2007-11-19 12:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by corrineperry2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are SO many unanswered questions that make it impossible for anyone to give you an answer that would make any sense.
Ask a judge.
2007-11-19 13:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Arsan Lupin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a temporary custody agreement. Get a good lawyer quick--the best family law/child custody specialist you can afford, and get a separation order in place to freeze the assets as well as spell out some boundaries for custody. Some of this depends on which state you live in, but in any case the advice about getting a lawyer is the same. Don't put this off. If you don't have money, but he does, then come up with some way to charge the retainer and get a spousal support order in place.
In the meantime, you can try to pick them up from school, but he may already have blocked it. If you can get him to agree to let you pick them up that would be best for now until you get something binding filed with the court. Good luck!
2007-11-19 13:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by arklatexrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separated... Have ANY separation papers been filed? Do so, and also stipulate temporary custody during the separation. If your husband removed the kids from the home when he left, then it's not looking very good for him. (But it's not that bad, either, depending upon his excuses.) So you'll want to make sure you don't duplicate any of his mistakes. Do it properly through the court. And get a lawyer.
Divorce court is a minefield for those who don't have the proper tools (like a lawyer).
2007-11-19 13:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Marc X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, on the condition have been no court orders, especially ones that state he has custody or that u have shared custody, i also wouldnt try this if there were court orders that u know are in the works, also if there is a ppo, u would be in real trouble, i guess it boils down to if nothing has been filed in any court either one of u can do as u like, but remember he can do the same, and he can also take them out of the state if no one has filed for custody
2007-11-19 13:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dale T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there has to be a legal agreement, or one between you to to do so. And you need to be on the "list" to pick up the kids. Depends on the terms of your separation, what did you work out? If nothing you have no rights right now. You need to get things in writing with your ex right now. Right now he is considered the custodial parent.........good luck
2007-11-19 13:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by itsdaddyus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible you ran out and left the kids with him and now feel guilty?
Leave the kids in their home and figure out how to negotiate some visitation.
It would be just like an abandoning mother to want to kidnap them from school. Did you once stop to consider what happens after you did this?
2007-11-19 13:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has the actual custody, you or him? If it's u, sure. if it's him, maybe. Do you have any legal seperation papers saying who has custody of the kids? If he has custody and it is in writing, he can have you arrested for kidnapping and interferring with a custody order. Check you paperwork before doind something like this.
2007-11-19 13:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥STREAKER♥©℗† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their is a custody order then no you cant. You could be charged.If there is no custody order and no court dates coming up for custody, then yes you can. Get a lawyer and take it to court.
2007-11-19 13:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by whitewolfhowling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to Family Court & get a joint custody order.
Don't just show up at school, you could be charged.
2007-11-19 13:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by Robert S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋