Today my husband told me that he doesn't want to live me now. Its always happen after every 2-3 months since 6 yrs of our marriage life. Its our love marriage. I bear 70% expenses of my home and my kid. he pay only electricity bill, water bill and ration and other expenses i bear. But always he says electricity bill I pay so you are not suppose to watch tv. he hurted me all the time. If I say him that All fruits and vegitables I bought so you are no right to eat that would be wrong na. I am women na so that I cant say that wording. Always man try to hurt women why, In six year of marriage life he got extra marritial affiar with other also. but I forget that and exact him. now he starts to chat with some other girl. what can I do I dont know. I love him so much but now Its passes. always he disturbed to my parents also, every time he told them I cant live with your daughter, they are also very distrubed with my husband my mother is heart patient I am very afraid about her health.
2007-11-18 16:17:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should get counsenling. but you should talk seriously with him, he doesn't want to live with you you should leave him cuz you and your kids are suffering. let him go. don't let any guy to hurt you .
2007-11-18 16:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by @@@@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this has been going on throughout your SIX years of marriage, you should get out of this marriage. If he has had extramarital affairs during this time, it sounds like he is just using you. You pay for 70% of your expenses and you can pay for ALL of them - you do not need him for anything. He is verbally and mentally abusing you get out while before something very bad happens. Good luck
2007-11-19 00:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes me wonder why you even want someone like that in the first place. Just let him go and start a new life. It's obvious all he is doing is playing games. And what's sadder is you are playing along, feeding his ego. Just ask yourself...are you really happy with him? Marriage is not this is mine and this is yours. It's 100% both.
2007-11-19 00:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is a deadbeat and he treats you bad. Add cheating to the list. I would tell him to get out and you will be better off without him. Why are you taking all of this from him. Stop being a doormat and get yourself together. You can make it without him. You deserve to be treated better than this and you deserve to be happy.
2007-11-19 00:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint!!! Find you someone who does want to live with you and enjoys the gifts that you bring to a relationship. You can do bad by yourself.
2007-11-19 00:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by DIVAPRINCIPAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So divorce his rear and let him pay all his bills in his own place. without another mouth to feed you will be better off and not have all the drama.
2007-11-19 00:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick him out. ur a fool if u want to stay with him
2007-11-19 00:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋