a married man with a small child leaving his wife for someone younger?
does that really happen? i mean i know you hear lots about it but can a man really "stop" loving the women he married and had a child with? and if they do why do they do it?
tell me what you think.
2007-11-19 04:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this questions isn't about me!
I'm just wondering how men can be so in love with their wife and show it heaps then all of a sudden they just leave her! kthanks :)
2007-11-19 04:21:42 · update #1
You're getting used.
2007-11-19 04:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chances are slim, sometimes they think staying for the child is for the best - so they stay and live in semi-loveless marriage. Please don't waste your time- I did for 5 yrs. and have just now come to realize how absolutely ridiculous I was to live in such a fantasy world and think he would be with me. They say people do it all the time, but I've yet to see it. But ask yourself this- if he is willing to leave a small child, what kind of man does that make him? Selfish? It's kinda like a catch 22, like in my case- I love him because he puts his child first and is staying, those are the qualities I love, which means I will never be with him and I accept this because I truly would never want to hurt such an innocent child.
2007-11-19 12:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by italy9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. You read about it and see it on TV all the time. Most don't stop loving the first wife and kids, they just don't want to be a family with them anymore. They found someone new to have a family with. I don't know why they do it, because I haven't, but I have talked to friends who have and most just don't like the existing wife and want to replace her. It has nothing to do with the kids, but they too must go with the existing wife.
2007-11-19 12:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible, but a man that does that isn't much of a man in the first place. You can stop loving the woman, but to just abandon a child like that doesn't say much for him in my book.
2007-11-19 12:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there were problems before the child that they felt would be fixed by having a baby.
2007-11-19 12:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by MommyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think then that guy is useless....and i dont know why God create such useless creatures....to avoid this she should have a good friend and that should be a boy so that she can know about boys characters.
and i think such people should be eliminated from this world
2007-11-19 12:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by krishna k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he aint much of a catch an u should get outta there
2007-11-19 12:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered this question.
2007-11-19 12:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋