why do you cause so much grief in the midst of his new life and try to break up his new marriage.
2007-11-18 15:31:08 · 12 answers · asked by Ali C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess I assume she didn't want him because she had an affair and got pregnant, still didn't end it and when my husband kicked her out...the other guy dumped her....
2007-11-18 15:38:33 · update #1
I think they wanted their ex back because they think you stole their property from them, they did not treat their husband as a "people", but their property, so they want it back. My bf's ex spouse has been text/email my bf for three years after being divorced. She wanted to make sure he felt guilty to leave "their" family. I was unabale to take it, I left him and he went back with his ex wife. I think the reason why they want their ex back because they are weak and unable to made a better life, so, they settle their life for less. As my ex bf, I think the reason why he allowed his ex wife to control his life because he wanted it, he wanted to make sure his ex wife is still caring for him, that is another way of controlling. After realizing that it takes two to do it. I would blame on my ex bf than his ex wife. It was sad to loose my love, but I got my peace back and I ended the fight with two controlling person. I am still feel heart broke, but at least I can be honest to myself that I do not need to be afraid to lose him and play a "controlling" game with these two people. I move on and I know I will find someone special in my life later on.
2007-11-18 16:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol......maybe your ex husband doesn't even realize it 'would have been' your anniversary together considering the fact you've been DEE-VORCED for almost TWO DECADES......... Why even think there's a 'need' to handle it? As if your 'would have been' anniversary has ANYTHING to do with his relationship to his current wife? You're talking about a date that 'would have been' but ISN'T......why even think into it at all? I think you're making more of an issue out of a non-issue.....don't you think?
2016-05-24 03:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kidding...can't wait to see what everyone else says...I would be very happy if I didn't see or hear a peep out of my ex..there an ex for a reason...See Yah!
2007-11-18 15:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty sure it's the ex-wives who no longer wanted to be married.
In a marriage that ends in divorce both people are to blame to some extent.....one maybe more than the other but no one is blameless.
If there are kids involved the ex is going to be in the middle forever....get used to it.
2007-11-18 15:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good question!!! My husband's ex-wife tries to put herself in the middle of everything that we do. I hate it. I have even caught her trying to lure my husband into bed with her.
2007-11-18 15:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Med Emergency 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a weak man and the Ex cant find anyone else so he is her life. I am done with this marriage and the two deserve each other---- He says he is going back to her... thank God because I know God has something better for me. If you have to force someone to be with you-- they are not for you. My advise is to drop the zero and his ***** and get yourself a hero!
2015-02-24 14:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a disgruntled new wifey who is jealous of hubbies ex wife and wants to be the center of his life but isn't because he has "baggage"...Grow up girlie you will never come first as long as he has kids.
2007-11-18 18:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex was extremely mean to me while we were married .. almost evil like . Now we have children but they r older so I refuse to allow him in my life at all . When I said its over I ment it. I raise my children and do not let him interfer w/ my HOME.... You are makeing excuses to let an ex interfer w/ your life ... You have control over that situation
2007-11-18 15:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same problem here, hubbies ex cheated, eventually got prego , the min i got with him 2 years after his divorce she wanted him back and 12 years later still does LOL , puhlease ladies GET A LIFE AND MOVE ON!!!!
2007-11-18 15:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ஐDanielleஐ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may be a b***h but I would have to ask what is your Husband - her ex - doing about it? Its up to him to protect your relationship, not her.
2007-11-18 15:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋