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I am dating someone we both have children I suggest activities for us to do with the children which usually cost money. Since I suggest am I expected to pay it seems he never takes his wallet out or offers to pay at any time.

2007-11-19 06:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

10 answers

No, you should not be expected to pay for all of you. I cannot believe that he has not even offered to pay once. He is a deadbeat. I would get rid of him. At the very least he should pay for himself and his children while you pay for yourself and yours. Since you have been paying for all of you he should have done the same or offered to. Why do you continue to put up with this?

2007-11-19 07:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0 0

WHAT!!! He should be paying regardless of whether u suggested or not, atleast earlier on in a relationship the man knows he is expected to his wallet out to pay and if this guy isnt, I would have doubts about dating him

2007-11-19 06:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Why don't you ask him to pay half straight out? You shouldn't have to pay for everything and for all the kids. It's nice once and awhile if he wanted to pay, but you always paying seems like he's a gold digger and getting a free ride for his kids. Good luck.

2007-11-19 07:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0 0

the man is supposed to be paying ! not the woman . that man is cheap , he sounds like my ex bf . always complaining i have no money. that's an excuse. you are not expected to pay all the time. he needs to help you too. why don't you dump him. looks like he doesn't want to spend a penny. he sounds no good to me.

2007-11-19 07:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0 0

there has to be something wrong with you then... you must be sending out signals, like you have a kid, so your doing me a favor.. so he thinks you owe him for going out with you.

I thought you was a guy at first, cause the guy should pay all the time, or almost all the time... that's just the way it is...

Stop going out with him and see if he straightens out.

2007-11-19 06:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Latin G 5 · 1 0

He should pay too. Not all the time, but often enough. Find another "friend".

2007-11-19 07:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

stop inviting him and his kids. if you're going to be stuck with the whole bill, then only take his children with you. otherwise he ought to be paying for at least himself and his kids. it's called going dutch....you might want to explain that clearly to him.

2007-11-19 07:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 1 0

it depends upon pricrise index,rupee value,Gdp etc.

2016-05-24 05:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

drop this free loader as they don't change

2007-11-19 07:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he's a free loader
it won't change

2007-11-19 07:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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