hi guys,my husband says he wish to live in his fantasy world as he thinks that fantasy is better than reality .why is that so?
2007-11-19 17:50:15 · 10 answers · asked by nazia m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's tripping. Tell him your fantasy is meeting a new man and see if he gets with it.
2007-11-19 18:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by beffie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of ocurse fantasy is better than reality- wh ydo think there are so many people on Second Life. We need more details- he may be sad and hurt, but how is he treating you?
2007-11-19 18:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is telling you that his life sucks and if you don't do something to make it more exciting he will find someone who will. Don't think for a minute that he won't,i remember thinking my husband was so routine that he would never do anything to change. Boy was i wrong he starting seeing a co-worker and of course i knew nothing because it, all he had to do was say that he had to work late or if i minded if he stopped after work to have a couple of drinks with the GUYS!Just be careful that he doesn't get to bored because all it will take is a woman any woman to say something nice to him and she got him.
2007-11-19 18:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Celtic...makes some great points. However, some people are just downright selfish. They want what they want,when they want it. They are narcissistic and truly are unable to empathize. Stop trying to figure out what's wrong with your spouse, and decide if you are able to continue living with your rather apparent unhappiness. Best Wishes!
2007-11-19 18:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something must be bothering him.. but that doesnt mean he doesnt love you anymore..
he could have something wrong with his job, or just his general mood, health or a friendship..
it could be ANYTHING.. thats making him feel like fantasy is better..
You should just try and get him to open up to you about it, so you can help him get over his rough patch
Good luck!
2007-11-19 17:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're husband wants to be a child all of his life then.
we all from time to time would love to just escape reality and run far away into fantasyland.......but we wake up, face the day, get done what needs to get done, then go back to bed.
seriously, he needs counseling. he could be suffering from depression, which could lead to some serious consequences such as suicide.
2007-11-19 17:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like your husbands depressed
try to get him to go see a counselor
2007-11-19 17:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that happens ..they just walk away ...accept it .... Why would you want to be with someone who didn't cherish you?
2007-11-19 18:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do $e% fantasys.When mahomad wont come to the mountain.You know the rest.
2007-11-19 17:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Honeylea 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask him.
2007-11-19 17:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋