My husband and I are in our mid 20's and have been married for 6 yrs. VERY interesting in keeping things HOT!
If your wife mentioned a few fetish fantasies would you get freaked out... like asphyxiation, bondage etc...
(keep in mind wife and mother of his kids has ALWAYS been known as the good girl type)
2007-11-19 16:07:35 · 20 answers · asked by ☮ Sprεε 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't hurt to talk about it most guys are open to experimenting. Just be careful...and remember when that bedroom door closes and its just the two of you together, he's not thinking of you as the mother of his kids.
Good luck
2007-11-19 16:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if my wife admitted to an asphyxiation fantasy, I'd freak. See, I'm the guy who had to take two young college girls to the hospital morgue after our emergency room couldn't resuscitate them when their fantasy accidentally went too far. Other fetishes I'm pretty sure I could handle, but not that one. In fact, the very thought makes me reach for the Xanax. *shudder!*
2007-11-20 10:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bondage thing would probably get him curious, the asphyxiation may freak him out! Would me. Just be playful about it next time your being intimate. Have a scarf or something else handy! Good luck!
2007-11-20 00:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by michael w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this VERY different form what you normally do? I would get worried if it has been plain vanilla for 6 years and now you suddenly want me to tie you up and beat you with half a bologna while yodeling.
Ease into "new" things, don't just jump into building your own dungeon in the family room.
2007-11-20 09:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by C>/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bondage is awesome.....
my girlfriend wanted me to pretend to be a rapist and forcibly have sex with her.
Fetishes and freakish kinky **** is awesome. The worst thing that can happen is that he won't be interested in indulging in your fantasies.
If my girlfriend had wanted to take a steamy dump on my chest, I probably would refuse to partake in that.
He's not going to think that you're insane or anything though.
2007-11-20 00:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Laibach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt freak out if it was brought up in the context of keeping things spicy, not as a complaint of a bad sex life
2007-11-20 00:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Charles M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start off real slowly by grabbing his hand and putting it around your neck in a choking manner while your in the missionary position or while you are standing up while he is behind you. i'm sure that he will love it.
2007-11-20 00:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by mrblueeyesandmore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the girl what she wants, a little spice won't hurt (unless she wants it to, of course). You should be thanking your lucky stars you got a woman who is not afraid to tell you these things!
2007-11-20 00:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_in_md 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. Marriage needs to mix it up occassionally to prevent boredom. Good luck and don't choke to death.
2007-11-20 00:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, in fact I would like my wife does!
2007-11-20 00:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by american28man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋