Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2007

Yes they have freedom but do they have equality? they work, have to take care of the kids, clean up the house and not to mention the errands that need to be done on a daily basis. Men on the other hand, come from work and sit on their butts and watch ESPN and nag about all kind of the things that should be done to improve things around the house while the American woman has to do the majority of the things. So my point is this, women are free to do what they want in America but men are the ones who have the upper hand! its sad how American women have freedom but with a big price to pay!

2007-11-19 18:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I often feel so run down in my relationship. I keep asking my wife for help and she never listens.

I feel that I do almost everything in the relationship. I
- earn 80% of the income in a high stress high reward environment
- get the kids ready for school / daycare daily, and take them
- change all of the baby's diapers except for maybe 2-4 changes on the weekend
- do all the manly chores like taking out the trash, recycling and so on
- do my own laundry and ironing
- drive everyone everywhere

My wife
- lost our first house because she spends more than she earns - though the only family expense she pays is daycare
- does not drive, refuses to get a drivers licence because she doesn't like to drive in this "big" city
- is obsessed with television and spends 3-4 hours a night watching it
- does not have patience with our daughter and frequently shouts at her. We then get into big arguements about it because I feel for the poor girl who just wants her mom to play with

2007-11-19 18:14:42 · 19 answers · asked by CHARLES R 6

2007-11-19 18:05:13 · 19 answers · asked by roseanne g 2

hi guys,my husband says he wish to live in his fantasy world as he thinks that fantasy is better than reality .why is that so?

2007-11-19 17:50:15 · 10 answers · asked by nazia m 3

and later when reminded says its not important anymore.

2007-11-19 17:47:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

To go to work.

2007-11-19 17:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a nine month old baby girl and last friday I left her father because we got in another one of our fights and he put his hands on me. My biggest problem is that when we lived together everything was in my name the phone,electric, and the lease. I'm now trying to find a job because until now I've just been taking care of the baby & house. I only have two pairs of jeans to my name and one pair has holes in the back of them and I probally have like 5 or 6 shirts. Now you see that kinda hurts me getting a job because I have no clothes. I dont even have a drivers license and those bills I said thats in my name the phone is more than 200, Power I'm not sure of that yet and the rent is more than 500. I shut the phone up there off. Tomorrow I'm going to have the lights shut of on him. I really dont know what real question to ask I think I'm just up a creek without a pattle,ya know? I just need somebody to tell me what do you think and is there anything that can help me out there?

2007-11-19 17:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you tell me the ratio out of 100% in society who is carrying such relations and reasons behind that.

2007-11-19 17:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 7- almost 8. Her father lives a few states away. Once in awhile he's come up here to spend a holiday- but she has never spent a holiday away with him or his family. This year he called yesterday and asked if she could go with him to his families for Thanksgiving- he'd come out here and get her and then take her our there for a few days and then bring her back. I said ok- and for whatever reason made the dumb mistake and told my daughter. She was more than excited. Anyways- tonight he says, "i dont think it's going to work.. why don't i just come out there and stay for thanksgiving and then she can come out here for christmas" UGH! How should I handle this? My daughter is completely crushed-

2007-11-19 17:13:14 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5

Everytime we quarrel, he don't realize that he's pushing me away. He never avoid doing those things that I hate. This makes me think of my ex-bf way back then, everytime he does things that insults me, especially my sensuality. My hubby has sexual desire that is not acceptable to me. But i know i am good in bed. I just can't afford to give him my ***.

I hate him all the more when he's reminding me of his infidelity by doing things that somehow refresh my memory of the pain it caused me.

I don't know how to make him feel that i'm beginning to bear hatred with him.

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2007-11-19 17:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by lonely girl 1

Before anyone gets nasty, I AM not, WILL not, and HAVE not.....a friend and I were just wondering how often this really occurs. If you have please include (Non Explict) details.

2007-11-19 17:00:00 · 17 answers · asked by grace 4

What do they do that drive you nuts? Habits you find totally annoying. We always hear about all the crap men do, let's get your view point.

2007-11-19 16:55:44 · 5 answers · asked by AessaMenevrah 5

...she really screwed with my head at the end, had another guy on the side (which she eventually married), played house with me when he went back to his wife, kicked me to the curb when he came back. This was 2001. In 2003 she pulled my daughters from me for 3 years when I got behind in child support. I got it caught up, but still took her moving back to my hometown and a year after I had it caught up to see them again. She tries to talk all nice to me, sometimes going off the subject of the kids (not about us) but about her family or people we know around town. I just want to SCREAM: "DON'T YOU KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME??" I can't. What do i do? I am at the end of my rope with her, but I don't want her to yank my kids again. Can't afford a lawyer before you suggest that.

2007-11-19 16:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by primalclaws1974 6

2007-11-19 16:50:01 · 6 answers · asked by bree 88 1

my husband flirts? we always argue abt that, everybody tells me i should flirt in front of him & let him feel the pain. but i cant do that, i cant do that. i have to face God one day. when we try to talk abt it, i get blamed all the time. & we end up fighting. divorce is not an option.

2007-11-19 16:44:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband says its a male thing and he will always come home to me, but when we go anywhere he eyeballs other women I guess it would not bother me if it was once and a while but its all the time. He says all men do it and it doesnt mean anything, I say it rude and disrespectful to me, guys and girls what do you think

2007-11-19 16:44:36 · 30 answers · asked by pixiemom 2

I want to know different opinons, even from people who dislike the idea of mixed race relationships.

2007-11-19 16:43:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 16:40:39 · 17 answers · asked by the evil1 3

all i did was accuse him of having an affair because he tricked his mom into getting him a cell phone he didn't need and he was hiding it even to charge. he was coming home from the first job he held more than a couple of weeks for the last 3 and a half years and he said that is the reasonhe left because i accused him of an affair. all i ever did was to keep our family together and try to make him happy as he was mean and angry all the time, he didn't even bathe. i got some kind of fungal infection that would not go away but its gone now that hes gone. hes been gone over a month and even expected me to continue to carry him and pay for his car insurance. please someone, give me some kind of answer for this behavior. i have been told repeatedly no one could figure out why i was with him as he hasn''t a lick of class, looks, and lies all the time. but my self esteem is smashed.

2007-11-19 16:36:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he gets upset when i try to talk to him about how he is flirting with other women, he tells me as long as i'm not sleeping with anyone you have nothing to worry about, he starts blaming me that i have mental problems, and i need to get some help? we argue a lot and he tries to get out of the situation and starts telling me that i have anger issues, and seek some help. don't know how to stop him and not think all the time what is he doing right now? who is he talking to right now?i cant live like this. divorce is not an option.

2007-11-19 16:33:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does being involved with a guy who has a pre-nuptial agreement with his previous partner legal, i mean, was it considered an adultery? what if the present couple decided to marry, is it possible?

2007-11-19 16:30:20 · 9 answers · asked by myriad 1

To dinner,but I feel very uncomfortable with him beening their since my husband will be out of town. And should I tell my husband that my ex will be there or not, because my husband gets so jealous.

2007-11-19 16:12:30 · 23 answers · asked by saw 1

My husband and I are in our mid 20's and have been married for 6 yrs. VERY interesting in keeping things HOT!

If your wife mentioned a few fetish fantasies would you get freaked out... like asphyxiation, bondage etc...

(keep in mind wife and mother of his kids has ALWAYS been known as the good girl type)

2007-11-19 16:07:35 · 20 answers · asked by ☮ Sprεε 3

He has spent 2 grand on the lottery that i know about, he hid it for a while & we have never kept secrets in our 6 yrs. together. We have only actually been married since last Jan., but we have only slept together 1 time in5 mo. What's going on with him? What can I do?

2007-11-19 16:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there has always been love and fidelity....just something that tried to come between them and put a strain on their relationship for a period of time.....can a couple ever put that period of time so far behind them and become truly happy again if they both want for it to? It is too long of a story to put down here...it would require a book. It just was an intense period of time where some one from one of their past was trying everything in their power to break up the couple and one was stressed out and didn't know what to do, and the other was mad and felt threatened by it.....if both have decided not to feed on it any more and choose to let it go...can the distance that was wedged inbetween them ever be gapped. No flirting or reciprocation was involved at all.

2007-11-19 15:52:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I both agreed that we would like to get married. However I'm still in school till 2010. Someone with experience in this area, should we wait till then? Or is the fact that we want to get married enough?

2007-11-19 15:48:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

to talk about myself. if my wife help me in making love with her any time i need i would be her slave ,so, i will do anything she wants.

i assume that most men have the same idea. therefore, why do woman refuse or ignore (sometimes) men need. i make love with my wife almost three times a month even though i STILL loyal to her. i know a lot of men have the same problem.


if i am a woman i will make good use of my body to satisfy my husband and his sexual needs. if a woman becomes a man what is she going to do?

2007-11-19 15:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a question about a child support
case.
I just wonder why I filed child support with
the dept of human services and now
it is with a prosecuting attorney office.
What does this mean?
That he won't pay.
We already filed out financial forms
and did paternity tests.
I thought in order for this to got to an attorney I would have to file with them myself.
I am just not too familar how this legal system works with child support.

2007-11-19 15:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by lisak 1

If the wife (or husband ) do not keep such picture in her wallet,does that means she don't love the husband very much?

2007-11-19 15:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by **meel** 4

my husband sometimes has an orgasm early and has me sitting there looking at him like "um what happened?".what can i do? or is this something he needs to take care of?

2007-11-19 15:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous