you respect a person, you like a person, you appreciate who she is, you become considerate etc but How do you give that your love for that person to accept it that you have love for her? Most folks just say I love for the sake...... just that person to here but in most cases that is only a word unless accompanied by action.
2007-11-18 18:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some times we express ourselve to love someone but that not the way they get it.If you put there interest first before yoursthat ain't love but jokes. Expressing how you feel to someone either you mean it or not, they way they percieve it is not the way you may think them to be. But doing the right thing, speaking assertively, honest and being sensible might make a difference for one to understand the word I love you but how do you give that love?
2007-11-18 18:20:43 · update #1
you tell her how YOU feel about her.
It may take him for her to accept it, But trust me. If you leave it to long then she might walk away from you.
My boy did that and it hurts.
If you truly know you dont love for the sake then believe in yourself. I'm a doctor so trust me.
Hug her and then hold her hands saying you love her.
she'll understand.
Good luck mate
2007-11-18 18:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make a commitment and then a daily decision to love that person rain or shine. One day at a time is easier and if you make a concious choice to do it which means even when you don't feel like it. Marriage is a like a job and people that have been at their same job twenty yrs had many days they didn't want to go but they honored the commitment and promise more than a feeling This is the most rewarding life After all if you base your actions on your feelings your life will be changing ever few yrs! thats how you tell the stable from the unstable I wish i could meet a stable man not a runaway joe type. Cowards run
2007-11-18 18:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what you said last, "only a word unless accompanied by action". You must show through actions. Be there when she needs support. Help her with stuff you can help with, e.g. the garden, chores, homework, transportation, etc. Talk on the phone with her when she needs to vent. When you argue, forgive quickly and don't hold grudges. Treat her with respect. If she has a good mind, admire it. If she has a good heart, protect it. Don't play games, but don't be pushy either.
2007-11-18 18:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love truly there should be the feeling of giving and giving , without expecting anything in return. The truth is , words and actions are meaningless if your heart and soul donot feel love or when you calculate the returns.
2007-11-20 04:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way by using fact once you particularly love somebody, they arrive first. they are dealt with first. Love is quite efficient, and while 2 people Love one yet another, that's of upmost value to make valuable your pal is unquestionably dealt with, and is derived first on the record.
2016-09-29 12:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes actions are what counts.
2007-11-18 18:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder then words.
2007-11-18 18:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by kimberly c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know how to "give" love....then I can't help you.
2007-11-18 18:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by male.confused 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could someone please translate this query into english?
2007-11-18 18:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Steve T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋