Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2007

I'm a single young woman who desires to be married. What should I expect from marriage? What are things I should work on now that will make my marriage strong?

2007-11-19 07:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by DelightBunnie 6

My husband has a temper! When we argue he gets very angry and says that I need to shut up and usually leaves. He has never put his hands on me but last night he threw (and shattered) the remote control. Is this an acceptable level of anger. He has always been very responsible about leaving before it gets physical but he yells and leaves and nothing ever gets resolved. I don't think that I should have to always conceed to him to avoid any physical abuse. Am I wrong? or should he learn to better control his temper.

2007-11-19 07:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by reynaspoerl 1

i have no car no money and no were to live what programs are out there to help get a appment and money to raise my kids i have no job. i want to stay in wi.

2007-11-19 06:59:30 · 14 answers · asked by chainznwife69x2 1

2007-11-19 06:54:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you call her beautiful, sexy or pretty?

and why dont you call her beautiful?

My husband and i have been together for over 6 years and i think my husband has called me beautiful maybe 3-5 times total!

I know im pretty (not being coincided) but why do guys not call there wives beautiful after being with them for so many years?

2007-11-19 06:54:12 · 13 answers · asked by ladyeve983 2

How did you know? How did you find out?

2007-11-19 06:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating someone we both have children I suggest activities for us to do with the children which usually cost money. Since I suggest am I expected to pay it seems he never takes his wallet out or offers to pay at any time.

2007-11-19 06:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum and dad have been together for over 25 years, happily unmarried.
I don't plan to get married, but of course over time my views may change.
Marriage isn't what it used to be, and if I were ever proposed to I'd let my guy know, "Okay of course I'll marry you but I will never give you a divorce."
Is that crazy?
I dunno I just don't think I need a piece of paper to show my boy that our love is forever you know?
And I don't believe in divorce, hate the word and what it stands for.

Anyway just curious to know other peoples opinions.

2007-11-19 06:44:32 · 8 answers · asked by Penelope 2

What do you think of a 17 year old girl falling for and soon getting married to a 18 year old guy?

been together for a year and 9 months, and couldn't be happier.\

do you think it's too young, or what?

any opinion is appreciated. as well as words of wisdom.

thank you!!!

2007-11-19 06:42:37 · 18 answers · asked by nikkiebushnell 3

-being kissed on the forehead,
-having hair ruffled,
-BEING NAGGED (in reasonable doses)
-talking/laughing together about cute things the kids did
-having wife pinching his cheeks, and calling him "so so cute" and kissing his cheek (in front of his friends)
-being defended or having her stand next to him with a hand on his shoulder when he has disagreements with other people
-occassional drop-in visits to the office...just to deliver a hug/flower
-mild, harmless jealousy
-head in his lap when watching TV
-stroking his head when waking him up in the morning
-showing him off to male colleagues with ideas
-being told she constantly thinks about what they "do" together

2007-11-19 06:37:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should i do my husband and I been married for 2 years now. I want a divorce. He doesn't show me any attention. He comes home form work play the game, talk on the phone and get on the computer. We have talked about this soooooo many times. I can't take it anymore. I'm 23 and he is 29. You would think he would grow up. I'm a stay home mother right now. Our baby is 7 months. I will be going back to work pretty soon. I've tried the sex thing to get his attention and it works only while we are doing it. Then he gets back on the game, phone and computer. I don't know what else to do. I don't feel loved and I told him this. He's famouse saying is "well at least I ain't cheating". What the fu__k. So, "Am I tripin". What should I do. I feel like I to young to be getting a divorce. O, He doesn't want to go to counsleing either. I their for him everytime he needs me but I can't say the same about him. I feel lost. Ii don't know how to handle this...help"??????????

2007-11-19 06:36:14 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 06:27:31 · 7 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2

2007-11-19 06:20:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance cheated on me and now we both just would like to move forward...any advice?

2007-11-19 06:11:26 · 27 answers · asked by lele 2

2007-11-19 06:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've long suspected her of doing this and she has always denied it up until this morning. I went to take my RX this morning and the bottle looked light so I counted them and came up QUITE a few short. I confronted her and at first she denied and finally she admitted to me that she had taken them. I am not talking 2 or 3 im talking more than 20. To cap it off she has her own RX for pain. I am diabetic have have nueropothy problems and arthritis which I take the painkillers for. She has her own RX for her back. A relationship is nothing without trust and now the slight trust i had in her is completely gone! I want to have nothing else to do with her and told her to leave but she won't! Both of our names are on the lease so I don't know what my options are for getting her out. please help

2007-11-19 06:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by JigglyNutSack 1

I cheated on my husband and he found out about 4 days ago. I know what a selfish, horrible thing it was to do to him. We had some issues in our relationship, like his lack of paying attention to me. I know that still doesn't justify what I did. I am remorseful and so very sorry, but he wants a divorce. So he says. But he is sending me mixed signals. One minute he is moving out in December. The next minute he is staying until end of January. He goes from being hostile to nice back to hostile. Should I give him some space, and go stay with a friend? Or just stay at home and keep trying to be nice? This doom and gloom over our house is starting to wear on me, and I am sinking into a depression. Any advice?

2007-11-19 05:53:31 · 29 answers · asked by Friendly 2

It shouldn't matter if my p e n i s is 10 inches. It should only matter if I know how to use it. According to the women I have been with I do. So why do men and women make such a big deal about size?

2007-11-19 05:49:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son's wife took their daughter out of state without his permission. there is no divorce or custody papers as of yet. The police say she was within her right as a parent to take her..so my question is..can he go and bring her back home the same way she took her?

2007-11-19 05:43:39 · 18 answers · asked by desguisedangel06 2

2007-11-19 05:38:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 05:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by michael p 1

A female coworker, is a bully and has mentioned how she does the same to her husband. How come he stays? She always gossips and puts everyone down and many of the other coworkers indulge her. Has no one a spine?

2007-11-19 05:33:25 · 9 answers · asked by cgirl97 4

I was thinking earlier that I needed the computer for work tonight, so I hope my husband doesn't have plans to get online and play cards with his dad.. then I got the mail and saw that 3 of his video games he ordered came in & breathed a sigh of relief in knowing he would be nowhere near the computer now for at least a week...

2007-11-19 05:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

be spending time with the baby not his new fling of the week?

2007-11-19 05:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by soupbone0106 1

What suits you best? what do you think is better?

2007-11-19 05:14:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is trying to pursue him unofficially. I don't know how to explain it but most females have done this before (i stand to be corrected) like talk to the guy pretending just to be friends so you can get closer to him so his guard would be down and he'll feel more comfortable towards you. So that you can get him to know you first as friends then something else can emerge.

Am i just being distrusting about this single female and in fact all single females who try to be friends with married men?

At the end of the day no one can really prevent anyone from doing what they want to do. You can't be a warden in a relationship, all you can do is be the person who've always been. But i want to know should i be wary of her and her intentions?

2007-11-19 05:04:13 · 15 answers · asked by kwng 1

im going 2 get married by a judge, i live in indiana, will the judge marry me if im pregnant? When he marrys me am i emanicpated?

2007-11-19 04:54:54 · 22 answers · asked by PunnkPrincess 1

ok I have been seperated from my husband of 15 years for 2 1/2 months. He comes around little by little, He is not sure if he wants to come home or stay with the girl is living with. So yesterday he stopped by in the am and brought me some money and than he came by again in the afternoon w/ a friend of his. and was talking with me & my girlfriend for about 10-15 minutes and he left. My girlfriend said she can see in my husbands eyes that he is not happy & he is sad. but he made his bed--- so than after my girlfriend left she called me on her cell and said that my husband & his friend were parked down the road from my house for a few minutes and than after she pulled away he left and drove around the corner. whats up with him? why is he acting like this

2007-11-19 04:40:43 · 22 answers · asked by mm 1

if a girl cannot marry a guy due to unavoidable circumstances..should she continue the relationship with the guy just like a friend or break it up,inorder to save the guy from further heart-break.?.

2007-11-19 04:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i look at 360 profiles i often see that women calling themselves sexy, beautiful with revealing pics. also when you see the names on YA, like sexymom or hotwife. you never see this in guys, prettydude or maybe richguy (to show of money?) seems like guys dont need to label themselves like that as if they have nothing else to offer. i always find it so silly when women do this as if they have low self-esteem and only get attention that way. to me that has nothing to do with being confident, because thats something you dont need to put on your forehead. anyone else feel that way about the profiles?

2007-11-19 04:37:08 · 14 answers · asked by not this way 5