2007-11-19 18:05:13 · 19 answers · asked by roseanne g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
our sex life is fine
2007-11-19 18:18:03 · update #1
Are you really that controlling that you want to tell him when he can touch his penis?? Quit being so insecure. Masturbating is natural. My husband and I have a great sex life and I masturbate about every day and so does he. There is nothing wrong with that. If you bother him to stop he will either do it in secret or it will manifest in some other way like him sneaking out to strip clubs.
2007-11-19 18:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh.................................... your sex life ain't good or he wouldn't be seeking out the bathroom all the time. There is something not quite right here. Some guys are addicted to porn. I have even heard about some guys not being able to have sex without the influence of porn. So........... I hope that this is not the case. If he's not cheating on you or boinking boys then, I don't really think there is much of a big deal. He'll either wear it out or become bored with it. Sorry. I can't give you a time limit on that. Who knows, he may never stop. But then again he could stop tomorrow. Ever talk to him about it???
2007-11-19 22:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by talon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather him cheat? Take the lesser of the two evils let him masterbate as much as he wants!!! Sounds like your husband has a higher sex drive then you do....Maybe you should join him and masturbate while he masturbates!!! On a serious note talk to him see why he is masturbating so much maybe that will help you understand...
2007-11-20 01:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a problem unless you are really bother with it, however I would suggest talk it over and try to reveal the clue and the background his fantasy and the obsession for touching himself. I suggest you both should understand and realize what's good for your sexual life. Maybe you also start doing something that would make realize or express you anxiety over the issue but don't force him to stop. If you do that he will start going disguise...
2007-11-20 18:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Fayaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I answer, may i know how often does your husband masturbate? 'Too much' can be very subjective. For some people who sexually inactive, masturbate once a week might be too much.
If he likes to masturbate but reject to have sex with you, then there might be problem. If not, probably his sex drive is a little bit high.
2007-11-19 18:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by hiroyuki6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a problem? Maybe, maybe not. If you are not willing to have sex when he wants to or as often as he wants. This maybe his way of finding a release for that sexual urge. Would you rather him look for someone else to have sex with or masturbate . Sounds like he would rather masturbate. You both need to sit down and talk this out. Good Luck
2007-11-19 18:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Gunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a problem for you, you need to let him know. There might be a hormaonal issue, but unless he's just not having sex with you, or your not with him there's no problem. Now, if he's masturbating to the point of it interfeing wiht his life, there is an issue.
2007-11-19 18:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if his masturbation is getting in the way of you getting yours or if it's getting in the way of his job, relationships or other responsibilities. If he just masturbates more often than you do, but it is not creating a problem either in the marital bed or with other responsibilities, then perhaps his sex drive is simply higher than yours and you should let him be as often as he likes.
2007-11-19 18:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by some female 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If your sex life is fine then what's the problem? It's his penis. It really doesn't matter what you think, he's an adult and is free to touch his own body whenever he wants.
Yes, I think thinking it is a problem. You should get over it.
2007-11-19 18:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is good sign that he is masterbating not cheating you. try to make sex easy for him. i am a man i am married i have the same problem i masterbate if my wife do not give me what i want. have mercy on your man.
2007-11-19 18:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋