It's been almost 2 months since her broke it off with me and still care for him the same like if we were still together. I know that, that relationship is dead. Even if he were to ask me one day to get back with him i would not be able to do it. We were only together for like three months but I don't understand what happend to me. I completly feel over hills for him. It's funny but when i go out with another male so i can forget him i end up getting worse because i wish he would be the one across table. Is it still normal for me to feel this way?
2007-11-19 04:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The ironic things is that I bump into to him at least one a week wether him or one of his family member. We live closed but not in the same city. Last time i spoke to him he said he had a girl freind, at the gym i already bunp into him with his girlfriend.. and i dont want to experience that again.
2007-11-19 04:54:05 · update #1
Yes it is normal..or it could be you not being used to a guy breaking things off with you if you were always used to be the one to break things off. I agree that you should just chill and concentrate on you so tha you can heal....meaning don't get involved in any relationships, until you're completely over this guy. Hope you feel better...keep ya head up...
2007-11-19 04:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
It's called time, and time heals all, you may not forget but time will take the pain out of the memory.
You'll have many ups and downs in your life before your life is over, just sit down, buckle up, and enjoy the ride the good and bad experiences,
I would suggest trying to be alone for a while and get to know yourself. Get right with yourself before you bring someone else into your life.
Hope this helps
2007-11-19 12:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by walker9842 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It is very much normal. Everyone is different and how long we take to get on with our lives is individual to each of us. Whenever your heart feels ready to move it will. One day you will wake up or it could even happen in the middle of the day and you will think. "I feel okay" with things.
2007-11-19 12:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by val 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your probably not ready to be with others yet. its hard to get over someone because u loved him, when it ends its painful, takes awhile to get over. we often times will never understand why someone didn't want us, but remember that everything happens for a reason and maybe its best that it happened even if u don't understand it now u will one day. give it time get to know what u want out of life, don't mourn the past or self blame.
2007-11-19 12:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to deal with the core issues and stop thinking this guy is going to solve all of your problems.
Good luck.
2007-11-19 12:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you forget him,that means you were not having a true love with him....thats why you are able forget him when another one comes to you.....it may be your or his change.....be truthful yourself.
2007-11-19 12:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by krishna k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give me your number, ill get you over him ;)
NIce legs by the way!
2007-11-19 12:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by stillkeepin1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋